Did my wife cheat on me?

abcdefg

Jeez, I hope not, but don't jump to conclusions. It's not right that she hides this from you, but it could be nothing just as easily as it could be something. Make sure you think out what you intend to ask. Your choice of questions are important.

sureno

Dump her, she is cheating on you...that's enough proof.

Melissa B

183 times in one month? I would say so. If she's not cheating physically, then she is cheating emotionally. Same thing as far as I'm concerned.

dusmul78

Sorry man.

Amy S

leave her. bc it sounds like she's lying

nin

I'm sorry but this really does not look good at all. Think you have a big problem.

astralpen

Yes, it certainly sounds like she is cheating. If she won't admit it, you should try counseling...or leave.

Jessica

Sounds like shes playing you big time!

luckford2004

It's your marriage, strangers shouldn't make life changing decisions for you!

The Oracle

Hi dude... sounds like she's cheating on you - if not physically, than certainly emotionally. She's not telling you everything she should. She is not living up to her vows to love and honour you by doing all this, knowing it is hurting you.

What I would do in this situation is ask to meet this "childhood friend". Say that if they need help, you'd like to help. Say that if she wants to see this guy, that's fine, but you'd like to be there too.

If she's cheating, she'll have to confess, or else there'd be nothing wrong with you volunteering to help out. If you find out that your instincts were wrong, then maybe you really can help out, and your wife will have proven herself trustworthy. Otherwise, at least you will know the truth.

Good luck. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

uniquechild

When women go out and do this kind of thing its because they are looking for true love and maybe its time you told her verbally how you felt about her, however if she is messing around then I suggest you sue the guy for alientain of affection. See how quickly she changes her tune!

WENDY G

You don't have proof of her cheating but you do have proof that she lied to you many times. Either put up with it or get out!

Id say get out.

Zenthae

It sounds like shes either cheating or doing something shes not suppose to be doing.

I would confront her again, and if she continues to lie. Threaten to leave (or ask her to leave) until she tells the truth. Then go from there.

todayillsee

If she hasn't cheated on you yet, she will. And if I were you I would confront her about it and tell her that she has a choice to make and be firm with her. She wouldn't allow you to do this to her so why should you allow her to do this to you. I would probably call it quits if I were you.

VinceY10

To me that sounds a little shady and i would assume something was going on behind your back. Thats not right. shes obviously trying to hide things from you.

notyochic

sounds like somthin is not right i would do an eyespy before i made any decisions about how to deal with this mess!

Ledos81

You are screwed, She might not have cheated on you but she will soon. You need to bounce out. Yeah I know that is hard but what can you do. I don't even talk to my gf 183 times a month. Yeah you need to leave.

dianesomeone

time for a heart to heart talk with your wife....hear what she has to say ...tell her your feelings about what is going on and go from there....to go out and stay out that late is pushing the envelope if you are married....I would never do that to my husband...he would be worried sick and I would tell her what I always told my kids...anything that you are doing after 1 or 2 am can only lead to trouble or heartache.....good luck

chelexhay

Dump her. If youre not invited they are up to no good. Sorry!

xtremejen01

i would definitely be suspicious because she's lying. liars usually lie because they're covering something up. but you don't have proof so you really can't accuse her. i would just tell her that you're not comfortable with her lying and you're starting to worry because her behavior has changed see what she says

rock star

dunno mate thats a hard one
cant you follow her or get someone to do it for you

Brandy

I'm sorry, she's cheating. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's a duck. If my fiance went out and didn't come home until 3:30 in the morning, I wouldn't care what he was doing, we'd have some real issues. That's just disrespectfu - especially since she didn't call or answer your call. If she didn't cheat (and I believe she did/is) then she might as well have. The question is, what are you going to do about it?

winchester9mm

******** stab her and the sister and the guy srry bout the bluntness of my comments but i hate liars and cheaters

Jeremy

She might as well be, she's treating like dirt. Thats for sure!

frisky

I think she may be cheating but since you don't have any proof don't make things worse by following her around,and acting as if you don't trust her.

lâ™¥ve143~â™¥~â™¥~â™¥

ASK her if she is or confront the guy she was with.

Nissa

She is Cheating!

Hawaiian* gurl

you need proof,so get some detective that does his stuff...pics, records of yer wife talking to a guy you dont know etc.been there, and it works, but dont let it get out of hand. or she just might think your being obbsessive..good luk;)

Lindsey G

I hate to say this but from my exiperience she probably has or is cheating on you with him. If he was just a friend she would have told you and she wouldnt have been talking to him 183 times in one month. Heck I dont even talk to my friends that much in one month and girls like to talk on phones. You might not have proof but you do have a gut feeling and the best thing you can do is follow it. I hate that you are going thru this because no one should have to go thru this. Good luck and I pray everything works out for you.

chmar11

If you have kids try to work things out with your wife if
you have to go to marriage counseling. But if there aren't
any kids and your wife cannot explain what she is doing
or why she came in so late I would say its time to move
on.

Highroller

I don't think I understood all that information, but if I got the gist of it. I would guess she is leaning toward cheating if she already hasn't. Either follow them yourself or get a PI to follow her when she goes out.

Tell her she needs to stop talking to the guy. If she is happily married to you, she will respect your marriage and do what is right.

Screw the heart to heart crap with her, have a fist to face with this other dude. You have his phone number, call him, tell him to stop talking to your wife. He will tell your wife that you contacted him and then she will know she is caught. Then go beat the S*%^ out of the guy for F@#$%^& your wife.

chinabound

Cheating. An interesting question. My wife a few years ago went out one day with her girlfriend, i tried to reach her later on her cell phone and she did not answer for like 4 hours. She always answered or called me back quickly before. I called the gf who said the wife was on the 3rd floor of the library and she would get her to call me. No call. When she did call, i asked her, are you with another man? She said yes, she had met a customer on the bus going to meet her gf, and invited him to meet the gf. The gf she said got called to work, so he asked my wife to go to the cinema to see an afternoon movie. I told her it ends right now, so she called him and told him it was over in front of me. Then i found out she was still seeing the guy. She ended it again in front of me, but then I found out again they were seeing each other. I called the guy, he said they had not had sex, but had kissed, etc. She denied it all, said just friends. She has a very high sex drive and needs, so my thinking was that she was up to no good. Any comments??

Samantha

I think all of you are out of your minds and have nothing better to do than to get on the computer and give out bad advice.It is obvious that you are talking to the opposite sex right now. Does that mean that you are cheating as well? You all need to get a life or get a degree in counseling before you start handing out advice.

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