Do women in their 30's have a harder time finding men?

Kra

yes especially ******* like me

Jaime

It depends. Have you ever seen those 30 year olds who have let themselves go? Women and Men are both visual creatures. We live in a visual society. This does not mean being a model. Only 1% of the population look like that. It does mean taking care of yourself. Being the best you that you can be.

I know that's cheesy but its true. Divorce doesn't carry the stigma that it once did. More than likely a man will want to hear why you got married and divorced. I'm sure if you met a divorced man, you would want to hear his story as well. Its not something you have to worry about. Its harder when a woman has a child.

That is what hurts many women even those hot mom's who are in their 20s still. Its very hard for many men to date a woman who has a child. So if you have a child, then dating will be harder. Not impossible but harder. That means you will have to date a number of men more than usual to find a decent guy who won't mind being a father figure to a child that isn't his.

Not all men want 20 year olds. These are usually immature men. Just do your best to find a nice guy. Remember its a numbers game.

europe

it depends. i want a mature woman and the ones in the 20s don't seem mature enough.

L P

Are you kidding? In your 30's look for a guy in his 40's - think of this, they are usually a lot more financially set, they love the idea of having a younger girl and it is not a clichÃ©, they understand much better how to keep you happy. Try it, take my advice and you wonâ€™t be sorry. My second marriage I married a guy 12 years older than me - who I would have never thought twice about if I had been looking at â€œageâ€ but he has brought me into a life that I used to think of in my dreams. I thank my lucky stars every day I wake up next to him.

HHH

i believe its not that hard for women in their 30's to get dates unless she has had two things that have happened to her: divorce or kids from a previous relationship. a guy is going to want to know why u were married and how u got divorced so that they can figure out whether or not was it her or was it him?, will i experience the same type of problems the first guy did?, is she an independant woman or someone that feels like she is entitled?, etc. second if she is in her 30's and has children it is harder. alot of men (and rightfully so) just dont want to date women wit kids. its their life and their choice. its very tough to ask a man to do that because alot of times they're thinking how did she get to be a single mom?, was she married to the guy or did they get divorced or is she a widow?, or is she looking for a daddy or for someone just to have someone? etc... alot of men want to start fresh and not deal w/ the drama. those are the two major things i see.

E&L

It's really no harder . . . unless they come with baggage. Lots of eligible men in their 30's like women their own age, just not the hassle of a ready made family, thus they start looking younger. Sure they may WANT a hot 20 year old, but there's a big difference in maturity in those 10 years.

infinite crisis 247

i don't think that it's harder to find men, per se. i just think that the average 30 year old is more about finding someone to settle down with vs. finding someone to just casually date (especially if they have not had children and still want them).

you might find a somewhat different attitude in women that have already had all the kids that they want and don't want to get married again. a lot of those women are just out to "have fun"...at least for a period of time after their divorce.

i would agree w/ what the girl said about "it's harder when you have kids than a divorce". it's not even just the kids that make it hard...it's the fact that the kid's father will always be around and you can't do crap to stop that. when it's just an ex, you can say "i don't like you talking to them". you don't have that excuse when they have kids together.

wondering

Some men like to have a younger woman. But when the money is gone so is she,,, so harder maybe but not for me! Some women like older men also,Usually the same result.....And a lot of men are married by that age so i would say yes.....

j92cool

What they want and what they can get are two different things. Yeah they all think about hot 20 year olds but if they want a relationship they will look for more mature women.

candi redd

I broke up with my last bf when I was 29, I finally meet someone at age 32, and we have been together for 1 year and he is 39. In my opinion I don't care what age a female is it still hard to find a man!

Piggy

Only if they have kids. That'll make a man run a mile.

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