Do I give my husband another chance?

classic_adelle

no way...theres better men out there that your worthy of...and whats with your best friend..she slept with your exhusband..wow isnt that great

xtinanders

He is full of **** leave him before he hurts you even more move on he is a loser

chocolatechick

First off , I just recently learned from experience that once a cheater always a cheater. I was with my ex for 12 years and gave him chance after chance and he never changed. He tried to use that same excuse that he heard that i slept with some other guys so that's why he did what he did. The fact of the matter is that he just is trying to justify what he did to make him feel better about what he did to you because everyone know that two wrong don't make a right. Either he should have left or if he really wants to be with you he should have tried to resolve it between you two and not with your best friend. I know that theirs kids involved but your not going to make their life easier by constantly taking your husband back because you and your kids will be miserable from the back and forth. If your unhappy this will affect your kids more than not having their dad around everyday.

moonmother2000

He cheated because he wanted to, so I hope you did not give 1 second pause to the story he did cause he thought you did - still not a good reason even if you did. He is selfish and has no respect for you. He came from an attitude that taught him this behavior is acceptable and it is ingrained, so don't ever expect it to be any different unless he goes to counseling - even then, he may not be motivated to change. Guys who grow up with the attitude that all men cheat - that is just what guys do, are not motivated to really give respect to a women - they consider that un-macho.

Please do not waste your time, energy or love on this loser. He is too slimy to clean up!

Dan

Are ya fricken nuts! leave his *** and get on with it I dont know how old your kids are but when there old enough they will understand and agree that you did the right thing

britt

leave his *** alone u don't need no man like that

pisces_32dds

Enough is enough! He doesn't love anyone but himself! Save yourself and your children from this. You deserve and can have better. I have a close friend that went and is going though the same thing. It's not worth it! He's only upset that he got caught. He'd rather have to pay child support for one child, versus however many children you and he have together. It's sad but true. My BF's husband still won't tell her the whole truth! It's really hard on their children, because they are old enough to know what going on and they don't understand why. He has the nerve to think that she should just be over it and he should be forgiven. WHAT AN ***! Don't give in because of finances, or the children... it never works! What happens when the children are grown and gone. Who wants to let their children see that's how marriage should be? or worse that they should be treated and/or treat others that way? You know in your heart what the best thing to do is. Good Luck and Best Wishes!

Alex

Dump him, if you ever want to experience true happiness and well being.

lisastoyroom

Girl,
OMG,get the heck out of there!This guy does not deserve 1 more minute of your time.That's ridiculous,Life is too short,there is someone out there for you,right now,that will treat you and your kids right,You DO NOT have to live your life this way.

wintersun2006

it might not be easy but leave him if he really wanted to change he should of told you everything and your always gonna think hes cheating.

NyteWing

If you have to ask then you already know the answer.

shyshy

if you think he wouldnt chaet then give him another chance but me hell no i couldnt take the fact he got her pregnant that would piss me off more then him chaeting on me you dont need that neither does your kids

DAVID B

Get help and or get out!

NicoleS

You have given him ample chances. It is time to give yourself that chance now. You deserve a better man. I am sure you will be a happier person without him. Your children will be happy too if you are.

me :)

GEEZZZZZ how much **** do you have to take... I mean reallllyyyy? I guess if you took him back the first time why don't you just keep taking him back! FOOL! your kids don't need to be around that crap! Believe in yourself and kick him to the curb for good! what an excuse, "He heard you had messed around", and what kills me is you felt guilty about him saying that, as if any of this was your fault! you need counseling! get strong and let him go for good, not only for your self but for your children!

luvlisteningtomusic

That is so typical of someone who is dishonest to put the blame on the other person. If he thought you cheated he should of confronted you rather then seeking another woman for his gratifications. Find someone else who is going to love you and respect you. I would not call that tramp a friend that is for sure she should of known better, you do not mess with friends ex that is just plain gross.

blueskies7890

Does he want another chance?

