Do you consider kissing cheating ?!!?

judy y

Part One: Oh yes, it's cheating. How would you feel if you caught him kissing another woman? Wouldn't you feel threatened?
Part Two: What is your goal of telling him? If you want to hurt him and make him feel like you are in total charge, then tell him. If you are serious about staying with him, then think long and hard about if you really need to tell him. If it was so innocent, keep your mouth shut and don't give it another thought.

MRS SOLOMON

Yes, kissing is cheating, but if you were seperated, then I guess it really isn't.

World Peace

You were separated, different people view this different. I wouldn't say it's cheating, but I would tell him. He may or may not tell you his own secrets during that time, however, your mind will be free knowing you have no secrets.

QuEEn B

If you were seperated than there's no need to tell. Kissing is cheating but you were not with your hubby at the time.

Luvly_Mama

i think kissing is cheating
how would u feel if he kissed his ex?

i d

depends why you seperated. for divorce or while working out problems? if for divorce, no. if while working out problems, then yes.

kvcar2

It doesn't matter if it is cheating or not. When you are married to another person and plan to stay that way, kissing another person is stupid and wrong. Should you tell you husband? Are you in counseling now? If so, I'd talk it over with your counselor first Usually, people get separated because there is a problem and stray because they are looking for something. Hopefully, you and your husband are on the way to figuring out what those things are.

oh really

Anything you would normally share with only your spouse is cheating. Anything that should be for your spouse only (kisses, emotions, time, finances, etc) that you share/give with anyone else is considered cheating. Now, to your question, should you confess---the bible says to confess our sins one to another, unless doing so would cause harm to oneself or others. you could always pray about it, and ask God to forgive you, and make a vow to God that it will never happen again, if your husband does not know about it, why put him in that misery? If you are trully sorry, then you should suffer alone in this, as this is not his fault.

Islander

How would it look to you if the situation was reversed? If you were seperated then you should keep it to yourself.

FlyingScooter

Absolutely.

If you're still married, you're still married...

Tanya

if you were separated, it isnt cheating...I wouldn't bring it up unless he asks you or if it comes up in conversation.
If you two were in a relationship and you kissed the ex...then that IS cheating.

Unless you had some agreement with your husband on what you can and cannot do while you two were separated, and unless you broke that agreement, then no you shouldn't tell him about it.

[madeline]

you are guilty of cheating on your husband if you liked the way your ex kissed you.. or if you felt something during or after the kiss.. if not everything is OK.!.. you just realized that you love your husband more than you thought...
hope the things get fixed up...
luck

Tray

Yes you were wrong for kissing him b/c that will bring other things out. But, are you guys still seeing each other? If yes, then yes you are cheating. If No, then let it go and move on. It all depends on what you are doing right now.

BItemiDoc

YES, YES, YES!!!

Jazz

If you were "seperated" you need to answer that yourself. Did you have intentions of getting back together? If so, you shouldn't have done what you did.
Its really a grey area. I don't think you have to tell. But then again if my hubby did that crap to me, and got back with me I would want to know! as a matter of fact, I wonder what he has done. Ugh, I wont even go there. Good luck.

Crystal

YES!!! If you have to hide something from your partner then it's cheating.

Carrie

No and NEVER bring up who was with who while you were apart unless you just like fighting. It's not the same if you're separated.

dr.love

no, keep your schluttiness to yourself.

Owen E

Yes that would be cheating anytime you place emotions or physical contact with someone other then your spouse family excluded of course unless they sleep with your sibling then of course that would be like hell no.

Really if you kissed your ex you cheated on your husband just because your seperated doesn't mean your divorced.

FESS UP AND LIVE WITH THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS.

Stuck in the middle of nowhere

Yes, it is cheating.

floridaman39us

Yep, you are a cheater. Tell him tonight....

Angel

Don't tell him. Keep quiet and just own the memory. It's not a cheat if you were truly separated.

Mrs. Duncan

Yes, he has a right to know. I do consider it cheating, others may not, depends on who you are.

Jaylen Arrived 5/9/08

what in the dark always come to light would you rather tell him on your on your terms or for him to find out on someone Else's; how would you feel if he did it to you then found out from some one else. don't lose you trust with him over a simple kiss. explain to him what happen it may upset him in the beginning but in the end you will still have his trust and without trust their is nothing

hogsnotbubbles

if you were seperated, then any physical relationships you did have are none of his business.

kiddickalot

No. It was cheating but it was just kissing, so leave it alone and work on your marriage.

kim h

I consider kissing cheating but you were separated. I would not tell him.

no religion know peace

if you were separated for anylenght of time ...the short answer is no. for whatever reason you two reconciled and thats that. what happened during the separation made you want to get back together and work out your problems. kissing the ex was part of what made that happen so drop it and dont ask him if he messed around. start from now and work on the relationship as if it were new.

celewis

If you are having to ask this question, then yes, you cheated

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