Do ex's usually do this?

Jack Chedeville

she might call you if she needs to use you... like borrow money, ask you to help her move, take her somewhere, or make another guy jealous.

Stay away from her.

ropemancometh

I had almost the exact same thing happen to me, she gave no reason, I ended up finding out she was cheating on me with some guy at her work.
I doubt she will call. Work through it as best you can...it will take time.

Wondering

You can never figure out an ex. They always do crazy things that don't make since.

CHIQUITITA

Count your blessings Pal and move on with your life!

Mack J

Forget her get drunk feel bad for a few more days and then get on with your life and tell to go to hell if she does call

smcmiss

You obviously felt more for her than she did,she'g got bored and hasn't even considered your feelings in my opinion your better of without her she's shallow, and if she does ring wanting you back she'll do it again an acceptable form of cheating if you like. She's just using you, go out have fun and don't waste your time with her mate.

Been there

Dude, sorry but that is the breaks.

It takes two to make a relationship, and now you are the only one who wants this relationship.

She has deceived you, maybe herself, and was not honest in the sense that she fully disclosed what she was feeling or needing that obviously drove her to blow up your relationship and move on.

You did not necessarily do anything wrong, but you also may not have done everything right. You will never know, and her not clarifying is the last cruel act you should allow her to perpetrate on you.

At this point, you have to accept this relationship is over, grieve the loss of what you thought was a good relationship, accept you may never have the chance to learn what, if anything, you contributed to it's ending, then learn that at least 90% (maybe even 100%) really was all about her.

Then you need to stop doubting your worth in a relationship and move on with your life and develop more disclosing relationships in the future.

Good luck.

NQS

She went to the extent of calling cops,I don't think she will ever come back to you.

"Body language first
Violent language last"

But, she has picked up "violent language first"

Forget her and see what can be done next.

chrissie

Please get on with your life. Do you really want to wait around for a person like this to call? I've been in through the same sort of thing and it WILL get worse if you hang around. All the best

Back in the game...

She's been cheating on you with the other person for some time....forget about her, she's nothing but a tramp...

Loco

no, most likely not, unless she ll feel lonely and will seek attention from you.

sweetgranny06

she doesn't want you and she has some one esle so you should find you some one that does want to be with you

honey

i;m so sorry for your pain. People do break up like that they call it a clean break and just totally walk away. She may come back to you in a few years time by which point you will have somebody who will treat you right. I know it hurts now but in actual fact it is much harder when they want to be friends and it dies little by little giving you hope in the name of friendship this way i know it hurts but it will stop. Just remember to take a day at a time.

Mongo

She was cheating before she left and finally go up the nerve to leave you. If that is the last straw for you file for divorce. If not, then wait a while and see if things change.

wiccanfairiekitty

I think you need to stop worrying about her and what she does, seeing as she is now an ex and is with someone else then it is something you have to accept. Ex's cannot be friends, I'm not really sure why, I think its because of personal reasons such as closeness and such like. After all you spend a long time with someone, and they get to see and know just about everything about you, some people feel the need to distance themselves from that, maybe because they feel like it hurts, after all after 2 years it must have taken a lot for her to change her mind about you, maybe she was working up to it over a long period and just wants to try and work things out in her head. I think the best things is for you both to have space, to try and forget each other, after all the worst thing you can do is to dewl on something like that, because it will drive you insane and you will never know the answer. What you need to do is have time to yourself, to enjoy the finer things in life. To be with your friends. Maybe one day she will want to be 'friends' but right now she feels that it may hurt you too much, because she knows you will want more than to be friends. You need to move on, to get over her and eventually find someone even more special, someone who wil be with you forever, someone who won't walk away, but first to avoid a rebound you have to let yourself get over her, to forget about her. :) good luck I hope it works out!

Live&LetLive

she may have gone about it the wrong way but it sounds like her feeling towards you have changed or she has always been a bit shallow.
try and put it down to experience and move on

scarlet o'hara

Hey i have the same treatment after 4 years and believe me its their guilt!!!!
Move on, enjoy yourself and get a good gal next time.

