Do guys innately and naturally do try to contact or leave?

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Do guys innately and naturally do try to contact or leave?
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I am a girl. And this question is particularly for guys. If you like 2 girls at the same time, BOTH treat you EXTREMELY well. And one of them finally decides to make the decision for you and since you couldnt make the decision. She wrote a very sincere but firm email and told him how she loves him a lot but tells him that it's time to stop everything because she couldnt be in this 3 person relationship anymore. But you (as the guy) really like her too. Would you still contact her? Or just let her leave?

(please answer yes, would try to contact her. or no, will just leave it as is, instead of commenting on whether the guy likes both or not, etc...) thanks thanks and thanks!! :)

Happy-2

Yes, try to contact her.

But the girl should be aware that she doesn't have to permit or accept the contact if she doesn't want to.

PS - I agree with sheloves_dablues above.

sheloves_dablues

This is not a marriage or divorce question. Please post in Singles and Dating in the future.

Positive vibes

Your ultimatum won't tell you anything. He will contact you, but will not let go of the other girl. It's a decision you have to make for yourself.

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