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GirlinNB
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I would have broken the laptop over his head. Good going girl!!!!! |
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Black Magic;
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High five |
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lou b
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Way to go. And yes.....rip his head off too. |
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Society Dweller
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Just because these women are in different countries, doesn't mean he is not guilty. If he's doing it to foreigners on the internet, who's to say he's not doing it to the chick behind the counter at the local coffee shop. You need to nip this in the bud now. I had the same experience with my wife, and it didn't turn out pretty. When I confronted her about the internet chatting, she fessed up to ALOT more. Good luck. |
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SoSurreal♥
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forget the lap top - break his head! |
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NeoFrehley
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Which head? hahahahahaha
He definitely needs an ultimatum..... doing it online is no different than doing it with a live person. It's inexcusable! |
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liddabet
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I can understand your anger. You will have a decision to make now. Can you remain in a relationship with a man you cannot trust? What do you need from him in order for him to ragain your trust? And the biggest question is - will he be willing to do what's necessary in order to regain your trust?
Know that you can't control this man - all you can control is yourself - and your actions.
if you don't have kids - the decision is just about YOU. You are not responsible for anybody else. If you made babies with this man - you'll have more to take into account. Split homes are not always the best for kids - but sometimes they are better than an ugly hateful home.
Work through the anger. It will take you to a better place. You'll be able to think it through clearly soon.
Meanwhile - don't rip off his head. That would be messy - and you'd be left to clean it up. |
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marymouse26
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Well a bit extreme. Here is a little story
One day a man came home to find everything gone. The furniture, dishes, beds, everything all taken. His wifey was nowhere to be seen but a light fluttering caught his eye. A note that read. "Now you are single, enjoy." Attached to it was a set, in triplicate, of divorce papers... |
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lalalala:)
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Yea rip his head off ALL the way!! GO ahead! Do it!! I am very sorry for what has happened!!! |
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misscancer08
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Oh my goodness, you sound like me. I found a web-site called Black Planet where my bf put up a dating page, stating he was single and lived with roommates. We are engaged and live together with a 4 yr. old son. I threw that laptop at him hard as I could. He doing this behind my back and in our house. The respect is definietly gone and I refused to put up with it and I suggest you do the same. |
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Royalhinney
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My vote is "yes", rip off his head.
He's looking...you know that, right? Him telling other women that he's not married means that he's fishing. |
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Danielle
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good job..lol...I know this isn't funny but can't help laughing because I would of done the same thing...if he does it once he will do it again..sorry.. |
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Georgie
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Something is up with your marriage. There is something missing , and it might be easy to fix. Take charge, decide what you want out of the relationship and suggest some kind of action plan. Night out to talk about what's bothering either of you, a book ( relationship rescue) etc.
Usually things go to hell when you just let them slide. If something is up better fix it while it is fixable.
A set of rules is also fair. It is disrespectful to portray yourself as single when you are not and usually it means you are looking for trouble. |
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holykrikey
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I would have to say yes. Here i stab you and then say I didnt mean it. George bush takes over a country and then says i was just fooling around does it make it exceptable HELL NO. You had better get one hell of a make-over for this one. FIND A GOOD SPA |
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Happy_Bappy
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I think he is immature and probably not ready to handle the lifelong commitment of marriage and maybe needs some help with that. I think your behavior screams childish and immature as well, which won't help the situation at all. Both of you grow up and get ahold of yourselves. Otherwise your just two spoiled kids playing house. |
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clints_wench
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What is it with men and foreign women? My fiance left his ex wife for an Austrailian 6 years ago.... |
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Joe
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Yes you should rip off his head. But if the lap top was worth more than 3k then that should be enough. |
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HappilyEverAfter
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If he wants to play games, then return him to the pound - he's not commited to the relationship, I mean, wow, what a joke - hey, I'm single? That's not funny, it's an insult to the vow you both took. You did the right thing, he's lucky you didn't push him out right then. |
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Stefka
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Understandable you would want to chew him out. Not the lap tops fault, though. |
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Rudi A
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I could imagine what you would do if you caught
him cheating. |
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SanPatrick 0305
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I think you sent a strong enough message when you smashed his laptop. I hope it wasn't a new one....OUCH!!!
Seriously though yall should sit down and TALK about it so it won't go from bad to worse. NO YELLING because it won't help.
Good luck! |
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Nunya
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I'd rip off his DI**! How disprectful of him. Obviously he has very little regard for you. Two can play at that game, can't they? |
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kitkat
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Over his head I hope... Yes rip his head off too he needs to remember to never do this again............ |
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mfupipoet
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I say good job on breaking the laptop! But I wouldn't go ripping off his head just yet. He might have just been having fun. I'd worry about seeing him flirt in real life than online. Oh yeah, and be sneaky and check his email. LOL |
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fireball226
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that was not cool since computers are expensive....why not tell him if he doesnt stop you will leave....see if that helps. |
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precious lap top.. |
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arkiegirl
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I can see how you would be angry and hurt over what't you've found out. I would be too..
However, breaking his laptop does not solve the problem. There is something deeper going on, something that is causing him to seek women online. You need to talk with your husband and find out why he has been doing those things.. Breaking his computer doesn't mean the problem ends there.
Of course, there is a slight chance that he really was just "fooling around". I've known guys who are into that, and they just laugh about the woman who fall for what they say. They act like it's just a big joke, and nothing more. So, I think it could be possible that it's nothing..
But, being as he is your husband.. he has no reason to be talking to random women online. He has you to talk to, and to spend time with. So regardless of the reason, he doesn't need to be seeking out other women to talk to.
Tearing up things, isn't the way to handle any issue within your marriage. You need to communicate with words and feelings, not by breaking things because you are mad.
Just talk to your husband, and hopefully everything will work out just fine. |
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A. Roman
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It is probably true he was just fooling around
But fooling around becomes reality someday.
YOu shouldve been infuriated.
But you also shouldn't have takin it out on his lap top.
bad bad bad |
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