Do women want to date a single 33 year old dad?

Jeannie T

well I'm 36 and a single mom of a 13 year old boy and a 6 year old girl would you want ta date me i don't look at a man having children weather i want ta date him or not i look at the man as a person

Star

i would date you if you were a decent guy. I am around your age and have kids too - so it would work.
If i did not have kids i would not likely want to hook up with someone that did.

Daiquiri Dream

There are nice women out there.

Good Luck.

switch it up

I think it depends on what you are looking for.. some younger women may not be ready to handle two kids...unless you can find one that is very mature and knows what she wants...and maybe has a child herself.. I am sort of in the same boat..Age 40 with 3 kids...but I only want a man who wants someone with kids..because it's important to me that whoever I am with loves kids. I think some dates get weeded out..but surely there is someone for both of us. Good luck!!!

Mzscorpio30

Sure, as long as you don't have "baby mama" drama.

Hear2Help

YESSS, it's the total package that matters. The right girl will love you and your boys. Best Wishes.

catchernkeeper

It's not you or the kids that would turn them off. It's the ex-wife and the childrens' mother. Many relationships crumble under the pressure of having a meddling ex-wife that just won't let the man try to be happy with someone else. The children could also be fed lies from the ex-wife. It can all work out fine, sure, but if I were in the position to date a single-dad, I would certainly have to find out the situation with the ex. Does she live in the same city or neighborhood? Does she call you all the time and find reasons that you need to be with her and the kids. Does she just interfere even though you are divorced. I don't know, she can ruin your "game" if you know what I mean. It's like a meddling mother-in-law.... then, there's always the REMOTE chance that because of your interaction with the ex-wife that you may get back with her. I have read way to many posts on here to know that it's very common. Now that I think about it, the wife would simply have to be dead for me to date a man with kids. Dead, or in jail.

Lexy

yes.

wrjones559_1999

Yeah they do. Good luck. You'll find one soon.

zen522

Yes they are out there.
Good Luck

Ella727

you'll find a date a lot quicker than a woman in your situation. Women will be more likely to take on dating a man with kids then a man would be dating a woman with kids. Good luck with the dating. My only advice is to be upfront about the kids and I would not introduce the kids to any woman you date until you've found a woman that seems to be for the long term. Have fun!

Tree

If a woman is in the same situation as you, divorced with kids. Otherwise, likely not. Good luck.

there's always a single 33 year old mom out there wondering the same thing!! get out there & date!! the ones who are worth it are the ones who still want to see you after you told them you've beeen married & have 2 kids... good luck!!

mdrieber00013

yeh, women wanna date you assuming your kids are amazing and arent too wild or anything. some women like that tho. but, you arent too old, and kids are a factor to some, but to a lot of women your age, they expect something, so yeh, i think you have a good shot.

BabeHeart

I'm sure there are plenty who do...good luck!

jade s

I would, and that i did, but he cheated me and left me in debts, ard 5k, so thats why im so broke and sad. And angry, but i really like his daughter, which is 6 years old . So cute.... Yeah, the fact is, i would date a divorcee with children.

smeggitt

I am a 29 year old, single female and yes...you should have no problem finding a lady. The only advice I can give you...do not bring emotional baggage into your new relationship! I dated a man (for several years) that had been married and had a child. He constantly thought that I would do the same things that his ex-wife did to break up their marriage. Give the ladies you meet a fair shot. You have to let go of your past before starting to date.
Also, wait a while before you introduce your boy's to your new lady and explain to them that this"new lady" is not trying to replace their mother. It is difficult to date a father because not only do you have to impress the man, but also have to impress the children...a double roll. Your ex will most likely not say nice things to your boys about your new girlfriend...so just be open and honest with your kids. Do non-threatening, fun activities (the four of you) to make both your kids and the woman feel comfortable.
Another thing, decide if you are open to the idea of having more children. Because you are so young...most of the women you date will want to have more children. If you are not open to that, be honest from the beginning.
Good luck to you!

justmenothinelse

sure there is, just don't go to bars...make sure they know right off that u have 2 boys. good luck

Candy

Of course age, kids does not matter. A man is a man. Some women are happy as long as they have a man. Go fishing and see what you catch.

billslady

yes. if you are a cool guy, your great personality will shine through and women love men who are family oriented. Just look for a women who has the same things in common. There are single moms your age out there itching to date also. Try putting a profile on a site like eharmony.com or something. There you can put that you are a single dad and if whoever is interested already knows what they are getting into so you'll have a better chance at meeting the right person.

BigJake418

Hey, I'm a 43yr old single father. And yes, I get women who want to date. Just don't expect to get those young hotties right out of highschool...lol. You would be very surprised to find what's out there. There are alot of very nice single moms out there. Just have to get a little confidence in yourself.

~just_jd~

sure they would want to date you. as long as you don't act silly over the kids!

zether

nope, you are doomed

gypsy_cat 345

Of course they will :)
Guys date single women with kids all the time. And I'll bet your kids have some friends whose moms are single.

deedee

yes!

from HJ

Of course there are women out there who will! But, with kids, you need to be really careful of what type of woman you are exposing them to. Before you introduce anyone to them, make sure the relationship is cemented. It can get a little confusing or emotionally difficult for the kids otherwise.

angel

some do

susie q

Absolutely! Single fathers are a turn on to many women, especially those with terrific children like yours. You sound like a good father, go ahead and date if you are fully healed from your divorce. Many women love an independent man who works hard to provide their children with the father they deserve. Good luck!

rose b

I don't think there's anything wrong with you dating agian, but it's a matter of not making the same mistake twice. You said it's been a year, but are you really over her, not all women likes a man that think of another woman while they're together. If you feel that you are ready, i say go for it. :) Happy Holidays.

fox_maple

It depends on the woman and where she is in her life. There are lots of women in a similar situation to yours, who would appreciate seeing someone who they have something in common with.

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