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Һסρε 2ӨӨ8
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I think how lucky I am everyday and am very thankful!!!
If your life is that miserable then do something about it instead of whining. BEST of luck to you! |
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Charlotte B
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Yes, but I usually phrase it: "Wow, how did I get so lucky to end up with this person?" I guess it's all a matter of perspective. |
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srracvuee
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yes i would expect thousands so think how lucky you are when you pick the right one |
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tomtomadair
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That's just part of life...sometimes you realize something you used to really like...you just don't like anymore. I'm sorry to hear that though. |
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chrissylm37
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I use to before I met my fiance. Now i ask myself "how did I get so lucky?" |
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Confused <3
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I'm hoping I don't... ! |
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the real casual poster
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I'll bet your wife says that every morning.....so yes, it IS you! |
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Kristina
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yes...but it's because he's awesome and I feel so lucky to have him :) |
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Blah
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I say it every day in the sense "wow, he's so great, how did I end up with him" |
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(D)
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Yes then we got divorced the end. |
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luvlisteningtomusic
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Yes I did almost everyday when I was married to my first husband. I was young and dumb and didn't know what love was. I wasn't even attracted to him much. I thought I was in love. Now that I am remarried it has been 10 years together 7 married and I know why I ended up with him because he loves me and treats me with respect. We have our ups and downs like everyone else but can honestly say his is a good man. |
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I've Got My Answer
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Always..................but I love him though, I can't deny that.......... |
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Miss Nikki ™
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I ask myself every single day...but then I don't do anything about it and probably won't until someone better comes along |
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scorpmntaur
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how long did it take?I bet next time you looke harder &listen closer. YES I have been their. |
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junior2oo
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lol its happens to the best of us
You have to understand that people aren't made to your specifications. People have strengths and weaknesses. Better to have a partner with some problems that tries to better herself than a partner with no problems that doesn't try to better herself |
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OOOh Yes Thats It Yes!!!!
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I do but in a good way god has sent me the most wonderfull guy a dream boy been with him for 5yrs and its been a blessing.. |
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tinkerbell
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i never been married but i know what you mean. like with boyfriends im just more like what was i thinking... and not as in phyically attraction but as in how they were on the inside such mean people... |
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Nic_09
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OMG! Yes I do. I have been with my kids father for almost 8 years he is bi-polar and crazy as hell. I look at all the choices I had and all the choices I could still have and I wonder what the hell is wrong with me? Why would I be with him so long when I dont have to be. Im about to get out of it soon though because saving his feelings is not worth my sanity. You should do the same. Who wants to be un happy for the rest of their life? |
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JJ
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Yea, till I left him. Can't live unhappy forever! |
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exnav138
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oh yeah. but the answer is staring at me in the mirror. |
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walter c
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only when I look in the Mirror!
that is when it comes to mind... |
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girly...
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yah i do...um i guess ..its wierd how it works |
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PiNkY
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Aw, that's so sad! No, I never, ever have said that! |
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onelovejas
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yea when i was going through my issues with my husband but Thanks God he changed and now i dont think that way.
If you feel that way do something about it |
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BabyDoll
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Just you |
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Kim P
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just you. |
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Martha Evans
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Thinking that way will not help to change things. Sometimes, both people are at fault. There is not enough information to know what the problems are in the relationship. You might try sitting down together and listening to your partner and repeating to them what they tell you and ask them if you are understanding them correctly, then ask them to listen to you and repeat back to you what you have said and try to tell them what is frustrating you about the relationship.
Here is a good relationship therapy class that I took called IMAGO therapy. I really got a lot out of it, and it helped me be a better listener.
I hope your relationship can be saved. I am sorry that you are so unhappy. Sometimes, praying for the person who makes you upset and angry can actually soften things and lessen your stress when you are upset. |
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Curious
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I have asked myself that question numerous times in the last 13 years. Also, "what keeps me here?"
In the end I generally weigh out the pros and cons of our relationship. I watch single people struggling to find dates, and feel content that I am not on that scene. Its easier for me to say "ok, well, I knew what I was getting into" than "I want to scrap the last 13 years and start again". My spouse can be the most kind and generous man on the planet, but has a Jekyl and Hyde moment and can be the biggest monster. You caught me on a time just after an argument about a stupid thing....so its not just you. |
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rivasj27
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every damn day man...maybe we should pass them over to each other.... |
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trixxxy_23
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ummm everyday i think? isn't that the fun part of life? |
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