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Do you think having an affair is wrong?



    




Sahara
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Yes. But there might be instances where having an affair is the only way a person can function and not go crazy.

Affairs can be very hurtful. They are dishonest. I think for the majority of people, it is wrong. But I recognize that there may be exceptions.


urstruly8604
Yes. It's something that only trashy, classless people do. There's no excuse for it, be a man/woman and stand up for what you want and just break up if you're that unhappy.


DelinquentGurl
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Absolutely. What is the point of being in a marriage if you are not going to be faithful?


flying.guy_canada
Why do people ask questions like these? You know what everyones response is going to be.


BabeHeart
It's a pretty crummy thing to do yeah...unless your partner is kewl with you playing around, it's a "no no"


missconfused316
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yes there is no expection to affairs
if you don't want to be with the person leave them...
never treat them like that and go and cheat on them


Sales Girl
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VERY....whats the point....?


baserunner316
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DUH!!


fatgirl615
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DUH!! Is there a new definition of affair that I don't' know about?


SMSSC #27
UH....DUH.


Denicia
Yes


melouofs
Anything you can't be open about with your partner and family is WRONG. It's so sad you have to ask this question.


♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥
yes extremely. i think if you made vows to someone that you should take them very seriously and if you want to cheat on your spouse then you never should have married them in the first place.


AGT
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Yes, very wrong. I could never understand why people even get involved in a committed relationship if they know they have commitment problems - just stay single and save the other person the heartache!!!


strvd4urattn
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yes...and there is no need for an explanation.


1scholar
What does the word suggest? Breaking your promises, are you that mean of a person?


Stunnah
Yes and No.
Yes, because if im going out with someone or married to someone, i expect them to be honest, and trust me, and i expect that i can trust them. Then they go off and have an affair, and that just betrays everything.

On the other hand, if i'm the one having the affair, it's not so bad on me, because it was my choice to do so. I'm a big believer in Karma though, so at some point it will come back around. I would never have an affair, no matter my feelings for the other person. I believe if you're no longer interested, break it off, and then date, don't try and balance two hearts at once.
Hope that helps!
xx


IrishmenRsexy
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Its painful to all involved and never ends happy any way you look at it. But when you are far more beautiful than the wife, and you give better head and never say "no" then it makes it more fun to be the mistress


Newly Eloped
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Why not ask your wife if SHE thinks it's wrong.


Rainy
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only if your married . .


Shy Girl S
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Without a single doubt in my mind...no point in being married if one cannot remain faithful.


Miss. Realz
Well having an affair is wrong. I can on the other hand understand where your coming from. My theory on "cheating" goes like this: You can't say you love someone and that your sorry when you cheat, Because you obviously don't "love" them. I've done it too but its never reallly a good thing to do. Just be honest and you'll be ok.


alwayswondering
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ABSOLUTELY!! WHATS WRONG WITH YOU?


purple dove
Define affair? Sneaking behind someones back? Yes that would be wrong. Open marriage? No - that's why it is open. It really depends on your definition of affir and all the parties involved.


Ms. M
What do you think! if your mother cheated on your dad do you think he'd think be peachy it's wrong in some religions it's a sin! it's the most awful thing someone can do, when you are cheating one someone your lying to them betraying them.


lakers_fan4_life
The bible says this...


Gay affairs are wrong.


letterstoheather
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it is if you've made a committment to another person.

no committment, no violation

take care.


nancies
When you make a promise stand by it. Having an affair is only wrong, because iy's breaking a promise. When you want out of a marriage contract just be honest and having an affair is sometimes but not always a sign you want out of the contract.


♥ Nikkee D ♥
100% I do. If you don't want to be with the person you are with 100% then get out and then play. I don't think it is right to play both sides of the field, either you are in or out.


BahijahDances
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If you are commited or married Hell Yea!!!





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