Do guys really go for personality alone?

Lucas B

Sorry to say but, No...

A guys gotta be attracted to a female at least a little physically or the relationship will fall apart.

sureno

Hell no!!

deen

no looks have to play some ort of factr dude

Daniel L

People are attracted to the unique combination of traits in others. Looks, personality and education all play a part.

NONAME

No.

A girl can have the greatest personality this side of Mother Theresa.

But if she looks like Mother Theresa also, then she ain't getting any playtime with me, honey.

ricky

Ah, sorry a BIG NO!!!! If you find one who does then he should be a KEEPER. Actually there are some. I think the sincere ones are more interested in personality. But, beware if a guy uses this as a line. Watch,listen,learn when you meet a guy. My husband seemed like a guy looking for personality when we first met and I did not watch, listen and learn. I had blinders on. He was very good at listening and he learned exactly what to say and what not to say to me, so sweet easy going. WELL it took a long time for the real guy he was to come out, like after we were married and I made some mistakes. The easy going sweetheart I thought he was BLASTED me with everything he didn't like, kept it inside til he got angry. Watch out for anyone who is a people pleas-er,could be a sign of a passive/aggressive personality.Don't get me wrong women/girls can be just as likely to do this too. However usually for different reasons. We've gotten passed all that thank God.

tomboy92064

Attraction starts it... but the reality is without personality there is no substance to build on.

misslikestotalk

are you blonde?

wrtrchk

Just the blind ones.

Alan R

No, it takes more than just personality. There has to be some real attraction to the person.

clamcrunchies

Guys want the same things that girls want in a relationship; they can go fo it alone, just as a girl can.

&d. i. l. i. hawt;

..::NO::..

someones fairy

heck noooooooooooo.

On the upside

Women do not so why would they?

As human beings, men especially are visual creatures. As far as first impressions go, the outer-you always gets noticed first. I am not saying that unattractive people cannot find love but it is usually after they are given the chance to show off their charm, smarts, humor, and wit.

Even if you are unattractive or plain in appearance, you can still present yourself on the outside in a way that makes you beautiful by working out, dressing well, having good posture, and eluding confidence.

It is just a sad fact that in the dating scene while looking for a potential mate men and women alike will let a good book get dusty just because we didn't like the cover.

miss_taurus1

Some do.Thats the most important thing.

Kitty

Whoever told you that, they were seriously lying!

wantme_comegetme

ha ha NO. most are very shallow

Big Bear

No, I think they're attracted to looks first-or some part of the body.

Peace

Of course not, no one does.

pinknewyorkapple

i dont know cause for some reason all da boys that like me only look at the back of me.

kentata

Depends on the guy. For me, personality is MUCH more important than physical appearance. I'll tell you why:

First, let's put it in perspective ... I'm middle aged (40) ... and your prioritites change with time.
Second, physical appearance will change with the years, but personality will stay fairly constant (barring unforseen trauma).
Third, often, women with knockout looks can become conceited, and feel superior to others - while many attractive, but less flashy women are content to search out the best in OTHERS.

One man's opinion.

melouofs

No--nobody does. People who claim looks don't matter are lying. It's just that what each person finds appealing differs from person to person. Personality is important, but so is sense of humor, shared goals, lifestyle, ambition, and lots more...

courtney5839

no a lot of guys just want to get in your pants or go for looks

jesslovesblink

NO! they may lie and say that they only love you for your personality but deep down they have other reasons, such as body parts! haha

baby_gurl_20058

some do and then some dont even care if ur dum or smart they just after u for ur looks or ur top or bottom

untameablewild

No. Within 10 seconds of meeting someone, you have been judged. It's a human instinct.

Mike Oxlong

Hell naw; looks are #1 and personality is a close #2. I'd rather date a mediocre cool chick than a hot chick that's a b*tch.

poppabear1981

Only if he is blind, same for women. Initially all human beings, and all other mating creatures, instinctively sum up weather or not another is going to be a good choice for procreation. In females breasts for nurturing offspring, good shape, no deformities, all around good genetics. In males musculature, to indicate they will be a good provider, over all health etc. Unfortunately our survival instincts have pre programmed us to an extent to be attracted to alphas the great thing about being human is making the choice to ignore base instincts and delve deeper into ones psyche. The greatest thing about having cognitive self awareness is you can choose to be attracted to traits not tangable by less evolved creatures. The downside, outside forces such as relationships with parents early romantic encounters , can heavily and at times adversely affect the traits one is attracted to. "Love, its a b@%&h no."

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