Do you think its ok for a married man to go to strip clubs?Why or why not?

Rachelina

If the wife knows beforehand and has no beef about it...sure why not?

However, I would sh-it myself and make my husband eat it before he ever thought about going to a strip club. Rachel's Kitty Lounge is open 24/7. I work hard for my body and he better enjoy it while it lasts and give ME that money.

By the way, I rather eat toe fungus than have my husband come home from a strip club and have ME "reap the benefits" of him getting a hard-on while some unsophisicated desperate, uneducated bimbo danced like a fool.

ALRIGHT...I will go see a naked guy and have his jiggle his wang in my face and then I will come home all turned on and my husband can enjoy my excitement. I don't think he would like that. Don't get married if you are going to be an idiot.

sexyhaze25

I tell mine he can go only if I get to join him. I like lap dances . Try it once it just might spark your love life alittle. You don't have to get a lap dance while your their just try to be a little open minded. Go see what they do . Every club is different . Some allow touching some don't

Littlemissy

WELL...........I use to let my husband go. But he was very trustworthy and I didn't have anything to worry about. He just wanted to go out and have fun with his friends. That's when we were first married, and I honestly didn't mind. We were young, and I didn't want to take him away from his friends. And the funny part is that after a couple times of him going, he just got didn't want to go anymore. He just told the guys he would rather be home with his family. Maybe try that.

Suspended

I don't think it can be good for a marriage. I know I'd be mad if my husband went to a strip club. I have known a couple of strippers and some of the stuff they tell me that goes on after hours etc.. is not something I'd want my husband involved in!

zara01

Sure as long as he's not wasting to much money or time on it. My husband has gone a couple of times.

bros.parker

Some wives are ok with that kinda thing. Most are not. I beleive that in some cases its that sort of action that can lead to seperation, or even divorce. Its an interesting argument. Have I ever been to a strip club myself? Yes.... when I was single, of course.

Janie

I agree with the first answer...maybe every six months...but it is definately uncalled for. Marriage is supposed to be about the two of you...But don't ask me, I can't even figure out if I am going to stay married or not.

spoiledrotten

personally i think it is disrespectful towards the wife if the husband goes to a strip bar. If he wants to see a naked woman he has one at home. i don't see the need.

it depends on why he goes. Mine goes when his friends throw bachelor parties, or sometimed just to hang out. Happens once or twice a year. Sometimes he invites me and I have gone. I know he isn't getting lap dances, he's just going to hang out with his friends.

When he gets home he is HAPPY to see me, and I know he isn't doing anything he shouldn't be doing. It's called trust.

And your husband wouldbn't tell you until after because he knew you would pitch a fit. So maybe you need to work on trust, or have a conversation about why this bothers you. If you think he might be doing something wrong, then you guys might want to consider counseling.

L o

i dont think so. if he goes he could meet someone and then he is more likly to cheat on you.

beerwench33

If you are a spaz, people will tend to hide stuff from you. He was not going to tell you so you couldn't veto the nudie bar, and he could act like he had no idea you would have had a problem with it. I guess I wouldn't want to be with a guy who has a strip club habit. If it was just something he did a couple times a year or something, I'd ignore it. It wouldn't be my favorite thing, but in this life, you choose your battles. If he's an otherwise good guy, just let him have this one unsavory male ritual.

forestgrovejerry

It is enterainment for some men. As long as he is not bringing home the bimbo's, then you have nothing to worry about. Besides, you will reap the just reward in bed that night.

Jason Rocks

When men go to strip clubs they think they aren't satisfied enough at home or they go to meet someone at the strip club make strip clubs "illegal" in your household or dump em' if he thinks he isn't satisfied you can kick em' out know or wait till he dumps you your choice

walkat1122

It doesn't bother me. But I once went with my husband. and it wasn't a big deal.

PLAYA 4REAL

Yes, because contrary to what you may want to think-he still desires to see other women naked. He won't tell you this so it would freak you out but that is the only reason we go!!! So let him go to the strip club, tell him for every dollar that he spends there he has to match it by tipping you when you strip for him when he gets home. After seeing other girls half naked for hours that he can't touch, he's going to want to come home and put his hands on you!!!! So enjoy!!!!!!

maslyn_jl

I don't know what my opinion is really about this. I think that if a man hides it from his wife then there is something wrong. If he asks for your permission then I think that is a different story. It all depends on the situation and how you feel about it.

Does it affend or bother you in any way?

Squeakers

A married man will not tell his wife,he's going to a Strip Club!. You don't have anything to worry about. It's just entertainment. The Dancers are doing a job,and are not interested,in picking up the patrons. They will be fired,if they are doing any "after hours" entertainment,because the guy will surely tell his friends,and it will surely get back to her boss.

Your_Star

for his friends bachlor party yes. but other than that, no. It's like he's saying you dont look good enough, so I'm going to a strip club.

nuwanusa

no 'cos then the man has a wife to get anything done. Going to a strip club means that the wife doesnt give him waht he wants

wildspirit1313

maybe once in awhile, but he should let u know before it happens....and make sure ur cool with it. its natural and healthy for us to look but not to cross the line and touch. he comes home to u .. give him credit he told u.. just let him know he needs to let u know ahead of time. go to a male strip club.. see how he likes it.

horsegurl

no he should be with his wife

CreoleGirl

maybe once every 6 months. not on a regular basis. that's uncalled for with a married man....or ANY MAN

tiger2say

no I don't think its a big deal. My husband went a couple of times with friends when in Paris and Amsterdam but I don't mind that. If he was going all the time then yes I would not like that.

greenbaypackers1920

Me a male I don't think so I have a wife. She sure give me so much love in bed and everything no matter how thin or fat she is she is the person I married to make love to her. I don't see why waste my money going to strip club just look at them and get lap dance?? I rather have money and spend on my wife and show her how special she is and How much I do love her.

that what marriage is alll about. and He didn't see that and didn't think a big deal?? why did he get married first place and if you not good enough for him?? wow.

Hope this helps.

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