Do i leave my wife for my girlfriend?

Mock-mast

You have a girl friend who knows you love your wife? She knows what she got into. Leave your Girlfriend, Confess to your wife & face the consequences

spooks32003

hi, why don't you stop seeing your girlfriend for a month....then try and spice you marriage up tell your wife you love her buy her nice things and take her out for meal ect, try and find that spark of passion that attracted you in the first place, if after a month you still don't want to give your girlfriend up then you will have to leave your wife, it is unfair to keep both women hanging on when they could be happy in another relationship where the guy loves her and is faithful

MISSY G

you can't love them both , or you would know which one to choose, you just want the best of both women you are selfish. think about your wife, what if she did the same to you how would you feel.

spiko

Is is love or lust?

What if you do leave your wife for your girlfriend and then sometime later you find someone else what then?

You sound really sad and pathetic!

sunshine

god you make it sound so trivial like you trying to decide what you want for your tea tonight!

are there children involved? have you attempted to salvage whats missing in the relationship with your wife?if you haven' then maybe do that first and forget the other woman. if however you've tried all those avenues with your wife then maybe it is time to call it a day... its not fair to be stringing along 2 women at the same time.

punkin

because you have no character for if you did you would leave a relationship with honesty instead of cheating because you want to.

herbal ashtray

You dont know what love is.

John *

Go ahead and leave your wife. But keep in mind, your girlfriend is going to leave you later on for the same reason you leave your wife now. I have no pity on you for being unable to keep your vows.

BabyDolll128

If you love your wife you should try to work things out with her work on your problems go get counceling before it is to late

amazing_sparkle_girl

You need to ask yourself a lot of questions that only you have the answer to.

Why did you marry your wife?
What has changed since your wedding?
Why did you need to find a girlfriend?
What do you want your future to look like?
Will your girlfriend still want you if you leave your wife?
Will you regret either decicion?
What does your wife deserve? A reformed husband who has decided to put everything into the marriage or a life away from the man she trusts that is betraying her?

Only you can make your decision but respect your wife.

could be the old *the grass is greener* thing. But since you are being a schmuck why not go all out and leave your wife for your girlfriend, My only advise is to her, if he did it once he will do it again honey.

sAnn

wew..dun leave ur wife,,!i think u should leave ur gf..u know..ur wife is not guilty..u`re not supposed to do dat to her..u`re guilty to her..n u will be guilty to Him if u leave her..noThin may separate u both except death..remember dat..?i think u can try to reconcile with ur wife..spend more time with her..n i know..time will tell you dat ur wife is the best..

ribena

you have just answered your own question

S19SER

Your just a typical male and you deserve niether your wife or your girlfriend. Marriage is a comitment and if you werent willing to commit to your wife you should never have married her. You are what gives men the name they get. your a disgrace! you should be ashamed of yourself.

mom_single_sexy

only you can answer that question. I say leave your wife because she deserves a man who does not cheat. Also, your right if you were happy with her you wouldnt be cheating in the first place.

Fader's Girl

the big talk time i think!!! speak to your wife about your relationship.

Label Lady

You are not unsure you are just greedy. Tell them both and let them make the decision for you.

steve r

you chose to marry your partner so you should stick to your vows.......

whatever you are doing now are going to be wrong. firstly, repent and secondly, get to know yourself what you want first before deciding cause you don't ever seems to know yourself.

King of Torts

Firstly, you as a marrried man is not expected to have any affair outside your matrimonial home because this is unfaithfulness. It would be very wrong for you to leave your wife just like that. Don't forget your promise to her when you got wedded that you will be with her "for better or for worse". It is very impossible to love two people equally. You will therefore love more than the other. and I suggest you should love you wife more and don't be unfaithfully to her. Don't foget the truism that says "A bird in the hand is more more than two in the forest." Stick with your wife. You will sooner or later wear-off from the feelings you have for your girlfriend. Cheers

homes

Your a double minded man unstable in all your ways.

Find your true identity and stick to it. Don't let any other woman change your mind.

Stick with your wife and re-concile your confidence in yourself.

tinaturner

keep your wife,the girlfriend will never compare to your wife.

Go get counseling and admit to your wife what youve been doing and face the consequences of your own actions....its for the best interest of hers and yours.

aunt_beeaa

What happened to the commitment you made to your wife? How would you feel if your wife was telling you she had a boyfriend? Would you be so unsure then?

Grass might seem greener on the other side of the fence----becareful when you cross over to the other side of that fence---because what you perceived as grass now has turned out to be thistles and weeds that were camoflauged to look like grass!

In other words----when you play with fire of an extra-marital relationship expect to be burned and scorched when the fire goddess (wife) finds out!

If you directed your energy into your marriage as you have sneaking around to see the GFRIEND----you would have one heck of a marriage---

CUT the ties with the GF and work on your marriage with the woman that stupidly said I DO to YOU!

â‚Sun_Is_Shiningâ‚

You're right, if you really loved your wife, you wouldn't have cheated on her.

By the same token, if you had more respect for people in general you wouldn't have had an affair and dragged a third party into your unhappy marital situation.

How will the girlfriend ever be fully able to trust you, knowing that you are capable of cheating on your wife in the first place? Maybe it is only a matter of time before you do the same to her.

Out of common decency, the right thing to have done was to have left your wife before starting with anyone else. I guess the lure of the forbidden was too great for you.

What is your own self-worth that you decided to do this, not only to your wife, but to yourself, and to this other woman?

So, do the right thing. Make a choice. Make a choice that you can live with, with as clean a conscience as you can. You're a grown-up now.

Mr 360

you leave your wife then ur unfaithful

dnt forget ( to have and to hold )

you leave her for ya gf and ur doing so wrong

AlexanderE

NO!, you don`t love them both, you`re scr****g something new and allowing your d**k to take control, you`re married, and if your girlfriend knows this then she must be some kind of woman.

cheyanne

in the first place if your married having a wife where is the
girlfriend suppose to come in? you should not even have a
girlfriend in the first place if you have a wife. girlfriend and wife
dose not mix in the same sentence. what you need to do
is spare your wife, let her go and be with the girlfriend or
leave the girlfriend and do right with your wife. if the girlfriend
was any kind of woman she would back off or encourage you
to make amends with your wife. what goes aroung comes
around for people like your girlfriend.

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