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Do you think guys were programed instinctly to have more than one wife?

I mean I know guys who can fall in love with 2 or 3 different girls.... Including me...

Did todays society (religion), rip us guys off??
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Aichausa, so smart, and I think I just fell in love with you! Well, I'm going to bed now... Sweet Dreams.


    




Sassy
Why are guys the only ones to have 2 to 3 girlfriends..Honey, women play dudes left and right. Ya'll are getting ripped off bc u are such idiots


Bill
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No!

Guys were programmed to have more than one hookup. Biology doesn't say anything about wives.


B girl
I think it is human nature to not be with one person. I think no matter how much you love someone you have to really work at the loyalty part. It's just not in us.


Cynthia S
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yes, the male species was & is programmed to try to have more than one. They had to keep the species going, didn't they? It is called pro-creation.


boub
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People on average have 11 partners throughout their life.


Bear M
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Programmed No! Basically having more than 1 wife is simply for selfish gratification and honestly it would be a lie 2 say otherwise. Also if u truly love someone u wouldn't never need some1 else, b/c that person is the one u love. And us as guys r not getting ripped off, if anything we should b happy 2 find some1.


Serendipity88
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I don't believe in polygamy. I think that God made the world so that each person has just one other person that is meant for them -soulmates. I don't think that today's society rips off men at all. Even more so than ever, women are much more promiscuous and independent, not that this is a negative thing. Women are coming into their own. I think polygamy is more of a dictatorship, where men want more wives in order to feel more important. It demeans women, and it is ridiculous.


harleydiva
No God didn't intend for men to feel that way. If you truely Love someone there shouldn't be any feelings for anyone else. If there is satan is the one giving you those thoughts.


starnami
some people (not just men, because a lot of women are the same way) just are not meant to be with one person for a whole month, let alone the rest of their lives. some people are just fine with being with one person and have no problem with it. in my opinion, if you really are the type to be in love with a bunch of people at one time, you should come to terms with it and never get married until by some miracle you feel the opposite. otherwise you just screw someone who has an unrealistic ideal of you over. so find like minded girls, but don't get all jealous when they also are in love wit 2 other guys other then yourself. if you can manage that, you've got it made.


loveyouoshinystar
YES, YOU CAVE MAN YOU!


Jody
Actually, since there is a 1:1 ratio between men and women, polygamy only benefits those men at the top tier in their social circles. If a bunch of men have 2 or 3 wives, the men on the lower spectrum have none. I also think that it's possible to love more than one person at the same time, but that being biological predisposed to wh*re around is crap.


Shana T
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no it says in the Bible that mens weakest temptation are women keyword:temptation meaning something you want but are not suppose to have you are to have ONE wife jus tlike women are to have ONE husband the rules arnt changed for male species sorry


WOL4INE
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NO, guys aren't programmed to have multiple wives. and it's not true love you are feeling, it's lust. if you're married to your true then thats it. only 1 for you buddy


Shorty
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Not really. Nor is it fair for a guy to want 2 or more girlfriends but have them only see him.


Bodacious Baby
Men want 1 woman...but like to play around..not good...it will leave u alone in the end.


bogidu
Programmed? No. I think men like the idea of it but have NO idea what kind of work it takes to have more than one wife and would run away screaming into the night if they did.

If you feel ripped of, how would you feel about your wife having two or three husbands? Not sit well with you? Turn abouts fair play. Goose/gander, etc.


Rabbit
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I don't know. Were woman programmed instinctively to have more than one husband? Did today's society rip us women off?


Em L
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of corse not!!! not! not! notttttttt!!!!!!!!!!!!


it hit me like a bus...
hi, im Muslim and Islam allows men to have up to three wives. its all up to them couple to have more wives.. i think its reasonable, (even thought i would never allow my husband to have another wife) because look at the population of the world.. woman out number men.. so if a man can marry up to three woman, there probably wont be as many single people as there are. a Muslim believes that marrying completes more of Islam.. but i don't think a lot if Muslim men decide to have more than one wife, i never met someone who has. but love is love.. nothing you can do about it..


&dagger Jesus Loves Me &dagger
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No, I think men like more that one person because of their lust.


mae
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not if you want to give them the love that a wife deserves

a mans love for his wife isnt something that you can or should just give to multiple women


ToolManJobber
In prehistoric times it was beneficial to humans to mate often and with many partners. This helped propagate the species. People died young in those days and it was difficult to keep a group together. Disease, predation, hardship, and injuries made life hard. A man can engage in reproductive activity every day and will get results much of the time. Women are only available for reproduction when ovulating. That's only a few days a month and not at all when pregnant for 9 months. Modern man has agriculture and industry and does not need to hunt. Modern man has created rules and morals to supposedly guide them. These rules include monogamy. I don't know why or if there is any advantage to it.


wudusaydude
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Yes we are not made to just have one wife.


Mr B
Instead of thinking of yourself all the time, let me ask you to put the shoe on the other foot so to speak - " Would you want to share your girl or your wife with two or three other guys - or more." Playing the field and going out with more then one girl without being real serious with any of them is part of the dating game.When you both start to get to enjoy one anothers company more then any of the others, then your narrowing down to "this may be the one". You work on your relationship up until your engaged. If it lasts that long - your hooked. Start saving your coins - you'll need all of them.
P.S.: It's hard enough to keep one happy w/o more, pal


michelle A
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How could you ask such a question? It is beyond ridiculous.


Sabrina K
its not love its lust!!


pixieotr
no, it is just a male fantasy.


bRiTtAnY
no, thats sick, be devoted to the one you were lucky enough to get.





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