Do these women annoy anyone else?

â™¥Spiky Sandyâ™¥

I agree with most of what you were saying, but, I look good for me. I don't dress like a 17 year old and don't dress trashy. I've been married 17 years and still care about looking good in my eyes too. I don't try to get other men's attention, because I have the man that I want and don't care about what another man thinks of me.

fatgirl615

They don't annoy me. I think all women, married or otherwise like to feel desirable. Besides, the advice that I heard about marriage that seems to work is, "Whatever you did to get him, do that to keep him." If these women dressed this way before they were married and continue to do it, maybe their husbands like it. Who wants their hot wife to turn into a sloppy couch potato?

cyaniDe91

no your not missing anything. im not sure if your referencing your wife, girl friend or a close friend, but most girls are like that. myself being in high school i see it around. eventually you realize it's just for attention or they like to wear it. also make up can indicate class and superiority.

your true to a most certain extent, but dont let it get to you. if you want to, bring it up subtly and handle it with care :)

Hollynfaith

I think you are missing the bigger picture...at least for some of us women. I'm a mother of 5 in my 30's. Four of them are boys, two of those are teenagers with friends who refer to me as the "Milf" when they think I'm out of ear shot. I do not wear short skirts, a pound of make-up, or obsess over myself, but I do take care of myself. I owe that to my husband who does the same for me. With four boys, it's hard not to stay in shape. There are morning when I literally get out of bed running just to start my day. Yet time and time again, I get lumped into that same category you are speaking of. Yes, I look about 18, I get carded when I buy a bottle of wine with groceries, I can be with my husband and children, in a resturant and I draw nasty stares from people as they think I"m shacking up with an older guy to play house. I'm not sure wether I should love my mother for the good genes she passed on, or curse her because of the way society sees it.

With that, I say, if you don't like it....just don't look. Ther are far greater things in life to worry about honey.

SwordDancer

it annoys me too....

Aila

yea i hate those girls it's like go see your husband and if ur not married find a man that it's not illigal to date

User Name

i have to admit, it does concern me when i see these married women dressing up that way. it does seem as though they have others to impress other than their hubby. lingere is for impressing hubby... dressing scandolus outside of the home is for impressing those outside of the home.

sometimes these women started their life too soon (ie- marriage, kids and houses) and miss the part of their life they never allowed themself to have... they seem to be reaching out for what they never got to experience.. is it right? if there are still children in the home, no. if these women are single and without children in their home, what they do in reguards to finding another mate really is their business... just as long as they do that in bars or other singles areas, not in the doctors office, lol.

cream city chick

I think your generalizing women who want to look good for their own sense of self with women who are looking to get attention because they don't get it from their husband's or boyfriends. My point... don't judge peoples motives.

MichM

I totally agree!!

It irritates the hell out of me when grown women try to be sweet 16 again. Give the girls a break!! Let them have a chance.

They are done with that part of their life but they want to relive it!!

They look really unattractive and shameless. It amazes me!!

My brothers mum in law is exactly like that and it bugged me so much i could kill her.

Anyways havent heard from bro and his wonderful in laws so good riddance!!

Sen

My feeling is, live and let live. If that's what they want to do to feel good about themselves so be it.

melissa t

Have you ever thought maybe they arent worried about looking nice for you or other men, maybe they look nice to keep their husbands interrested. Its the women who let themselves go because they got their man that annoy me. And usually they are the ones who dont get to keep their man, because he will find someone who does care about their appearence and leave the frumpy housewife behind.

*sparkle*

i no im a girl but women like that are soooooooo anoyin i c it all the time

waterlily750

my aunt robin did that. thats how i went from having my uncle steve, to my uncle bill. she met my uncle bill online, they had a few dates, and now they are married. i used to live with aunt robin when she was married to uncle steve. he was abusive alcoholic meanie butt. im glad she got rid of uncle steve. uncle bill is funny and does magic tricks for my kids.

spillin paint

They aren't wearing those things to impress you. The do it because of how it makes them feel. Would you want your wife to dress like your Mom even if she's younger than Cindy Crawford? You would want your wife to look damn good for you. Anyway, she does it for how it makes her feel, not because she wants to be hit on.

Lisa E

I think those kinds of clothes look like crap on a teenager. I sure don't want to see them on a woman who is ATTEMPTING to recapture her youth (and make no mistake...men do it too). I'm in my 40's and there's NO WAY I'd do that.

As far as being married goes...that makes no difference. Women (contrary to popular belief) don't dress up FOR MEN. Sure, there are the ones who do but they're few and far between, and they're the ones everyone, including other women...point and laugh at. Most times...women dress nicely because they just feel more like being in a party atmosphere if they're dressed for a party.

butterflyangel

i get where youre going with this one and i agree for the most part. but sometimes i dont think its to attract other men, i think theyre trying to feel good and to compete with younger women and to have women their age look up to them or to be admired in some sort of way. sometimes its trashy and you wish it just stops but hey, whatever, its their bodies

Shanna

Women are different than men in that they dress up for themselves, not to get attention from other men. Men want to look good to get attention from women. Part of feeling good about being a woman is feeling feminine and pretty, not necessarily getting hit on.
I have been married 8 years and I dress similar to how I dressed when we met. Not, trampy, but not sloppy either. It's the same way that just because you are married, it's not a reason to gain 200 pounds, so why would you want to look unattractive to your husband and dress like your mother?
It is funny when 50 year old women dress like they are 20, but if that's what makes them and their husband's happy, then to each their own.

desperatehw

I'm not sure why you are even obsessing over this. Live and let live, I say.

deeromper

maybe it makes them feel good to dress how they do ! and maybe they need to feel good ! it does not mean that they are flirting and or wanting to be with any one other then there husband !in some Cases that is !

daljack -a girl

You're missing something.....but it would take too long here to try and explain it.

Just a clue.....looking good is more about how you feel about yourself.....and not so much trying to attract a man.

thenewgardner420

I know someone like that. I find it very annoying

none

you must be gay.

and I dont mean happy

grayeyes4u

I'm 50 and still in my gothic mode

Proserpina

I don't think they're nessceariy trying to get the attention of other men or teenage boys. Perhaps theyre just starting to feel old for the first time, though they might still look young and still have the figure to, pull off the brizilian cut jeans look. So maybe they're worried that if they don't do it now they're forever lose the chance when they get a bit older. Kind of like a "mini not yet mid-life crisis". People have the right to look nice even if they're married. I mean why do bald married guys use wigs, are they trying to snag a younger mistress? :p

Private P

I find it pathetic. And, 40 is NOT the "new 30", if that were the case, then DEAD is the "new 80"

Women AND men need to get real, and stop trying to be something they are not, and work on their inner beauty, that will make you all irresistible.

I totally agree with not looking like a "ho", and being a respectable married woman.

Barbara

Well...think it is kind of in poor taste, just like lecherous older men in sports cars going after younger girls.

But annoying? I don't know about that...I think it is kind of funny actually. She is probably not getting enough attention at home, that's all.

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