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Do I live in hell?

I broke up with my girlfriend of over four years. She moved in next door with the subject of her adultary, got pregnant within a month of our seperation and now her and her new feller are trying to get me to move by having all the local thugs beat me up, smash my windows and generally harass me. I've tried to move to escape, but the council won't let me so I have to grin and bare it. this has been going on for almost a year and I'm begining to believe that I actually live in hell.
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I have reported this to the police and they can't do anything because the group of people who harrass me are so varied. I've become more a game for anyone who who fancies a pop rather than a specific target for a specific group.


    




Jed
The answer is no,I hate to here about all that.Just keep remembering it could be worse.


Bret J
Your old girlfriend is a *****


SDPMSP
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Call the cops, put a restraining order against them, adn make it when you can sue if anyone bothers you, it can be done, I know!


à„Raver Lunarchick with a tick
here give me your hand.


linz_b
sounds like you do. she's a b-itch and a s-lut. i'm sorry this happened to you.


Gradis
Go out with her mum


Danny E
Move....get away......change your life, location and friends. Get a new job and take up new hobbies. In five years, look her and the creep she's with up and make their lives Hell. Nothing sweeter than REVENGE.


Nancy S
Call the police if they're violating your property.


Grace S
go to the police!


Jenni
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Put up CCTV cameras then go to the police with your evidence though knowing them nowadays nothing will be done. :(


laura j
Record everything that happens to you Write it all down I am sure you will have a case for a transfer. Be persistent and go to your local counsellor. They have more weight than an MP.

You poor thing. Yes it must be like hell now and in life hideous and sad things happen.

Never give up re the move. One day you'll meet someone nice and be happy again.

Good luck and all the best.


FaZizzle
Get the police involved. He and his thugs can and will be arrested for that.


melanie_lanc
i agree with one of the answers here - get a cctv to record all the happenings. Take photos of the damage etc. If they beat you again, call the ambulance immediately, so you have a record.

Alternatively, leaving this place is not a bad idea. There is nothing to cherish about. You may meet somebody who is much more civilised in another place.

There are too many bullying happening this day the police just can't seem to cope at all until a tragedy is reported by the news. So plan for yourself and if possible, leave this place and start a new life. You don't deserve this.

Good luck and all the best,


Michelle T
The council won't let you? I don't quite understand that statment.


punxsutawney phil
You made bad choices dude. If you choose to hump a succubus, what do you really expect.


notgnal
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WHY are you waiting for the council..?..get off your *** and get out of there..!..provided you are working you should be able to rent a flat somewhere...start a new life..life is too short for regrets.!..oh and good luck..!


Grinz
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I do believe this is why God made baseball bats.
Wait for her new feller and smash his knee caps with the bat.

or blow his car up


peachcory12
Dont worry about nothing Nobody can hurt you..Get a restraining order against her or the thugs and they cant come anywhere or so many yards on the property..Thats crazy..shes making me mad..lol and she got pregnant one month after your separation..hmmm thats so rude of her..why cant you move again..? peachcory12@yahoo.com dont let them scare you..


itcouldbeyou
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No, you don't live in Hell and you have the power to change all this.

Do you work? If not, find a job - anything. Once you are working you can find a place to rent that is not council. Then you are in charge of your future - you choose where you live, not the Council or anyone else.

Take control and leave behind this sorry state of affairs.


miss.tified
that's a bad situation, do what i did in my dad-abusing me days:
call the cops

file a complaint

move in with a friend or family member for a few days or weeks

also get better security for your house make sure no one can get in, lots of locks, have someone help you make sure your house is not able to be broken into to.

good luck! i hope your situation improves


yaktur
Borrow a camcorder. Set it up to tape the people causing the damage.

YOU NEED EVIDENCE.

If you catch them, show the tape to the cops.


cooldudemikie
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Man to man, just move. Even if you get a restraining order, you still will have to deal with street thug harassing you on your ex's behalf.So before you snap and end up going to jail for killing someone, just move and keep your head up.Good luck!!!


♄☆enigma☆♄
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what you should do, is every time somthing happens, call the police, then go to the council.
they are harrasing you, they arnt allowed to do this, it against your human rights.
if your local council office wont do anything, you could try going higher. you could contact the local mp and see what he can do for you.
if this fails, you could phone the local paper and get a story printed up, telling everyone about the appauling way you are being treated by your neighbours and how the authoritys wont do anything about it.
good luck.


jedibill11
Sounds rough man, Well if you can't move and they wont stop then I guess the only choice is the cops. Also get another girl, it sounds like the old one will go nuts if you move on, she is playing at some sort of power trip so forget her scanky butt and start dating again. Good Luck,
Oh, yea, no its not hell, its purgatory, cause you cant get out of hell and this situation will pass.


Dawn O
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Yep u live in hell.
What council won't let u??? R u in a lease? if it was me I would go and cut my losses.


Lemon H
well for starters get karate lessons then kick some diereeeree then beat up that person take my advice it works


Candy
I just couldn’t believe what you wrote. I honestly believe that you are living in hell. But you cannot let them abuse you this way. You need to report this. They have no right to all those things that you are saying that they are doing to you. She left you so what’s her problem. You won’t be able to continue much longer if something is not done about this. There has to be someone out there that can help you. You say the council won’t let you move. Are they going to wait until something serious happens to you? Call the police. You need to do something about them and you need to put a stop to this abuse.


Kelly S
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Let me answer this question with a question- Do you live in
communist China?


~Nu Nu~
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Pretty damn close..


tym v
have them charged with harassment or a restraining order put against them. sound like hell to me





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