If so, and you think you want to give this another go, I would recommend couples counseling. There are some serious issues regarding trust and respect going on here.

Obviously he wasn't being true to his feelings when he said he didn't love you, because he wanted to get back together after two months. He probably feared you would leave him if he told you about the pregnancy.

Despite these issues, there is a chance your relationship could still work, if you believe you can overcome his cheating on you.

The Mick "7"

No! The trust factor is over. Dump him and get on with your new life.

h0w U liK3 m3 n0w

Once a cheater always a cheater. The reason why he says you cheated is cause he is guilty. Life is short enjoy it. There is someone else out there that will treat you with respect. You can hang out there if you want and put you and your kids through.Mental and emotional abuse is just as bad as physical,but the bruises don't go away.Don't ask any questions who cares what he Denys and what is the truth. The truth is he is hurting you and the children. Just leave and take care of the kids and yourself. No one will love you and respect you until you love and respect yourself. Good luck hope things get better

Heidi B

Did you marry my ex-husband??? Oh my goodness does this sound familier. Ok he does not even deserve the thought of taking him back. You are better than that and you deserve a man who will love and cherish you. Not your best friends and everyone else. As far as others I believe there were others and I dont even know this person.
He cheated because he thought you did how old is this man 15????
Honey move on and get someone who deserves you.
Good Luck.

mdlromance

opposite situation, i was married 10 yrs and 2 children, don't give no more chances, get out of comfort zone, he cannot use that word LOVE as a feeling,love is more powerful than that, i know it is hard, but don't do it for the children if you do you will give them the wrong information on what LOVE is, if he doesn't know what love is it is better to be honest,cheating and dishonesty is not love, get out, get a lawyer, don't look back

linback_1970

OMG!!!!!!!!! F**K NO!!!!!!!! YOU AN IDIOT?? I NEVER GIVE SECOND CHANCES ON ANYTHING.............NEVER! NO MATTER WHAT THE REASON IS..........NEVER!!!!!!!

Stacy M

short answer: no.

you better divorce him fast and get your court-ordered alimony and child support, before the other woman gets her child support from him.

Neil G

get rid of him

joe_smo_red

yes give him another chance. he sounds like a nice guy who just got a little confused. have you ever been a little mixed up on how to raise your kids? this is the same thing. don't let your great marriage slip away b/c of something small like this.

mitt w

i think you answered your own question when u ask that question...... a hear say cheat is passing the buck, and covering for him cheating......

Pedro A

HELLO I HAD THAT PROBLEM 10 YEARS AGO, HE GOT HOME AND SAID HE WAS LEAVING, HE HAD SOME ONE ELSE LISTEN A MAN WHO DOES IT ONCE DOES IT TWICE OK THATS AN EXCUSE FROM SAIYING YOU HAVE SOME ONE ESLE HE DID THE SAME TO ME ALSO.THEY GOT MARRIED BUT YOU KNOW I DIDN 'T LOSE NOTHING IMPORTANT BECAUSE HE DOES THE SAME THING TO HIS SECOND WIFE AND WORSE.

Phranky M

I wasted 8 years of my life getting caught up in that kind of game with my now ex...one affair after another, denied affairs, open affairs. I always stayed and prayed for the sake of my children and because I really did love that man. In the end he left me for another women. Left me with almost nothing, don't care about my kids etc.

Nothing in the word is worth your sanity, pride, trust, and self respect.

I learned this the hard way....move on.

dark_rose

seriously, if u want ur life to be an open basket for revelations: go back with the man , but if you want peace!!! let him go!!!! he seems to not be able to change and the fact that ur best friend is having his baby wil make ur life worst

suckowsgirl

We have all been through like experiences and in my opinion you are better off without him. If he really loved you, you would be all he needed. There are plenty of men out there that will love u and treat u the way u deserve to be treated. My advice is to loose the creep. It may hurt at first but think of all the pain you have suffered with him in the past, a temporary hurt is always better than a life filled with heartache.

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