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Did he just leave me?

i planned a vacation for our family and he decided to not go but too late cause i am visiting my family. well we promised eachother to work on our relationship and communicate while i was gone with the kids. Its been 8 days and i have not heard from him he is going to work and opened a new account and placed a small amount for the week in the account for the kids and I. not to say we purchased one way tickets cause they were cheaper. WHat is going on??? is he on a vacation from us or is he ditching us? This is the most odd thing that i have ever delt with and embarrassing cause his family is stopping by to see the kids! i called his work and the girl said that he answers all of her calls and the works calls so she is not sure but she will leave him a message!


    




Mommy to Kiara and Lizzie <3
I dont think he leaving you but he is thinking about it. You guys have kids and whatever problems your having you can work out. Divorse is a horriable thing. I do hope this immature act of his stops, I am sure the kids can realize it too. Does he have another way you can reach him? Tell his secretary you must talk to him its an emergency and I am sure she can put you threw. I hope all turns out well for your family and your husband may realize the amazing family he has.


ghengis tron
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gone baby gone... and after the hurt is gone you'll see this was all for the best.


"Lilah"
You should probably be asking HIM this.


Fan
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Well something is definitely wrong. Only he can answer this question honey. But I can tell you that something is definitely wrong.


Stina Lady
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That is weird. Maybe he is taking a break and trying to work things out in his head. But since he opened a new account and isn't talking to you then that is not a good sign.


Badkitty
Unfortunately it doesn't sound very good. I wish you the best. I hope you get to talk to him and find out what he is thinking.


AustinAutistic
yes he did


shelby lynn
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yea, he left ya


raj
call him and ask him


jusswunderin
I really don't know what to tell you. I know it sounds so confusing and frustrating but it makes you wish that he could just come out and be honest with you in what he wants instead of you wondering what's going on. I think he owes that to you and your kids. I think you outta try to figure out a way to talk to him and see what's really going on. Good luck.


Miranda M
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I don't know. You say he goes to work still...confront him there. If he has a cell phone, ask the company to track through the computer system. You can never tell with some people, he might be over it in a few days. All I can say is good luck and may God bless you and your family.


♥ тнє σяιgιиαℓ gιяℓfяι∂αу ♥
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Well, your question is so poorly written that it is hard to tell who left town and who stayed and what exactly is going on. But if he opened a separate bank acct. for you and your children and you haven't spoken to him in 8 days, then yes, it sounds like you've been ditched, dear.


Jennafer(:
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guineapig
What a weenie. A real man would leave you in a dignified manner. Good luck to you and try to keep your chin up. You can move on in life knowng that you took the high ground whereas he is quite pathetic.


TAYLOR M
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yep sorry


singularfruit
It seems to me like he has, or he is seriously considering it :( I'm so sorry


Bill C
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Sounds like you two are arguing about something. I would get home if I were you and get this straightened out. Face it, you're not having a good time on your "vacation", so why are you still away from home?

Fix your house, then enjoy your time away.


Christie C
everything works out for the best!
that is the only thing i can tell you
every situation is different!
-good luck


Truedarkness
Well a one way ticket doesn't sound very good now does it. hm Communication is in order. The only way you will know whats going on.


nikkixo2g
Just talk to him. Send him an e-mail if he is not picking up his phone. Maybe he is just really busy, and if you tell him how you feel, he might realize hwo he is acting towards you. Maybe has been so caught up in work, he didn't realize that yu were felling this way and you need to let him know! Communication is the most important thing in a relationship, so COMMUNICATE with him about how you feel.


Daisy
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Well.. first off - you need to work on your marriage or get a divorce. It is odd that he opened a new account. Nothing like that should be a secret.. when a couple starts to keep secrets from one another- it is the begining to an end!!!! If he is not answering your calls, wait until you get back and then confront him about the whole situation. He should at least answer the calls - doesn't he want to know how the kids are doing??? Good luck, hon!!!


Dave R
Yeah it does sound like he is gone


Alloe
I think it's pretty unusual not to hear from your other half for 8 days. If you two were having problems in the past, he may have just needed a break to think about things. I hope you do get the chance to contact him and work this out. If you are unsure, don't jump to conclusions too quickly. Maybe you can ask his family if they can contact him because you are worried?

Good luck to you.


♥ nice pu***y ♥
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wow i don't think he left you but you gotta find out what's going on.i'm worried for you.hope everything work out you in my prayers ok.


♥The Mrs.♥
Seriously....you settled for a message?

It defiantly all sounds fish, but why would you settle for a message?


Louie Liverlips
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Maybe he's working on his communication skills by not calling.


Dear Prudence
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I dunno but tell me the answer when you find out.


shaneo1988
Well, everything happens for a reason


simm101
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Don't sound good does it, but before you go getting to worried ask one of his family to speak to him.





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