Do you think shes cheating?

abcdgoodall

If you THINK she's cheating, then she IS cheating. A relationship is forged by both people... it can't be one-sided. Time to move on.

socalgal

I think that there is definetly a possibility! She may if you have that feeling. Another thing is check her phone for any odd #'s. Or I knew my boyfriend was cheating when he would never bring his phone around me he would leave it in the car or take it everywhere he went or would turn off the ringer. Dont look past it dont freak out but definetly take it into consideration

cassie86

That sounds a little strange that every time she goes out she doesn't answer her phone but you don't want to jump into conclusions. Did you notice any other changes in her behavior? Look out for her body language - is touching you, hugging you, do you see her eyes smiling when she looks at you? If not, then you might be right .... anyways, good luck

Kirsten S

If she does something wrong and says she will never do it again, and DOES, then break up. One chance is her only chance to make it up to you. Shes not worth it if that's the case.

lexiemarie2424

thats the first sign of cheating, i should know, my ex's did it 2 me, dump her and move on, find those cool chicks

holyitsacar

have you asked her if she's cheating on you?

dwntwnbadboy

I dont know about cheating! Actually kind of doubt it, when she's out with friends, having fun, dancing, and stuff, she aint going to pick up her phone no matter who you are, and ya know, there is a lot of time people just dont pick up their phones because they are pre occupied. So dont be insecure and take it as an insult, be thankful that she has a life, and dosent dwell/ask on you for evrything she does!!!!!!

hopeisnotforgotton

ask her strait out if she is cheating on you, if you look in her eyes you should be able to tell if she is lying. A lot of girls are not good liars.

hardtimes

Hey bro, I had a similar experience with my ex as well. I was always catching her doing the exact thing. I never had proof while we were together and everytime i'd ask her about cheating she would say I'm being paranoid.

Well a month ago I found out that not only was the ***** cheating on me, but she was also robbing me blind with her crackhead lover. They got me for about $40 large and were taking out loans against me.

I'm sorry to be so blunt, but it is usually worse than you ever think.

My advise to is go **** another chick and get a copy of your last credit report!!!

GOOD LUCK!

ALWAYS GO WITH YOUR GUT FEELING!!!

Sasha

There would be more evidence than her not answering her phone, because my phone is always on vibration so I miss a lot of my calls. I do call back when I have noticed that I missed the calls. Don't worry because it will come out sooner or later if she is messing around.

honydip

maybe you gave in to the wrong girl, shes taking you for granted cause she feel you not going no where and as long as you let her she is going to

Tina K

I wonder if you have a history of being cheated on. If so, be careful not to mess up an otherwise good relationship with junk for the past.

HauteMama

I'm all for the gut, but the evidence you've presented isn't very convincing. She's cheating b/c she doesn't answer her cell phone? Maybe she needs some time away from you or feels stifled and is tired of you calling her every time she's away.

And yeah, maybe she's cheating, but maybe you are, too. Point is, until you have the discussion and find out the real problem, this is all pointless speculation.

Bill I

You know your Girlfriend. If you have that feeling, It is probably right. She would have to come up with a pretty good reason for for the things she is doing,

Wat Da Hell

if you don't trust someone let them go

Slimm Diggie

Maybe yes or maybe no.But I'm a female and when I was in a relationship I would do the same thing. So it must be some else she is serious with cause she wants to show him the same respect. pay attention to how much she answer the phone around you for other people then ask her why you never answer the phone for me like that when i call. Cheating is obvious, so be detective and find out. Get you some friends and let them know you situation so when you break up you will not be alone. She wont.

John B

You obviously have some problems in trusting her. I am the same way but without a shred of evidence. I am afraid that I should be suspicious as well as afraid that I am paranoid. If you love her you need to give her the benefit of the doubt but do talk to her and let her know your fears.

Bella

i'll say one thing to you, and i hope you take it seriously. your gut feeling never EVER lies to you. trust it! if you truly feel like she is, then she is. I never had evidence that my ex was cheating on me too, but I always had this nagging feeling that he was, and it ended up being true. if she promises and says that it won't happen again, and she lets you down over something so stupid and small, that is really upsetting you, then you don't need her. she needs to be considerate of your feelings

keep_it_smileing

The answer is with in yourself! what ever you is feeling that is the answer!

WINGS

Don't accuse her. however you could ask her if she's ever thought about cheating on you or if she has. Say I want to know because I need to know where our relation ship is going and if you want to date other people then I should be free to do so as well and we can move on with our lives. It's only fair...

TELL HER your feelings and suspicions.
Be honest.
If She can't be honest with you now, she never will.

The Almighty Kevin

Well you can ask her straight out and get lied too...Or you can do something about it...Tell her you have to work late or be home late and wait in your car and when she leaves to go somewhere follow her...you'll get your proof ..you may not like it but hell you'll get your answer man.. then if she is cheating get with some of those hot girls and dump her.

Alicia

When girls play, they play dirty. And to me, it sounds like she is:
1. cheating,
OR
2. doing something special for you.

And from the looks of it, she is most likely cheating on you or isn't feelin you any more. I know this, because i have done it myself. I have ignored the calls of my boyfriend when i was with my ex. (this was some time ago mind you) It saves us the burden to lying and covering up the lie if we do answer your phone calls.

My advice, confront her, and possibly leave her if it escalates to that.

Foxy

I think she is just a stupid passive aggressive b*tch. She offers no excuse for not answering her phone when shes out, except to lie and say she wont do it again. SHE IS CHEATING, so dump her a**.

wolf560

All a bunch of conjecture...... if it were a court of law the case would be thrown out due to a severe lack of evidence ( as well as effort).

If you want to break up with her, do so........
If you want the relationship to continue, ask her if there's something or someone else in her life.

I guess I have two questions back at you though;
1- Why don't you go with her wherever she's going?
2- Why do you call her all the time when she's gone?

Sounds like you two aren't communicating, and it feels like you are a bit too 'needy' with the constant phone calls.

Madi

Are you sure your not just looking for excuses to break up with her? A handy dandy book Called "He's just not that into you" sais that when a guy thinks it's done he will automatically look for reasons even without realizing it. Just try talking to her, I know that sounds cliche but if she is chances are she will be honest if she really cares about your relationship. If not then why would you want to be with someone who doesnt care enough to trust you? Just TALK to her and dont ASSUME you know.

brwneyedgrl

i think that u need to have more substantial proof that someone is cheating then this to call it quits, maybe its u that wants out and go be with the "cool girls" and ur trying to find a reason.. so far all u've said is u dont trust her because shes not at your beck and call 24/7 guess what thats life and if u cant get over that then u dont need to be with anyone.. u cant control a person, u just have to have faith in the fact that they love you and wont cheat on you..if they want to cheat they will and u wont be able to stop it.. but if thats all u have to go on is cause she doesnt answer the phone, then thats not enough.. if shes at a club its hard to hear a phone over the music, alot of people dont want to carry anything on them other then cash and their license when they go into a club..or anywhere that they worry their purse may get lost or stolen.. or maybe she's so sick of having to check in with u every time she turns around that she just turns it off cause she wants some free time to herself with out be interegated.. i think the problem lies in ur own insecurity not that shes actually cheating..

gypsysoul52

if the doubt continues, make for the door and leave. geez, you're only single. you're not married and tied to a legal script. just go. yes, the pain of breaking up is the same, but yhou don't have the time or energy in this relationship as as maried person does. in a marriage you accept pretty much everything, including their problems as yours. in a dating relationship, oh puleeze.

honey, ask her again. if the answer and the following actions are the same, scram.

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