Kitty

Be grateful that she had removed herself from your life... Good riddance. She sounds like a flake, an immature person who is not in touch with her own emotions, and lacks empathy for other people. This is NOT a person to have a relationship with. Don't contact her, count your blessings, and move on. Learn your lesson, and choose a better partner next time.

digitaldgirl

Move on. It is hard. It hurts. It will heal. Better now than after kids or large financial investments. Give yourself some time before jumping into a new relationship too. Could be out of the out of the frying pan and into the fire. 2 years is a lot of time. There were probably signs it wasn't working.

formerlylunesta@yahoo.com

accept that the relationship is over. there is no simple answer probably why she fell out of love with you. would you really want her back, if she has no explanation for her actions? probably yes, because you are in love with her. no is also an answer...one that hurts or disappoints us depending upon what we want. too much of anything is not good for you...and constant companionship for 2 years is not good. other interests and social interactions were probably neglected and you two had nothing to discover, explore or share because each was always "there". develop your own "things" and others will enjoy the quality time you have to spend with them. also this is a great indicator, that you are not dependent on another for your happiness. its a great responsibility to be someones everything...she can't handle it. no is also an answer...so don't pursue her...that becomes stalking and harassment. check out yourself and deal honestly with whatever trust or control issues you might have. this is just an opinion not a condemnation. each day will get easier if you just let go in your mind...your heart will follow. in the meantime i know it hurts like hell.

gscbirdman

man move on find some one better internet,dances,net work brotha

monkeyface

Without being harsh, I really think you have had a lucky escape.If she is as fickle as you say then even she doesn't know who she wants. People change & that is what has happened here. Move on. Accept that when you break up with someone it means you stop seeing & texting them.

hoyhoydc

you should be happy as heck...you have gotten rid of this girl without any long term effects (like child support)...this guy's she's with has the trouble of her now....she is obviousy an umstable person and now you need to forget her.

YOu need a new doctrine for your emotional life. Try this website ...it can help you do just that...

http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com/

Blunt

What part of "it's over" you don't understand?

Let go and move on. Accept that she is with someone else. Don't be a psyco or a stalker.

Butt

After how she's behaved.Do you really want her to?Ignore her and
mean it.Consider your self lucky.You have had a lucky escape.

amberlyn00

for your own sake hope she does't text/call at least you saw her true colors

cheesy_sausage@btinternet.com

2 stoned 2 read all that will get bck 2 u

fallen angel

What can she say? She probably feels guilty about what she has done. What would be the point of her coming back to you to talk about it - that might only thing the topic was still open and up for discussion, and build up false hope in you when she knows the matter is decided. So by breaking off the relationship cleanly and finally she is sending you a clear message, and is keeping it that way. If she did text to ask how you were, she probably expects that you might understandably reply along the lines of 'what do you care?', so what would be the point in that? Feelings are clearly running high, there's a lot of grief, anger, dissappointment, guilt and jealousy running around, and it's probably best to let a bit of time to pass for things to settle down a bit before seeing if you can resume just as friends with each other. Contact now might only make things worse and yu might each say things you later regret, and ruin any chances of a friendship in the future. Hope this helps.

Dianna D

You are a super guy, I can tell. Run as hard and fast from her as you can. You want a genuine person that you can believe. I don't know how old this girl is but she must have no idea of what love means, and she wants to sow some wild oaks.
The first second your mind starts to go there and think of her nip it in the bud. Get up and do something else, think of all the good about you, call your Mom, go play ball--it will get easier with a little more time.Don't let yourself think of her. Maybe, what a pitiful person to lie to people-a couple of thought like that and "Thank God for unanswered prayers" My son finally figured out what that song means. You will, To. Don't settle for less than you deserve or you will look back someday and say that was only a second in time. Why didn't I take my time and choose a good and faithful woman? And stop thinking its you, or you did something wrong. Don't give here that satisfaction, she does not care-forget her. Nationally I heard there are 8 women to ever man. Get out there and pretend to have a good time and soon you will be. Don't sit at home and weep over her. Sorry, do I sound like a Mother. I still remember well all the mistakes I made.

Life is all about choices. Make sure the next person you want to be with is all you want ahead of time. We all want someone that loves us back the same.

Shannon V

she sounds like a very superficial person not to mention immature. i know you must be hurting and in shock at this point but you will be better off in the long run. move on believe me there is someone a whole lot better than her.

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