Do you believe once a cheater, always a cheater?

taterbabie_4u

YES..........most definately once a cheater always a cheater

csucdartgirl

Why are you still pining over your ex?

Gun Dream

Not necessarily. I cheated once and felt so bad I figured it was not worth it. It's like experimenting, you may try beer once and not like it, that don't make you an alcoholic.

Valerie X

I think once you have done it, its easier to do again....but I do believe a person can change their ways.

BabeHeart

There are few things in this world that 'always' happen...having said that, it does appear that someone who cheats is much more likely to cheat again, than someone who would be cheating for the first time.

I've known people who cheated, were riddled with guilt afterward, and as far as I know never cheated again. They said they had no idea how horrid they would feel afterward....

Others get a rush out of it...they are selfish and want their desires met, and don't care about anyone else's feelings but their own.

What your ex husband may do or have done in the past, who knows? Not sure why you are curious, since he's your "ex".

tammie h

I used to believe that. I was the cheater. I would always hate myself afterward, but I always knew I would do it again.
I am now In a relationship that I would give my life before I cheated. So now my feelings on that have changed. I will never, ever cheat again.

Ken

I don't think that you can make such a blanket statement. I think that many men cheat in their twenties but later come to realize that there are more important things in life than a quick roll in the hay. Some people never learn this lesson and some people are happy not to. Women cheat as much as men these days though.

pestilence_pony

it depends on the person i think. i cheated when i was younger, but it caused me more shame and guilt then i could handle and learned from my ways. some people have no conscience so they can potentially cheat over and over again.

CaliGirl

I dont believe it. I think if the person wants to stop cheating he/she will.

I'm not sure if that saying goes for every cheater but with my personal experience once a cheater always a cheater.

Delay

Please please please for the sake of your sanity...why do you care what your ex husband is up too? Tell your friends to limit the noise and that garbage. Yes yes yes once a cheater blah blah blah...but trust can be earned back...but easier to find a trustworthy person or build a healthy trusting relationship complete with boundaries, etc. from the get go.

Join me in tossing the lying cheaters to the curb where they belong girl!

I_know_it_ALL

No i don't believe that. There are people who learns from their mistake and their are some who never. It's the same thing as people who go to jail. Some goes in all the time because they never learn their lesson. But it takes only one for someone else to learn. Remember what they say, " you don't know what you got until it's gone".

Buggy Jean

No, I don't think so. People can change, I cheated on my boyfriend twice and it is easier the more you do it and I regreted it big time. But I never cheated on my boyfriend of two years who is now my husband. I would never, I can't imagine being with someone else..I think if you are truly happy you don't look for someone else.

Jonesy

pretty much. sounds like the type of guy that is only sorry when he gets caught. i wish people could just be honest with themselves about what they want, it would save a lot of heartache.

Hayz's Peach - Ø£Ù…Ø§Ù†Ø¯Ø§ & ØØ³Ù†

YES
once a cheater
always a cheater
they will never change - stay away from them

Jessica c

If you cheat on a person you will generally cheat on that person again, because they are not what you are looking for but they don't want to lose you but. There is alot of chance you will find someone else and never cheat again. I cheated one, and have now been married for 2 year and have a baby.

Girliegirl

Not sure why your friends care so much.
No I don't believe once a cheater, always a cheater. Of course there are people out there like that, but I don't really think everyone that cheats will do it again.
I do believe that some cheaters learn their lesson and don't do it again.
If he is your ex, and cheated on you, and then cheated on her, then he may be one of those people that will do it over and over, but if he is your ex, you can be glad for that (that he's an ex) and not worry about it anymore.

janice m

Definitely yes! If they cheat and you stay in a relationship, they will do it again and again. I do not know if it is because you let them get by with it, or probably something lacking or fear in the guy/girl to commit. I talk from experience. I must lack a gene or something, because it happened over and over again. They said it was nothing I did wrong, but apparently they wanted more. Next to licking their feet and kissing their behinds, there could not have been too much more I could have done. Just do not let it reflect on you as a person. They are the people in need and missing something which they may never obtain.

EmmaNicole

yep

little.figure

yes

why are your friends so concerned with what your ex husband is doing you guys should just move on. No i don't think that but i think if they cheated more then once then yes.

Dallas Cowboys

Duh

Spoken Majority

sure. if they cheat on one person they love, who are you (not trying to be mean, just a question you need to ask yourself) to think he wouldn't cheat on you? Brad Pitt cheated on Jennifer Aniston for the love of God. I mean, she is smoking hot and rich. so yes, once a cheater, always a cheater.

cynthiathegreat2001

Yes, most of the time. Here's prove is not your fault

trysh_mc

No. I was a cheater once and don't do it anymore.

Smilllllleeeee

no because people can realize what they did was wrong

...

Indeed, once someone is a cheater, they never stop. Even if they promise never to do it again, they eventually succumb to their adulterous desires.

must<3dogs

If you're in the same relationship then yes they will cheat again but if its a completely different person then no i dont think it necessarily means they will cheat on that person too.

oldschoolelf

If I found out that someone cheated on me, thats it THE END.

SomethingSeekerFreeThinker

Depends on the person. I have friends on both sides, those who have learnt their lessons and those who are yet to.

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