Do you think it is okay to sleep around if you are still married, but separated?

I tell it like it is

If he cared about the relationship and you he would not have slept around. Stick to your feelings, dunp his sorry a**

Happy-2

I'm with you 100%.

Separated = Still married.

This answer always gets me lots of thumbs down. Well, bring 'em on.

sissy k

Nope, married is married.

blt830

It's not okay, you're still married. Marriage doesn't end if you're not living in the same house.

Foxy Diva

I agree with you but everyone does not have morals. When you are legally married to a person you are still married.

Queen of Beer

No, I think its whorish...for men and women to sleep around when separated.

Ontheotherhand

It's just my opinion, but to me dating and sleeping with others is ONLY OK after a married couple has not just separated, but the paperwork to end the marriage has been filed with a court. Not just living apart for a while. To me, once the divorce has actually started, the marriage is dead and over, and all that remains is a legal fiction that may take some time to formally end.

Nichole

I think it's ok as long as you are legally separated... but if my still hubby did that while we were separated I wouldn't even consider getting back with him.

A. DeLeon

Separated or not, both of you are still married. Apparently, he doesn't have any morals. It may not matter to him who he's sleeping with, but to you it does. Get a divorce and move on.

Ocimom

If there was any chance of your marriage working out, you guys never should have slept with another. Since you do not agree to work it out when he slept with others during separation - that's his problem. I would continue with the divorce as planned.

jude

your married until the divorce and its still wrong to do even if separated. because when your separated there is always a chance u would want to geo back with that person, and if u cheat the possibility ends when the other person finds out that u couldn't even wait to see what happens before u slept around.

Matt

I'll tell you one thing, I will NEVER get involved with a SEPERATED but not divorced woman EVER again. What a pain in the a--!

I Love 007

If a divorce has been filed, you are living as singles, no chance at reconciling then I don't see why they can't date.

Unless someone is just hanging on to hope.

Amarante

no

can always try to get back together

Magic 8 Ball (Call me BILF)

I think that if you are living apart, are pursuing a divorce, and have no intention of ever getting back together with your spouse, then it is probably still not a good idea. Having said that, if he wants to date and have a good time, it's not like you had any claim on his time.

Megan M

I expect to get thumbs down on this one, but..I feel that if you are legally separated and no chance of a divorce, then yes, you can date others.

azmac229

I always thought separation ment your are separated. Therefore practicing not being married. You don't want him in your life so you separate, but you still want to control his actions. Can't have it both ways. And so is there a time limit on this relationship? What if it went on for a year, how about 2 years. I say once they leave the nest all is fare. Perhaps that will help to get you to focus on the relationship.

sad girl

my husband jus got out of a 2 year stay in jail we did not speak that whole time. he cheated in the past even moved to another state wit a girl. so i sleepes wit his baby mamas husband to get even.(childish i kno now he is out and we agreed to work on r marriage we dont live together. he bloww me off today to go on a date tonight and the girl is still at his house.. its 6am my time.. we just spoke to a pastor the day b4 t work on r marriage.. when i txt him about the girl i tol him i would leave him alone i get the picture load and clear. he told me get the facts b4 i do sumthin i regret and that i havent got it loud and clear yet... what does that mean that he was still workin in the marriage?

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