Do all men lie?

Truth Teller

I am 39 and I have made the same assumptions. It has been my experience so far that all men lie, all men cheat to some degree, and most dont know what to do with a GOOD woman. Instead, they choose to be with women who cheat and lie as well. I guess they are best suited to those that are like themselves.
I honestly dont know if there are any good ones left. Most of the good ones are married, thats why they are married and chances are, their women are gonna hang onto em if they can.
The best advice that I can give to you, as i am in the same boat, is to try to surround yourself with as many eligible men as possible. surely there has to be a good one in the mix somewhere.
And yea, I have all faith that we can meet a good man eventually, however, it wont be overnight. If you want one overnight, then look for the liars and cheaters and all that crap.
Just be patient.....good things come to those who are picky...lol
Good luck girl. Keep that chin up....We aint gonna drown. :)

Obsequious

No they don't. However, in a broader sense, don't we all lie? Just little white ones. But I do know what you mean.
How's your self esteem? Are you attracting those kinds of men for a reason? Stand up & be strong and don't settle for second best!

there are good men as there are good women.. stop looking and love will find you .. If all men are liars then all women are too.. So stop classifying every man on the planet by a few or would you want us to all think you are liars..

up y

How odd.. I have the same trouble with women. They're evil.

Yisi

na not all men are the same.............. i can assure u of that......... but dam wen they get tired of u ....... they dump you....... girls who wanna have a gd relationship gotta be girls that dun open up freely for their man....girls that arent in a haste...........girls who will make there man do alotta s hit before they let him do whatevr he wanha do with them.................a girl gotta make a guy work hard before she let him her............those are the typa girls that wont be cheated or hurt cause their man is gonna treasure them causa all the **** he went through to have her completely as his.....

JRSK007

Everybody lies... come on, be serious.

There are good guys out there, but I bet you weren't ever interested in them.

tryintohelp

All people lie like it or not one way or another for whatever reason sooner or later it happens.Although as far as finding a relationship and a good man, very possible it is just one hell of a gamble shopping for men in this sorry excuse for a society keep your guard up and stay strong
I love my girl completely and that is the truth but terrible things can happen an infinite number of scenarios, so always save a little of yourself at least until your growing old together and have a lot more good reason to risk your entire soul

jude

what kind of a man u attract and settle for has alot to do with your self worth, when we have self worth we won't be fooled anymore by the wrong ones. sometimes it's due to our childhood, and our father, if our dad's weren't there for us, for any reason we may be seeking that subconsciously in a mate. there are alot of good men out there, and alot of bad ones. just have to get to know them, look into their past, don't be dazzled by ones good looks, it's what's inside that really matters. just get to know them before u commit, and if u see something wrong with them, don't marry them as marriage won't change them. good luck.

Erica G

I think all men don't lie!!! The world is so big and there are so many Different types of men out there!! I think give it time and you will find a great man for you!!! There are men out there that lie and cheat just like there are women out there that lie and cheat, that doesn't mean you should give up!!! Just give it time and love will come your way! Trust me!!! :)

beauty1026

Yes, the majority.

DEBI M

i have wondered the same thing. when i turned 40, i found out that my husband of 9 years had been cheating on me with a much younger woman. we divorced soon after, and they started living together.so- i found myself back in the dating scene in middle age. it was so much different than when i was younger!.i wont go into the horror of some of my relationships. the availability of men without enormous emotional baggage was slim. but- eventually,i found a great guy,and while i have not remarried(my choice, not his) i have enjoyed 4 years with him. he is very good to me. he was available,not because he had problems with women, or was incapable of keeping a relationship, but was "waiting for me". take heart, dear lady. while we all lie and do bad things, men are no more guilty than women, and there are still good, decent men out there of all ages. best wishes!

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not the dead ones

stratplayer1967

No, we don't all lie. I was thinking that all women are liars, until not so long ago. Pick yourself up and get back on that damn horse.

Keep in mind that if you keep doing what you have been doing, you will keep geting what you have been getting. Maybe it's time to change something about your approach to life.

Bonduesa

just keep spitting out the pits and you find one........ try one that is just an all around nice guy

Hey you must be dating the same guys i've been dating!

Tobi

Good news. There ARE good menout there. It seems like when we are not really looking for them, then that is when they appear. After my divorce, it seemed men came out of the woodwork and honestly, I thought I was 'it'. Then I started taking time to learn more about these different men and each one of them had the same thing in common. None of them fit the mold of what I had in my mind was the perfect man for me. I know that sounds crazy but it is true. Write down all the qualities you HAVE to have in a man. Not that you would like or that you enjoy, but what you will not settle any less for. When you go out with a man, compare him to that list. Unless he meets all of your must haves, find a way to let him down easily and move on to the next one. I have now found my soulmate and I cannot believe I wasted time on these men that were less than what I wanted or deserved. There are good men out there. The problem they are sitting back thinking the same thing about good women. They have been hurt just like us and are scared... just like us. Have hope that he is out there somewhere and do not settle for less than your Prince Charming.

Only when they're talking.

lilac.

no gd men out there n they all lie n cheat thats y some ppl r gay n the gay ones cheat too so there's really no reliable person besides urself.

T_girl_86

so tired of being used

Ann

There are as many bad men as there are bad women. If you're a good woman, you can definitely find a good man. Maybe you should be a bit more selective in the future and you will see for yourself.
I have a wonderful husband who I love more than anything. I absolutely admire and respect him. He's the best person I know.

~StepfordWife~

There are a lot of good men out there, but unfortunately (for your sake), most of them are taken already. There are men that say I love you and mean it... there are men that will love you even when you are unlovable and don't deserve it.
Keep looking... you'll find one.

GUESS GIRL

Aww sweety dont give up.. its not your mistake that they are such freaks but then not all guys are like that. Am sure the right person is out there for you.. someone who understands how special you are and loves you truly. I wish you the best.

irish eyes

there are good men out there that are wondering the same thing......your distrust could be why you haven't found them. when you feel negative even if you don't show it you tend to draw negative choices with negative energy. try to let the past go forgive yourself......everyone who gets burned (especially more than once) has a tendency to feel angry towards themself for allowing themselves to trust enough to get burned..........then try to give yourself a full life without searching for a permanent mate, usually when people free themselves the right person will tend to eventually follow.

jim's girl

yes, all men lie, it is genetic...
there are good men out there, i am married to one, but yes, he has lied to me, but not about the IMPORTANT stuff, just the stupid little stuff to make him look more like a man (you know, like stuff that he has done in the past) and to answer your other question, not all men cheat, just the insecure ones...keep looking, your "good man" is out there!

sweetpea

I think if you were more secure with yourself, you wouldn't attract the same type of man. Get happy living single, build your self esteem, and you will begin to see more clearly what kind of man your getting involved with. Don't let them pick you, you pick them.

TERRY S

i,m the right man i know where your coming from,my ex wife left me in 93 and now i hear that shes going to divorce number 3 in june of 07here,s my cell number 1 708 341 7841 and e-mail ce.c@sbcglobal.net

Lovebug123

It might just be your choice of men. The next time you see a guy and he makes your heart skip a beat, let that be a warning and move on. Go with one of those, "too nice" guys. They lie too, but only about little things.

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