Do u think its ok for a married man with a 8 wk old baby to go to nude clubs if its someones stag party?
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Do u think its ok for a married man with a 8 wk old baby to go to nude clubs if its someones stag party?
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OH NO HE IS NOT TAKING THE BABY, I JUST MEAN HE HAS A LITTLE BABY AT HOME, SORRY X
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Katie
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No, that's trashy. Even if he didn't have a baby I would still be pissed because he is a married man. |
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just browsin
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yeah |
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Sarafina
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No. I don't think it's ever ok for a married man to go to a nude club. |
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Aaron T
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let the man be a man |
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franfifi@sbcglobal.net
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I have heard of these stag parties turning in to more than they should. I wouldn't like it. I would discourage it if I was You. |
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Stoo73
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If it's a one off for a stag night then that's fine. Any more than that, then it would have to be a no. |
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Danae H
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i don't think that it's right, because when he got married, he promised his wife that she would be the girl of his life, and he should only show his "parts" to his wife, not any other girl that he meets in the club. |
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sashtou
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Not if it gets in the way of his responsibilities and your relationship.
If, say, he has never been to one of these before and it doesn't 'get in the way of things at home', and he isn't going to get plastered and behave stupidly and jeopardise things, then it might be Okay, I imagine.
I've never been to one of thes 'things' and have no desire to ....seeing them as a pretty childish way to let of some steam of macho behaviour.
...............(yawn)
Sash. |
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rooney
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ok I thought stags are horses, maybe I'm confused. Are you talking about a bachelor party?
I guess it depends on who the groom to be is and how close they are and where in the heck is he going that they have totally nude chicks, that's illegal, isn't it?
see, the problem is is that if HE thinks it's ok and wants to go than that right there is the issue, you can't stop him from what he WANTS to do. Yes, you can physically not "allow" him to go but if he's not a man that CHOOSES not to go because it's against his morals/ethics/self respect etc then you can't change that. My husband and I struggle with this, he doesn't ever go to strip clubs but sometimes he acts as though he is still single with his social life and wants to hang out with the guys every night if I let him. He himself desires to go places and be out all night and after fighting and fighting about it I realized there is nothing I can do about his DESIRE to go, I can't change what he feels! I just gotta be a stronger person and pick up the slack and get up with the kids in the middle of the night and in the morning, that's why I think women are stronger and men are weak! |
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England-Manchester
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No i wouldnt be happy if i had a husband and he wanted to do that |
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stealyourbike@ymail.com
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This would be entirely inappropriate. He should wait until the baby is at least 10 weeks old. |
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giggly nurse
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well I suppose the real question is, do you trust him to go out to a nude club?
Its not like he does it regularly right? its just a stag party and its not like they happen every weekend....
Trying reverse the role in your mind. If you were going to a hen party and you knew there was gonna be a male stripper, what would you do? |
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retox
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If it were my husband and I had just given birth to a baby I would rather that on this occasion, he would turn that particular invite down. |
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Happee
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This is sooooo tricky. I'd be very annoyed and probably upset, and if it was a normal night out then it would be a big fat NO, but since it's a stag do and he probably doesn't have a say, I'd talk about it with him and tell him that you don't feel comfortable with it, if it's a very close friend that's getting married then you'll probably have to grin and bear it, try not to make a massive deal out of it.
I'm surprised the bride is ok with it, I would be fuming if that was my partner's stag do! |
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heavenlyhotchild
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if he letting you go out to the male bar next night |
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trick1us
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maybe he should be home with mommy and baby spending time bonding and making special family time |
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Cambria
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If it's okay with his wife. Personally, if it were my husband, I'd be fine with it. This is also considering that this is a once in a great while thing and he doesn't -always- spend his time going out to clubs and such. But seriously, why not? Its one night out at his friend's stag party. I would also expect that if my friend were having a party, he would be okay staying home with the baby and letting me go out if I wanted to. |
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dougam
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because its a stag do i suppose yes, but even speaking as a man i understand that you will feel pretty horrible about it, especially as your hormones just now will be racing around after the ordeal of childbirth. can you talk to him about it rationally and explain any concerns? i know that it is a very difficult time for a woman after having a baby and iam sure you dont feel your best so the tholught of your husband going to this place must be horrible but if he is trust worthy then iam sure it will be ok. i hope your ok
kind regards, ally |
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Baker
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Yes it is OK. |
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teenie
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Lets face most of us girlfriends or wives really don't like our better half going to stag parties and we all know why. I don't know about you but when my husband went to a couple of those parties being held in a nudie bar i didn't like it one little bit.. But if you trust your husband then you shouldn't worry about him it's not like he hasn't seen women's bodies before. |
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Play nice, children
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He shouldn't bring the baby to the stag. |
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Im His Baby Girl <3
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yeh cuz its a stag do
nd no bcuz he has responsibilities
x |
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rhndnicholson
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In my opinion I would just let him be, he could have lied about where he was going. |
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General Custer
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Most guys would dislike that you are even thinking that you might say no. |
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KA
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Of course you didn't mean he is bringing the baby, but it is okay for him to go IMO. |
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Psycho Therapist
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sure, just because you are married and have a family doesn't mean your life is over. go, support your fiends (oops, friends) they were there for you. right? just don't do anything you'll regret later. Party on.
a happy and trusted man with his own friends makes for a very happy woman. |
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CindyLu
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Why not? If going to a stag party at a nude club is going to make him stray, he was going to anyway and going to the club makes no difference.
If he is going to be true to his vows and his marriage then going to a stag party at a nude club makes no difference.
Let him go with his friends, for most men a nude or strip club is just a place to hang out and most of those places do not allow the men to touch the girls anyway. It's really not what you think so don't make mountains out of ant hills
BTW What does having a baby have to do with anything? |
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Freya! x x
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Lets see....NO!
Have Some Dignity Man! :P |
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Mr. X
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Oh yeah, especially if the wife don't put out. |
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