Do you believe in the saying...?

ericca001

yes.. the lack of having any emotional connection is not human. Every person wants someone to love and be loved. In fact, i don't think its normal. But to never love at all to me is a bigger tragedy because there is such a beautiful experience with loving a person and them loving you

chiefhandsome

Absolutely not, because u'll always think bout wat u lost but when u never loved before, ur cool with the way you are. Its like how people are normal and okay but once they get power or fame, they miss what they had and dont wanna go back to being normal

icemountian8

Yes. I loved my ex wife, of twenty years, for more than twenty-three years and would not have traded the love we shared for anything. I do miss her love, but, I have found someone else to share my love with. And, if she wants to leave, it will leave me brokenhearted, but, I love the feeling of loving someone and being loved.

uniroyalfan

I think I was a lot happier not knowing what true love is because you don't miss what you don't have

boilerrat

sure

Elle

Loved and lost. To me, it would make your life fuller than if you had never experienced love.

frog

Yes - at least you've had the experience instead of wondering what it is like.

DawnsEarlyLight

No, it's not better.

swoody17

yes...love is a feeling that is a must to be experienced by all....some of us get to find our soul mates ..some of us don't but its better to have tried and got that feeling rather than never try!

angel2005_2001

Yeah, but if you never loved how do you know you lost?

golferwhoworks

sure do!

monkeyface

Yes.

Sonyja

Yes because you learn what to do differently next time.

jorge_homesweethome

YES..!!!!!! it is a learning and appreciative process.
can go with almost anything..!!!! better to have walked
and broken my neck than never to have walked at all.....

Jewel

I say have loved and lost because you at least loved someone. If you never had loved anyone, you wouldn't know.

tw2251stst

Yes, I was married for 14 years to a women I loved. I have now been divorced for 10 years and have not felt that love with any of the women I have dated since my divorce and will not marry again untill I feel real love again.

neona807

Yes, because if you have had love in your life, even if it didn't work out. You have had the pleasure of the experience.

If you've never had love in your life, you have missed out on that experience completely.

zkimmy

yeah, cause at least u can say u've experienced that feeling. but then again if u haven't experienced that feeling u wouldn't know that ur lost and u wouldn't be feeling lonely, but it is all mixed up, this love thing!!

but it is better to be loved

gritty

Yes, if you've never opened your heart to love, then you've only missed out. Let's learn how to love well- that's my thought.

the freakin' analyst

no cz it doesn't make sense to me..

charlesjerrell

no i don't, because there is no pain or hurt,if you never loved, like the hurt of loving someone and losing them

flagger

Yes.

aaaaa

i believe in it but sonetimes that saying hurts

Hopelessly Dreaming

Yes, because that you will be able to say that you are human. I know that it is hard, but think of the memories. Think of the happy times. When you have loved and lost, than you know exactly what you are looking for in your next relationship. It makes you grow as a person when you've lost someone you love, or thought you loved.

abl

yes

odette

dont know. x

Golgo 24

Oh yes, definitely...
although I don't apply this saying only to love. The basic premise is that you should take risks...take a chance and experience life. Don't get me wrong, if you try and try again and you fail every single time, that can be very depressing. However at least these experiences can mold you into something you weren't before. If you remain in stasis day in and day out or get stuck in a routine, you're not living life anymore than a tree is.
I think what its trying to say is that experience molds character and is the very stuff of life. Even if you fail, you can at least say you put up a fight. Everyday that goes by without doing something meaningful only adds to feelings of regret. You can at least rid yourself of depression, but you may need a time machine to rid yourself of regret. You only have a little bit of time to live your life, so do it!

Mrs. Clayton

I believe in that saying. To love someone is a tremendous feeling, even if you know you will lose them. I lost my brother 2 years ago and I am happier that I had 23 years to love him than to have never known him.

Bri .

yes. You will always wonder what you were missing if you didn't

rbrow112

Yes.

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