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Do you think everyone should have a second chance if they cheat on you?



    




Stacey-Marie J
Not everyone, no.
If my husband cheated on me and was sorry/regretted it (genuinely) then i would work it through with him and ask why he felt the need too cheat - what did he have with the other woman that was maybe lacking in our marriage, its not always 100% down to the person who cheated.


Saved by Grace
Not necessarily. If the indiscretion was the result of a moment of weakness, there may be some remorse for the mistake. But if it was the result of a truly selfish nature, there may be no shame in his/her heart -- & they'll probably do it again. All I can say is be sure BEFORE you give more than your heart. You may end up w/ a child to raise alone.


munson2015
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Absolutely not! Statistics show that men or women that cheat are 72% more likely to cheat again. Never trust them after that, people are to fragile.


Noel
In ur case i dont have an answer but If you want to know it accurately pray to god and ask him guidance and he will help you in this case which will be a blessing afterwards.


jenisilly80
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no, cheating means a lack of respect and a 90% chance they'll do it again. unless they get therapy and have a major change in outlook in life, and even than its a lack of respect. don't give a second chance, move on and find someone who respects you.


Oh Crud!
no


nucleusone
no


notagain49
Only if your photo's didn't turn out the first time.If that's the case then give them another chance and get better photo's to take to court and to email to there family and friends.Good luck


(*rolling down the hill<3*)
Well, in my perspective, cheating is cheating. If you cheated, you must not really care about the person. Think of it that way.


Sorry deleted
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If you think you really can forgive and not bring that up in future arguments and not letting it bother you by reacting jealous or suspicious all the time, then and only then my answer would be yes.
Take care


Angie
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nope. they may cheat on you again..ya neva know..


shayhi
No, once a cheater always a cheater
I know i gave someone a second chance
and he cheated again...
So hell no there is no second chance when it comes to cheating


Angelgirl02
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It really depends on the situation. It also depends on how well the couple communicates and works out their problems. It's all judgment.. I will say this though.. I do not believe in the phrase, "once a cheater always a cheater".. however, i do believe that a cheater is more sucseptible to cheat again.. People can change and have changed. It depends on the cheater whether or not he/she WANTS to change. If not, that's when i'd move on.


MiZz RuBy
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hey
well i think that is some one cheats more then once then yeah there is a chance that they will continue to cheat! BUT if they only cheat once and are begging for forgiveness then i would give them a second chance.

we are humans! humans make mistake and some- not all learn from them! do what your heart tells you to do!
good luck!


JoJo
Well, you may "forgive" but will you be able to "forget"?


Lynsey W
yes, if you love them more than life, i think it's worth taking the risk, i would if it was my husband, but i would make him work for me. It would take a while to forgive him, but if he done it again then i would get rid of him straight away, and that would be the end of us.


katie30
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if its a marriage and there are kids involved then yes. unfortunately mistakes happen and in some cases it makes a marriage stronger. if it doesn't work out after a 2nd chance then at least you can say tried. but to repair a relationship after an affair takes a long time and needs patience and a commitment from both sides. and its important to look at the reasons why it happened and work on those problems.


Mon_10
I could not have a relationship without TRUST. Once that trust is broken there is no going back..


♦justme♦
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Not necessarily. Nobody is entitled to a second chance. Each person has their own way of processing something like that, so for some, a second chance may be possible to give, and for some it's not possible. They just can't move past it, so they have to let go of the relationship for their own well being.


wantsshy
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Nope.


amber
NO I WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO TRUST HIM AGAIN


Altheea
depends on the situation...if u're in a marriage i think yes...but also he might take a second chance to cheat on you again. it's hard to answer and i hope i will never be in this situation coz even if i will forgive i will never forget and i won't trust him again.


kittenpinkrock
no way if they done it once they will do it again. the respect isnt obviously there in the relationship to begin with and it can only go downhill,


Mleigh23
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Nope, sure don't. If they had the ability to disrespect you the first time with no problem, then they wont think twice when the next hottie comes along and tempts them. And whoever allows themselves to become a doormat and be cheated on needs to wake up and realize that they deserve respect and someone who is going to love them and only them. People who cheat and cant be loyal to one person do not need to be in serious relationships, they should be on their own that way there isnt another person for them to hurt from their actions. People who can validate cheating in their mind have a serious character flaw, and you do NOT want to be with someone like this....ever


Mel
It's hard to give someone a second chance, but if you think they are really remorseful and you really want to salvage the relationship, then sure, give it a try. People are only human. Yes, you may get hurt - but you have to decide it if it's worth it to you or not.





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