Do U believe once a cheater always a cheater.?

Kenshin

OH ya!!

don't matter cheater always cheat. feeling don't matter. it's what they do.

hemi_beepbeep

yea, I cheated, but after she did it to me, I dont feel bad bout it, once the trust is gone there is nothing left.

Kevin F

I think cheating when married vs cheating when dating is very different.
I think once you've tasted cheating, it is hard to be faithful again... especially if you are with the same person and they forgave you.

rwade0484

If that is acceptable to you once than chances are it will be again ...somewhere along the way

Lotus

I don't believe that. People grow and change and mature.

I honestly believe that if they stray once they will again because the issues why they strayed in the first place will probably still be there.

Jon O

Depends on the age. If they were a teenager when they cheated, they still have a chance to learn what it means. If they are in their 20 and up in a serious relationship when they do it, then most likely, they will do it again and again.

Luv Docta Jay

What you did in the past is in the past. we as humans make mistakes so that we might learn from them.
good luck with this, but i do believe you can grow out of your infidelitous (probably not a real word) shell, and never do it again. good luck.

Riff Addict

I'm 38, male and have never cheated on a woman that i was exclusive with. I don't believe in it. A commitment is a commitment, period. People that cheat and cheat again will in my opinion, always cheat. It's a sick mental illness and lack of morals.

I broke off an engagement a few years ago because my fiance hooked up one night with her ex/bf and tried to lie about it. A mutual friend told me about it. I left her because I knew deep down that if she did it once, she'd do it again. I could never trust her again so I ended it.

Alex

The only time that i ever cheated on someone was b/c i thought and knew they were doing the same thing to me, although..I have an extremely guilty conscience and that kind of interfered with it. So i was still miserable. I don't agree with people that cheat on others..Its not fair at all. So, in answer to your question, I say, Yes, once a cheater, always a cheater.

CreoleGirl

most of the time, they do cheat again!!

cold_cold_cool

most probably

Sandy

I believe it makes it more likely they'll do it again and in my experience they are only sad because they got caught.

Crazy ace

i believe that if you cheated once even though you hurt them a lot, if the chance presents itself again "the cheater" would go for it

Dilettante

Yeah, pretty much. A leopard can't change its spots.

Sure, some cheaters will never cheat again...but statistically, it's a losing bet, the same way that I wouldn't want my sister to marry a convicted wife beater or leave my kids with child abusers.

I Love Pink!

It depends on the person. I haven't cheated on someone and it hasn't happened to me, but my fiancee has been cheated on with his ex wife and he has done it to a gf in high school. I had my insecurities at 1st because I thought that way that he would cheat on me, but after awhile I realized that it was just my insecurity. If someone loves you enough and if you love them enough with all the temptation in the world, it won't happen

Rosie

I think one can learn from their mistakes

sarahmackey0606

depends i think on how old you are.a guy that gets drunk at a college party and cheats once on his girlfreind is totally different than a married 30yr old guy that cheats.when your young we all do dumb things but someone who is older and has a family knows exactly what they are doing and in my mind will not change.

Usman

I think you are right, once a cheater, always a cheater. But we must not apply this to every individual, who knows they might change? So forgiveness is better in this regard...forgive but don't forget is the mantra i follow whenever i feel cheated on.

Killerdaysie

i think that only with in the same relationship. They may learn from their mistakes for the next person to come around but with the same perosn, the trust has been broken and will be too hard to get back so they think it is not worth being faithful.

Sweet Tooth

Not technically always. But yea cheaters have a hard time quiting. My best friend has cheated countless times on his girlfriend who he has a baby with.

Stephanie

I cheated in my last relationship but mostly because I was on unhappy.I'm not proud of what I did and it makes me sick to think about it.There's no way I would cheat on who I'm with now.

ppv918

I believe we all learn from mistakes. Not everyone that cheats will cheat again. Wish you the best.

M.D.

Yes unfortunately I do.

~!!LoveMheLikeaSong!! ~

my hubby cheated on me not just once but all the time.i guess once a cheater always a cheater or still depend on the person.

paula_5150

no once you cheat , youre going to do it again

clare

i cheated twice on my bf who i did really love, but i didnt feel bad at all, and would have prob done it again had we not broke up. i believe wheni find my soulmate i wont cheat but i cant promise anything

Chloe

I used to be a cheater but I changed years ago. NO MORE! It hurts everyone and causes a big stomach ache. :(

rideabanjopicker

nope, people make mistakes but that doesn't mean they are going to keep doing them. People change! I also think that cheating while dating and cheatin on a spouse are two different types of cheating. Of course, meaning cheating on a spouse would be much worse and harder to regain trust.

sugar_n_spice

I don't believe a cheater ever stops...i have seen it too many times....i believe the cheater enjoys the pain they cause the other person,otherwise they wouldn't do it in the first place!

onlineseeker

no.

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