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Kenneth J
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You did the right thing. Is there something called privacy between husband and wife? There should definitely be independence and freedom of choice but not privacy. Now that you found out that he has been lying by reading his diary you have no chance to know if he is lying in the future. On second thoughts he has been taking refuge in his diary and there by avoiding conflicts or arguments with you. If he does not get the liberty of taking refuge in future then you have to be prepared to face some real hard times in your relationships.... only if you want to. |
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IndyGirl
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It's always the paper trail that gets ya... |
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SuzyQ
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Yes. You should learn to communicate. If you can't trust one another with your feelings and you have to lie, what is the point? I couldn't live like that. Life is too short. If you don't want to share your lives, get divorced and move on. Find a life with someone who you can share it with. |
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Glacierkid was violated
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ummmm, how do i put this delicately? straight men don't have a diary. |
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♥The Mrs.♥
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Yeah, you invaded his privacy. He probably doesn't tell you things because he doesn't trust you...and rightfully so. But what man keeps a diary? |
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Fergy
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Sure you are and you know it or you wouldn't be asking and trying to justify your wrong doings. If you don't trust him then you shouldn't be with him. If you don't have trust, then what do you have? Probably a real sorry marriage. |
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al t
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is this 8th grade or what ? what grown man keeps a diary ? c'mon, the both of you really need counseling....... |
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J C
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If you have a conversation about your husband's diary it will turn out to be the first of three conversations that lead to him being gay. The first conversation will be about the diary and how he likes to write down his feelings. The second conversation will be him telling you that he feels confused. The third conversation will be him telling you he's a gay guy. |
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niteinshining
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What type of man keeps a diary?
You should have known he was gay! |
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bluishgreenishgirl
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Yes, you did invade his privacy. |
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Betty D
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What do you think? When you were reading his diary did you feel good about it? Would you have looked for it and read it right in front of him? What if you were reading it and he came home, would you have stopped reading it and put it back? We all have a right to have private thoughts. |
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Hercules Rockerfeller
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Yup. |
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♥HEARTS 808♥ TROPICAL BABE♥
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Your husband keeps a diary? interesting. But Yes you did invade his privacy...he's not your child! I can see WHY he doesn't talk to you, you're not trustworthy! You do not have the right to treat your spouse like a kid...I would leave you if I were him...you're obviously jelous and suspicious! I couldn't live with you! |
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mr.average
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I read my wife's diary and i got mad, sometimes its best not to snoop to much unless you can handle the truth. Sometimes what people write in private are there own thoughts at the time and does not actually tell the whole story. When you married you have the right to look at everything he does, Im glad you find out the truth |
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paulofhouston
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Nahhhhh hes an idiot to write down stuff. |
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nmrvile
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No. Especially since he was lying to you, you did the write thing. Confront him about it.. So what if he says that you don't trust him? He shouldn't have been lying in the first place.
What kind of guy keeps a diary anyways? What a puss. |
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Shetedon
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There should not be too much 'privacy' in a marriage in the first place. You both should be one. You both should be sharing and caring for each other. The fact that he wrote these things down is proof he is feeling guilty that he is depriving you of a life he promised you. Not answering your questions in a marriage, geesh!!! I would have a serious talk with him and let him now what is acceptable and what is not. Vulnerability and intimacy are intrinsically tied together.<> |
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Walter XI
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Did you invade his privacy ???
If he did the same thing to you what would you say?
I bet you'd be screaming at him like a banshee about how he doesn't respect you.
But that would be normal for most women...play the side of the coin that's most beneficial to you every chance you get. |
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♥broken♥
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no way you go girl |
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