Do I have to belive my husband?

# one

A person that does not answer some of his calls when others are present is a sign of hiding something. Observe if he leaves shortly after the call. That indicates he is responding to the call secretly. Point blank tell your sister-in-law that you found a condom it the car and watch her expression. She may not claim it if it is hers but her expression may give her away. You may try going to where his friends are hanging out and see if he is there. Make up some good excuse first in case he is there so he won't know you are checking up on him. If after that you are still not sure hire a private detective to help you discover where he is and what he is doing. Good luck.

lovely

oh dear.. condom in his car? love is blind but he's cheated u. i'm sorry

wendi_timney

I hate to agree but he is cheating on you it's time to leave
now,he is lieing to you it's not his sister's it's his read his eye's and the way he say's it hun it's over between you
and him.what does your heart tell you?do what's right for
You and move on you need to find someone better then
him....

Angel sent from heaven

OH come on the condom found in the car didn't belong to his sister.He's cheating on you if i were you i'd start looking for more
clues if you really want to know if hes cheating on you.But I know for afact that the condom in the car wasnt from his sister.

seekinganswers36

Where there is smoke there is fire, you need to plan on your escape. Start putting you some money up and get some hard core evidence. Friends and family (especially if they never liked him) make good detectives. Go see your lawyer and take him for as much as you can. If you have children, you need to prepare them.

GRINGO

If you found a condom then probably he is cheating on you. He is not being honest with you. Sit the cheatin husband down and have a long talk with him. You two definitely need to communicate.
If you have the money you could hire a PI but they are not cheap and very expensive. You have the right to be suspicious because of the evidence. He needs to be straight up with you. If he is cheating tell him to hit the street and out he goes. You don't want a man like that.
You deserve someone better than that. Alls I can say is keep your eyes and ears open and keep your mouth shut for now.

cariebear197

duh - he is Cheating! Why would a married man have condoms in the car regardless who drove it? Why would he be concerned about protection if he was 'innocent'?

ladybug

Sweetie, go with your gut feeling, and i think you know the answer to the question......... Not answering phone calls, out with his friends and the condom......... Just watch him, and can you handle catching him with someone else?

It could be his sisters? but the phone calls? get his phone records and get on the internet start looking up numbers.Then pack your bags or let him feel what size your shoe is when you kick him out.He's cheating!!!

nancy c

Dump the bum. He is cheating

ragingboredom

If you found a condom in his car then you've already got your answer. Chances are, he's cheating. I'm sorry.

rach

girl dumb him he cheating on you he is not worth it

rae-rae

If it acts like a duck its a duck! Guilty until proven other wise. I have a friend that does that or he turns his phone off and I know he is cheating.

red dragon

You have your answer sorry

Eryc

how about communication? not confrontation because they alway end up bad. communication.

Neil G

well ask the sister

dlgrl=me

Are you kidding me????? Like it isn't clear already--honey, he is definately cheating on you or getting ready to. You know it in your heart already, I think.
Move on. Get a new dude.

bern

If he doesn't answer his phone when you are with him it sounds like she doesn't know about you either. I would grab his phone away from him and answer it.

Deserae

i may be wrong but i think he is cheating on u

amanda e

hell nooooooooooo why should u

sharonsgiveadamnsbusted

Do not even bother tailing him. It will only hurt you, not him. A liar, manipulator, and cheater never get hurt. They regroup and learn what they did wrong, and work at not doing it again. He is a cheater and using his wife, sister, and friends, so that he can feel better about what he is doing. It does not change what he is doing, just makes him feel better at the cost of others.

beth n

i dont belive him

chigirl

If he is not cheating yet than he is planning to:(
Be strong very strong!!!
Don't yell or break stuff.
TELL HIM THAT CHEATING WILL KILL YOUR LOVE AND RESPECT FOR HIM.Don't blame him if you don't have prove. Go out with your friends more , go shopping or sign up for yoga(dancing, cooking) classes to take your mind of it,
You can tell him that you care and you would like to spend more time together.
You 'll see his reaction and you a smart girl to figure out the answer.

shaikhmohdmusa

Patient pays,Dont point fingers,be self appointed investigator,caught them while in acts or togetherness,believe nobody but God.

phoneybird4u

marriage means trust. either you believe him wholeheartedly or confront him and finish your suspicion once and for all

minus

Yes i think you already know so you have to decide what you are going to do about it. Be sure to be well prepared no matter what you do. If you are going to go then don't just go. Make plans and make sure you are protected as much as possible. If you stay and just keep quiet then there just might be a lot more things come up. If you confront him be ready for the worst and hope for the best. Keep cool and don't do anything just out of anger.

â™¥ Lisaâ™¥

contact cheaters.. sorry but he most likely is.. or get a detective or so some spying your self

lolu1980

he is cheating

msqtech

sounds like risky behaviour to me.

I would get some help and change the options in the household

Good Luck and God Bless!!

Jetty

Do you have a choice, chances are if you haven't caught him red-handed....no need for alarm but if you do, what will you do.?

Jess4rsake

If your husband does not use any condoms with you, I do not believe his sister would be stupid enough to leave a condom in his car unless it fell out of her pocket. Depending on how long ago she was in his car, I think she might have called him to retrieve it, if she is an adult, in order to get it back. You could always ask her if she recognized the condom if it was unused. However, you should look for other signs of infidelity if you already have suspicions because it looks like your husband may be planning to cheat or is already cheating on you.

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