Did he used me???or am i being paranoid?
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Did he used me???or am i being paranoid?
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ok so i liked this guy to make a long story short we went on a few dates and i finally decided to sleep with him sat night ..i ended up staying over the night and came home yesterday on my way home he called me and told me it was great seeing me and he will talk to me later..the problem is he didnt even call back yesterday i ended up callin him in the night and told him to delete my number coz i dont wanna get hurt...did u think i did the right thing???or was i being paranoid??
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Patricia M
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Sorry, but you were in the wrong on this one. If the guy doesn't call for a week, then he used you, NOT IF HE DIDN'T CALL YOU BACK THE SAME DAY!
You need to stop being too afraid, you ran this one off, chill out next time. |
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Happy-2
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Shame on you - you shouldn't be dating anybody but your husband! |
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Scott
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Hmmm, you should probably have given him another day or two. |
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jenny
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paranoid.
if a guy doesn't call you back esp after you have done it for the first time.... wait... wait ....wait. if he still doesn't then there's nothing more to it.
dont feel used - unless he was really bad at it.
With men you never can tell when they are into you and when just after your body. They pretend so well. So you can judge only afterwards. But don't kill yourself. You did nothing wrong!! |
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Black_Rock
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YES YOU ARE PARANOID |
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jude
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maybe u shouldn't have slept with him until u were ina committed relationship, but just because he didn't't call u when u thought he should have, it was no reason to act like u did. when u act like this it u come off looking needy and insecure. i would have given it a little bit more time. |
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Clementine
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you could have waited a bit before jumping the gun. he must think you are cookoo |
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noiamnot
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Yep, ur para.
but he is a bit inconsiderate.
Maybe he was using you, who knows.
But just coz he didn't call you doesn't mean he was.
You should have left it a while.
If he didn't contact you after 2 or 3 days then yes he was using you.
As it is now he will think you are a bunny boiler and will prob gladly delete your number.
Learn from your mistakes and move on. |
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