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ash_lvn_?
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victoria,i've seen you and jordan together and you are NOT too young you're an adult now and you make your own decisions and even after you've agreed to a long engagement she wouldn't accept it? sorry to say this but your mum is a ******* *****! when i see u and him together it just fits and i've never seen 2 people sooo in love a long engagement is a gd idea tho tell your mum to get over it and accept that she'll never get you to leave him! love u babe xx |
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<3 makes the world go round
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18 is too young. Make it into a long time engagement. I find those so cute. Wait until you're at least 21. Enjoy being single and having your early twenties to have fun. Don't rush into having a family yet. :] |
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Bella*look*alike!!
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get a promise ring, u are just a little bit young... |
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Remi
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Absolutely.
Half of all marriages end in divorce.
The other half end in marriage. I'm not sure whats worse. |
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Seximan M
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Give it a year, if he's not in the military then what's the rush? |
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Crumblin' Erbs
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your mom is right.
sorry |
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Simone
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You're too young. Congrats of staying together as long as you have. Too many things will change over the next 5-10 years to make a decision like getting married at 18. Both of you have more maturing to do and the chances of being able to mature in healthy ways and still be together are slim. |
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goodlife
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i think u are way too young to get married i think you should at least be 22 to be married. |
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[Capture.Carolyn♥]
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yes i think so.. ur moving too fast
you need time to grow up and enjoy your young life
maybe this is a mistake since your so young
listen to your parents! they know better
good luck hun! |
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Cazza
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Tell your mum you really love him. Let her know how strong both of your feelings are. Sit down and have a chat with her. Recently my brother got engaged and he is only 17 and his fiancee was only 16 =] They are sooo in love. So everyone was happy for them. But make sure what ever you say to your mum is in a nice way, because at the end of the day shes your mummy, and it is her job to protect you
Hope this helps xx |
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smokeythebear
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yeah u r young... but if u do get married ur mum will be there...
she loves you... |
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Riley W
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Well, you're an adult now so it's really not her choice.
And so be it if your mom doesn't come.
She'll just regret not coming.
Lol, and im younger than you and im giving you advice, :) |
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brown sugar
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don't get married you are too young and you first need to experience life you really don't know what you want yet in life and you jumping off a bridge already into marriage that is a permanet thing . |
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Liz !
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at 18 you both arent really mature yet. I thought I was mature and ready for life then and knew what I wanted, but even now at 22 so much has changed. Im not even FRIENDS with people I'd known since I was 4 and was still friends with at 18!
sometimes as you hit 18-20 people just grow apart
I'd say give it a long engagement. Wait until youre at least 21. |
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Gio16
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WAY too young, wait until your 20 or 21 |
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dillsweetlady1
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well yes because once you're married theres no turning back so maybe you should wait until you're more older to get your moms blessings and to see if thats what you really want to do. |
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Have a GREAT day!
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What does your mother have against your fiance? Ask her why shes so against you marrying him. If its for a legitamate reason, then you might want to take her advice into consideration. Definately have a long engagement because I got married without my family there and I wish I could do it all over. Its a big regret, so make nice with your mom so she can be there, its definately important |
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Da _Capn W
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I would def wait until your mom gives you her blessing. If you go through it without her, you will regret it later on. This isn't something that you can just do over again. Give it a little more time and I'm sure she will give you her blessing. |
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Vampire Kitty
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It all depends on the people, but my cousin got married AND had a baby when she was 18..so no I do not think you are too young. Her marriage is doing perfectly fine. So if you think that you are ready than go for it. About your mom, I don't know- maybe you should talk to her about it. I hope that everything goes well for you. :) |
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jay
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too young im 18 last thing in my mind is marriage |
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ღiluvme
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too young!! |
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Mrs Morgan in 2 months& 2 weeks!
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I think she means that you are still young enough to grow different from each other, and marriage is a big commitment. However, people marry at 17 and are still together in their 50's so i suppose i all depends on how you truly feel. If it came down to it i think your mum would be there anyway. |
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Erika C
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agree with ash and i've gotta say screw everyone who says you're too young what the **** would they know?! they don't know you like ash and i do and you've already said yes to a long engagement so whats the problem?! look at my parents engaged at 16-married at 20 and still going strong at 48! |
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Ashy
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Thats kinda rude of your mom. Just say if you dont wanna be at my wedding than whatever but id really like you to come. |
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One Dumb Guy
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do what makes you happy. We are all more than likely going to screw things up in our lives, so do the best you can and be happy. |
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QA
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I think that age is a factor in considering if you are ready to get married, but certainly not the biggest factor. More important things to consider are: are you able to communicate well and willing to compromise when you and your spouse have issues? are you patient?, are you ready to be committed to someone for the rest of your life?, are you ready to share all of your problems with someone?. Those are just a few... there are many more though. The reason I say age is a small factor is because younger people tend to not be ready for those things, but not all. Some people grow up faster than others and some people just have different goals and wants in life. I think the fact that you have been together for 4 years shows a lot though. As far as what to do about your mom, you will have to give it some thought. I am 18 and am going to be getting married. I had always dreamed of having my whole family and all my friends at my wedding, but there is a lot of divorce and conflict in my family. I also knew that my family would think I was too young. I just didn't know how I would be able to plan my wedding while having my family criticize me and then have my wedding while everyone was there fighting. I decided to have nobody at my wedding. It will just be us. Some things that you might want to think about are the fact that this is going to be a day that is just going to happen once. You do not want to look back and regret anything about it ... like your mom not being there. At the same time though you have to think about how long you will have to wait before your mom will be willing to go to your wedding and support you and then decide if you will be able to wait that long to get married. It is going to be a really hard decision to make. I know. Let it be your and your fiancée’s decision though. If you decide to put off your wedding till a time that your mom is happy with, then make sure you made that decision because you either would not enjoy the wedding without her or would feel inconsiderate for not listening to her. Don't do it though because you feel like you have to do want your mom tells you. And if you decide to have your wedding now, without her, do it because you feel it would be best for you and your fiancée and not out of spite.Congratulations and I wish you the best! |
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Joey
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I would wait a few years, what is the rush? 18 is very young to get married.
The divorce rate is skyrocketing now - you don't want to be another statistic, plus it is MUCH harder to break up with someone if you are married to them. |
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freebird
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tell her to stop treating you like a little baby, youre past that age so she should get over it already |
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Confused
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Yes, god yes u r too young, there's so much for u to do and see at this point in your life, live a little and enjoy your youth before making a HUGE decision like marrage. Not what u might want to hear but this advise is coming from some one who has been down that road. Luckly i made the decision to cancel my wedding and moved on with my life. Now i'm the happiest person in the world. GOOD LUCK! |
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Miss May =]
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she should grow up, It is now legal for you to get married, you've been together for four years, its not like your rushing into it. Ask her how long your parents were together before they got married, i cant imagine it was much more than four years. |
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jenn_hgxc
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tell your fiance that it is too soon to get married.
youre engaged to him and living with him, so whats the rush? take it slow for your moms sake. wait a few more years then get married. it will benefit you as well as your mom and your fiance.
my dad was engaged to my step mom for 7 years before they got married.
=] goodluck |
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