Does anyone agree that divorce should be extremley difficult to get?

sassy_smart2000

You are very wise.

http://www.biblebelievers.com/AllThis.html

cesar g

divorce is not easy on anyone. but why do so many people go threw with it? IT'S WORTH IT!
the problem is it's so dam easy to get married. that's what should change. make marriage difficult that way if you can get threw the marriage you know it's worth it.

making divorce harder to get will not help anyone. most people in this world are so concerned with today that they don't worry about divorce in the future. Another thing is that everyone getting married believes that this is the one. that this marriage is going to be forever. "because we're in love!" so even if divorce had a prison sentence they would still get married, because as far as they see it they Will never be getting divorces. making divorce harder will only in-trap 2 people that can't stand each other any more to have to stay together in their personal hell.

PISCES-3

I believe that marriage is sacred. It's very important to know weather or not your ready to be sealed together as one for the rest of your life. I don't think people know what marriage is because if they did they would deal with whatever the situation is and stop running out on each other marraige isn't suppose to be easy. You inherit each others issues and every other other thing they have as well , your partners help each other out no matter what takes just do it and shut up. You love each other right?Yes I agree divorce should be hard to get.

Grace L

Read it again, she just mention that if people would realize that divorce is difficult maybe just maybe people would slow done and realize that marriage is not easy,nor a game , take it seriously or don't do it.

girlygirl

I feel that there should be pre-divorce classes for at least one month for both. This would be an excellent way of communicating the real issues of wanting the divorce in the first place. A lot of couples don't know how to communicate for many reasons and that is the biggest relationship flaw. Many couples use divorce as a way out from there problems, running away from whatever issues there may be is not a solution. Their next relationship more than likely will face the same problems.

nd_gurl2003

Divorce is not the problem here, its people rushing into a long term commitment and wanting to get married because they have nothing else to do.

cici

I totally agree. To many people use that as an "easy way out".

Scott B

Divorce should be a crime.

kimba

I believe that MARRIAGE should be harder to get!

Jennifer B

I disagree...
I was in a horrible relationship for 8 yrs and finally got the chance to get away and then it took me 2 years to get my divorce final.. It was pure hell... It shouldnt be any harder then it already is. in fact, it could stand to be a bit easier.

andrea lynn

I think that it is just as easy to fall out of love as it is to fall into love. Yes when you get married you say its til "death do you part" but divorce is sometimes the only answer. When spouses are cheating, or abusive, you need a way out.

mojomuppet

i prefer the method of getting married should be hard to get. divorce rate would go down if it was more difficult to get married.

drampor

I disagree, it's not quick enough now. A life of strife for a chance of having a successful marriage is poor odds. When it's over move on. This is just my opinion of course, you most certainly are entitled to you own.

It isn't right to hinder the rights of our fellow human, but we should take steps to prevent it. We should have couples take a marriage, family, and communication class. We could also make them take counseling. That could be expensive, and it is going against our basic rights. I think tha people should just be smarter.

Scooter

Divorce is not the problem.... marriage is.

People should have to live together for 5 years before a wedding license is granted.

What do you think about that?

tolula

I love what Intuition897 said, it was really profound and it made me think.

I agree, marriage should be harder to get into. People marry for reasons other than really wanting to grow a life with the person they chose.

Depends! i would getting marry should be very difficult.

1/2MT

I don't agree. If the people involved have certain guidelines that they agree to follow before a divorce, then that's fine. But if you try and shove your own beliefs down other people's throats, they will resent you, and divorce anyway! Let people be fallible--no one knows better than the two people involved, and FORCING your will on them will make it worse for them and their children! Put it this way: if YOU wanted a divorce for whatever reason, and someone told you that you couldn't, or that that there were certain "requirements", you would take that bitterness back into the marraige and the family! Let people be whomever they are, and let them learn by their own successes and failures--let it be the decision of the people involved! Sure you can counsel them and try to be there for them, but it's THEIR CHOICE! And "choice" is REALLY getting pounded these days by people trying to force their will on others!

sngcddls

actually they should make it harder to get married.

flamingo_sandy

I DISagree 100%.

intuition897

Should divorces be extremely difficult to get??

It wouldn't be an issue if marriages were made more difficult to get!! Just a personal opinion folks, but I truly believe that there are more people out there who are married than should be, people who are in love with the idea of being married, but not in love with each other.

Marriage is supposed to be a gift you give one another...without asking ANYTHING in return. Nothing, nada, zip! You make your vow to be that person's friend and to help him or her live the best and fullest life they possibly can. That's it. The only condition should be that the other person realizes the enormity of what they were given: a whole person of their very own. Not a toy. Being someone's spouse is a huge responsibility, because that person is trusting you to never hurt them.

At least, ideally that is the case. Trouble is, people go into marriages without a CLUE as to what they're getting into, and they don't attack life as a team, with one another as a true support. Your spouse is supposed to be your partner, your "home", your best friend. Two whole people who choose to live life together, so they will never feel alone. Such a waste that so many husbands and wives never reach out to each other and go through their entire marriages without any emotional intimacy.

byubelle98

yes I would agree

the freakin' analyst

no cz many people suffer more than enough in the "that easy" time u're talking about. maybe ur Q should be "should marriage not be that easy among immature people?!!!"

nyjonny2000

The government should handle marriage the same way it handles car registrations, you should have to renew it every year of so. If you and your spouse love one and other than go ahead and renew the marriage registartion. If, on the other hand, you're not happy in the relationship they you should be allowed to let it expire and be done with it.

Ahmad

Divorce is the most disliked matter to God.So it should be extremely difficult to get

here_to_help

i agree. i think people divorce way to musch. its scary

ca_sh17

No divorce should be easy, maybe marriage should be difficult to get

Yentl

That makes a good point.
But just not in the case of abusive relationships-- it should really be allowed with extra supportive incentives- (more favorable decision making for the children involved or whoever is least financially apt etc) In that case the state should allow it with protective measures provided for whoever filed the divorce while claiming abuse.
And by abuse I mean all forms- whether directed toward the wife, or the children. If it were difficult to leave such a situation, think of the harm we would be doing against our fellow people by "entrapping" them in that situation!
Now, hopefully, people wouldnt try to exploit such a system and falsely claim abuse just for a quicker divorce.
I mean really- can we really "make people think" from external means? Aren't emotions and thoughts internally determined no matter what the external situation (especially in matters of 'love' and lust'?) And as it is, divorce is already "hard" - if not in procedures then in expenses and consequences.
Really, people should have enough incentive to think harder as it is, but people are just weak-willed, immature, and ill-guided.

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