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Do you feel this is considered flirting? need opinons?
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my sister was texting my husband from her phone which he didn't know it was her. when he asked who it was i told her to roll with it and say she was a girl from the bar. here are the messages below. tell me what you think?
HER- what you doin
HIM- wrong number
HER- no this is surge right?
HIM- lol yup, whos this?
HER- im your secret admiror from the bar lol
HIM- secret admirer from the bar.... umm in that case, id say take a number cause there were quite a bit... lol j/k
HER- so who am i?
HIM- i have no idea who u r.... what does ur name start with
HER- there must of been a lot of admirors then huh forget it then lol
HIM- lol thats funny
HER- we should meet 4 drinks today
HIM- today? but its not a weekend, some of us need our beauty sleep you know
HER- lol today is perfect
HER- its 5 o'clock somewhere lol
HIM- thats true its 5 o'clock somewhere
HER- so how about a drink at 6 at the tree
HIM- you gotta tell me who r first
HER- just show up its funnier this way lol
HIM- yea right, for all i know i can get kidnapped. and then what the heck am i supposed to do
HER- if i kidnapped you i bet you would not complain lol
HIM- lol ur funny.... but i think ill still pass thanx for the offer though... like i said take a number :)
HER- what number will i be
HIM- ur a most recent admirer i have a long list of you guys
HER- lol sure you do lol so you don't wanna go to the tree? i will buy us some beers
HIM- not if i don't know who u r... momma said never talk to strangers lol
HER- im not a stranger. you will know who i am when you see me
HE GOT OFF WORK AND IS ON HIS WAY HOME.
HER- i just saw you lol meet me now for a beer if you want
HIM- im ok
HER- your loss
HIM- that would b the opposit
HER- you think that now. lol but when you text me to go out it will then be your loss
HIM- i aint trippin
HER- you will
HIM- im sure
HER- no one can do it like i can jok
HIM- well good for you
HER- you don't wanna text anymore i cant wait to tell you at work. this is funny
HIM- k
HER- c u then bye loser
DO YOU FEEL THAT WAS FLIRTING?
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thanks for all you opinons. greatly appreciated. and yes its obvious that there were past issues that jepordized trust. thanks for all your answers
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Nina
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I think the first conversation eventually became flirtatious. The tone changed in the second conversation. Sounds like something scared him off. Good luck. |
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M.D. Hotaling
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no, but i wouldnt have kept a conversation with someone i didnt know either, i probably would have kept replying 'wrong number' indefinitely |
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♥Bella♥
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no it wasn't flirting and what you and your sister did was wrong. grow up. |
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Classy
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No. It was just trying not to be rude. but still denying. Don't dig in this any deeper. He did good. He said no in every offer she gave. |
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badbender001
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Your hubby was staying true all the way and I give him bonus man points for not playing into the trap. He kept it smooth and was loyal. |
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Rob
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Not at all. He was trying to figure out who he was talking to, but that's it.
HER- i just saw you lol meet me now for a beer if you want
HIM- im ok
HER- your loss
HIM- that would b the opposit
He just wanted to go home, presumably, where you were. |
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TeeTee
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For 1 you were wrong for even doin that to him you must be insecure!
2 Of coarse he's not gonna be all in to it b/c he doesn't know who she is duh. He was just kinda going along but no harm done. Leave it alone |
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Silenceâ„¢
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Yes, he should have said "I'm married" and left it at that. |
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Shannon
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Good god no, he all but told her to get bent.
And what a childish thing to do to your husband. |
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Kelz
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I don't think it was flirting..i think he was quite suspect though. |
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Pepper Shaker
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No he was being nice while shutting her down. Why are you trying to trap your husband into a situation where you'll be mad no matter what? |
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pmow22
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No. He was just trying to get out of an awkward situation. No flirting. No follow up. He did not take the bait. |
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bill b
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I really don't think your husband did anything inappropriate. He was polite, but mostly he was smart. What I do think is that you sitting around with your sister trying to set him up was immature and sophomoric If you're trying to read something inappropriate into what your husband said, you should probably look at your own actions first. |
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Janet W
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Not really. It sounded more like curiosity. Of course anyone would want to know who was texting them and everyone likes the idea that they are attractive to someone. It is actually cool that he turned the mystery woman down. He is a good guy. |
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iyamacog
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She pushed really hard and got no where. He may have felt he was being set up. I can't help but wonder how you would've reacted in his shoes. That was really a dishonest game. If you're testing, you have my sympathy. You may not deserve him. |
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reannen
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no but he did not even say he had a wife |
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anap
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I kind of like the way he answered.I feel it was a little flirting but not in a serious "i want to have an affair "way .It was more of a boost for his self esteem and as much as she tried she got nowhere with him. |
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Catherine B
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Whoever's husband this is seems stand up to me...he could've been more direct with the "hey if you know me then you know I'm married and wouldn't meet you for a drink" but instead took the polite, funny-guy way out. He was letting her down easy, don't you think?? I say it's mildly flirtatious on the guy's end, and way forward on the girl's. He did good being nice without being rude...
;) |
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ediblues
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Not yet...but getting there. |
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ju_bean1
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some what it sounded like he was worried about getting caught to me. |
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Grampa Hann
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its either she was flirting with you or trying to play a prank on you. if i were you though, i would've stopped the moment she wouldn't give her name. and i think you did something wise by not falling for it. it may be your loss but there's always something better that would come. |
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daniellejaramillo@ymail.com
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No but he should of put a clear boundary between him and whoever he was texting. This sounds like a set up to me. |
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