Do men generally not like their wife to use toys or the hubby to use them on her?

Cyclist 2300

some men are afraid that the wife..... will like the toy.... better than what he has.

Jen

I think guys think.. why use toys when you have them you know...

..Nay..Nay..

i tried to get into the toy thing and my fiance wasnt having it..i think he feels like he should be able to satisfy me and i shouldnt need a toy...

its dumb if you ask me.

Darla

The toy makes them feel inferior, or as if their not good enough. All that male ego and pride :)

Sherry F

It's the size thing with a lot of men, tou have to admit some of them are whoppers and he's afraid to follow thinks you can't feel him right after using one of them but we can it's all in their heads

MinorThreat

It's hot to use them while your bf/husband watches

Robert

She uses them on herself and I use them on her to enhance the foreplay.

John M

My guess would be a man's aversion to it could be due to a feeling on his part that it means he isn't big enough or can't satisfy her with his own "equipment". If he updates his skills, he may find she loses interest in toys, regardless of his size.

David R

A lot of guys are insecure and feel like if thier wife needs a toy it means they arent man enough to satisfy her. I like to use toys on my girls i feel anything that help them hit the big "o" is a plus.

quadstack72

they probably jealous that they cant get the job done haha

Bob J

They totally gross me out.

Na say der

If he is away and she has the itch for it, then why not? For the man to use it on her, she'll get it from both ends!

jzfox

It's a stupid inadequacy mindset they get into. They somehow feel threatened by it and that somehow they are being replaced. But instead of being jealous of a toy, why not use it on her. It adds to the excitement and they don't really want to replace you with it. If anything, it adds to the excitement level for you both.

GA Girl

I think it's really yummy to have my husband use toys on me, or for me to use them and let him watch, but he doesn't like it. I asked him why and he said he should be able to do that for me without toys. I think some men are threatened and view "IT" as competition.

A Large Mammal

me likey.

wade orchid

doesn't matter.... I like for my wife to use them when I'm with her.... also I like her to use them while I give her oral ....very naughty...

ItJustMe

maybe cause they think they will like the toy more then them...lol....but i would think most men would love to watch there wife's play with themselves!

jay k

Each man has different views on this and other things.

The guys who don't like it probably see it as competion, i.e. they can't do the job by themselves. If you want to put yourself in their perspective think of your boyfriend looking at nude pictures in a magazine while you are going at it and see how you feel.

Larry F

Doesn't bother me either way. Just to spice things up a bit, I even bought her a 'toy' to play with.

Charlie Brooks

I love bringin some toys into the mix. if a guy were opposed to it i would imagine its becuz he thinks hes not sufficent enough and that she needs toys to get off and that wouldnt be good for his confidence

noeusuperstate

I get really cross when she plays with my Dinky when we're in bed
lol

benitocanadian

I have no problems with the wife using toys, with me using them on her, or with her using them on me. I think each person is different when it comes to this.

Beautiful Disaster

I think it is an ego trip with some men. Honestly. Most of the ones that dont like it have issues with their "personal" manhood.

panda

my husband thinks it's fine and even fun sometimes. he knows he doesn't have to be intimidated by an inanimate object.

Missy

He likes it.

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