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Did I blow it with this guy?
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I dated this guy for about 2.5 months and ended it since at the time he was just recently out of a marriage and it really affected things between us. I ended it because I felt like things were not naturally happening especially the physical aspect of it.I didn't speak to him or see him for about another 2.5 months. During that time I liked another guy and went out with a bunch of other guys on dates but none of them worked out. I just recently hung out with him in a group as friends and things seemed to click and flow between us a lot better. He looked a lot happier and healthier than when were seeing each other and he was pretty flirty with me and I still have feelings for him. The thing now is that my friend, being the cool friend that she is got me some tickets to a comedy show so I could ask him to go with me. The show was last thurs at 8pm so I asked him last wed night if he'd like to go. He's a doc so he said he'd need to check his patient schedule before giving me an answer. Well he called me on the afternoon of the show and said he couldn't make it since his last patient was at 6:45 and he wouldn't be leaving the office until about 7:15 and wouldn't make it home until 8 anyway. He thanked me for the invite and said we could get together another time and asked me to call him back. I called and left a message letting him know I got his voice mail and casually said for him to call me back but he never did. I felt so hurt and rejected and txted him later that night and said that I could see he's not interested in hanging out and said that I think I got the wrong idea. He wrote back and said if he really didn't wanna hang out he wouldn't have invited me to go out that night. I called a few days later and left him a voicemail saying that I was sorry for how i acted and I was outta line for my assumptions but he hasn't called back. I want him back but don't even know if he still is/ was interested. Did I blow my chance with him?
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seattleman
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All these head games...You got emotional, then txted your presumption back at him. You've demonstrated some irrational behavior. He probably thinks you're a floozy. If you still have any chance at this guy, leave him alone and see if he ever gives you a signal. Yep, I think you totally blew it. |
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LK96843
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I think he needs to make the next move. Move on with your life. DO NOT contact him - the next move is his. I thnk you'll have your answer within 2 weeks.
Good luck to you! (I hope he contacts you.) |
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MustangMike18
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To be honest with you, you sound VERY desperate or obsessed with this guy. If you REALLY absolutely think he's the one, don't push things or make any assumptions. If I was him I sort of would get the vibe your a little crazy, and personally I don't want that and maybe nor does a guy coming out of an unsuccessful marriage. Just calm down, wait a few days and then call him or text him, or maybe he will call or text you. You are taking things way to fast, slooooowwww down, then send a text or call hm. |
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zero tolerance
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if he was interested he would have done another move by now. besides, he said HE would call. so why did u start harassing him and demanding and interrogating and accusing? i say u blew it with him and now u should cool down and wait till he contacts u. maybe he never will. probably he never will. but at least u will have some dignity. |
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Matt
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You didn't necessarily blow it. Be patient and let things happen naturally. If it meant to be, you will get together and things will be great.
I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED |
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Perigee
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I wouldn't say you blew it. He obviously wants to hang out. So go hang out with him, and see how the vibe is. |
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