Does anyone believe in soulmates?

SinDelle Morte

Ohhh, I have done a lot of research on this subject. This is what I believe:
The Soul splits into two parts, male and female, because the Soul is too expansive to fit into one body. This is called your Twin Soul or Twin Flame. Soul Mates are not the same thing; they are people you have had contact with during other incarnations of the Soul. The Soul comes to earth many times in it's quest to become perfect so that it may reuinite with itself and go on from Earth. (Whatever gender you are in your current incarnation, your Twin is always the opposite, because the Soul is both male and female.) So Soul Mates can be friends, boy/girlfriends, spouses, parents, children... anyone you come in contact with who has taught you an important life lesson and helped you balance karmic debt. You feel that "connection." (Those of you who have felt it know what I am talking about.) Once you have learned all that you must and have balanced all karmic debts, (which may take many incarnations), that is when you meet up with your Twin. You may meet your Twin before you are ready. When this happens, there is always terrible pain and suffering involved in the relationship because neither of you are ready yet. I could go on forever. When you meet your Twin, you will find that there are many, many parallels in your lives. It will seem like you have lived the exact same life. The attraction is instant and irresistable. It'd be like trying to fight the strongest magnetic force ever. I believe my husband is my Twin Soul. We are both Capricorns. His father is gay; my mother is gay. His father was abusive, his mother used guilt on him. My parents: same. He has two brothers. I have two sisters. He is the oldest. I'm the oldest. Me and my sisters are a Capricorn, Taurus and a Gemini. His brothers and he are a Capricorn, a Taurus and a Gemini. I could go on and on and on.
Do I believe in Soul Mates? Absolutely.

David G

Soulmates are a deliousion, they don't exist. Why? because everyone is human.

It just depends on who your compatable with.

scary mary

When I was a kid I believed in soul mates. Now I think it's a joke. Even if my soulmate is out there, I might not find him. And that's the case, I'm not going to bother believing in them and getting my hopes usp.

Trinitie G

The only people that believe in soul mates simply have not been in love yet.

Love breaks you.

Trinitie

arklatexrat

I'm not sure what I believe about this anymore.
I just KNEW my 1st husband was the right one for me--we had such chemistry when we were young, and I mistook it for true love, but now I've come to believe that we never connected at the soul level because his soul is black and evil and no way would I have connected to that. He either changed after we got together or had me fooled all along--hard to say, and harder to get over.

My husband now is nothing like I would ever have chosen if you'd asked me what my ideal man was, yet he is absolutely perfect for me. He "gets" me in a way my ex never did, and is this unique combination of the best qualities that my mom and dad had (they are passed away now). We also have a deep spiritual relationship based on our common beliefs; there is no doubt in my heart and mind that God brought us together. I guess "soulmates" would be one way to describe it.

I look at it this way--God has a perfect will for each of us, and a permissive will. In order for the 1 soulmate thing to work out exactly right, each 1/2 of the couple must get and stay on the "perfect will" track in order to find and keep that 1 best relationship. But if one or both get off track somewhere along the way, I believe God can and does allow "permissive will" relationships to flourish and succeed. Hope that makes sense!

lhallums82

no I do not. I am married to a man I love, but we make it work. If I were not to have met him I think I would still be married one day.

Valerie X

No such thing.

lakrluvr

I lbelieve it is possible that you have special connections with people that you just will never encounter again - but it doesn't guarantee that you will be together forever!

skittles689

i dont believe there is that one special person(soulmate)
i think that many people can be your soulmate, it really depends on what you tink of that person and how goods they make you feel and of course how much u love them.

Ron T

i dont belive there is a person out there for one other
'that they are "meant to be'"
i believe its a matter of luck as to when you meat a person you like
there is a person which would be the BEST match for you, but you may never meat them
but you are with a person, may-b the 20millianth best person for you
but since there are so many ppl that the 10th million best match is quite good

Renegade

"We live as we dream: alone."

Sweet Suzy 777!

No.

Irish Ellen

I do not beleive we are swans and mate for life. Nice concept, but usually my relationships are on the 2 to 5 year program, it is what it is.

janine o

Scorpio

Yes, I do. My wife and I knew we were meant to be together from our first date.

Karmin T

There is such things as a soul mate, but a person can never completely love everything about them. A soul mate is someone that grows on you, and not necessarily destiny.

~NIKKI~

I believe in Soul Connections, But i think that a soul connection can be with any gender and you can connect with more than just one person in a lifetime.

lady

i'd like to think we have soul-mates,,like someone ur destined for,,i'm not sure,though,,but,,i feel like my husband would qualify as my soul-mate,,just because,,when we met we both knew we wanted to be with each other,,like we could stop searching at that point,,i just had never felt so comfortable with someone,,other than my family,,it felt like being at home when i spent time with him,,like that's where i belonged and could truly be myself,,

we actually ended up getting married sooon after we first met!,,and i know that's usually a disaster waiting to happen,,but,,we still have the same feelings towards each other and we still have that same connection,,i feel so lucky to have found him,,especially having someone that goes outta there way to make u feel like ur just the greatest thing in the world to them,,

Lizzi

I believe in soulmates and that everyone has one but I also believe not everyone finds their soulmate. But when you find yours you will know it and sometimes not everyone choses their soulmate over who they are with..... i think i found mine and he knows it but we can never be.... but somtimes it could be for the better.

Kitty

I think that we all have a number of people we are potentially compatible with. Most of these folks we'll never meet (they could be half-way around the world from us), but a few of them we do bump into, and it's up to us to recognize who is the best match. The idea of only one "soulmate" seems like a total nonsense.

cherie

I absolutely believe in soulmates because I think I've met mine.

I don't believe there is only one for everyone though - I think every soulmate you meet (if you are ever lucky to meet that many! haha) fulfills you in different ways.

Believing that there is only one person for you sets you up for almost definite failure.

Willie P

I don't think there is just ONE soulmate for one person, there are too many people in the world for that to be so, but I do believe there are people out there who you can connect with mentally, physically and spiritually on a level like no other. There are a vast amount of people in the world, if you spend your time trying to find that ONE person you can connect with, you will miss out on so many other people who while not perfect for you (which is what the title "soulmate" suggest), can offer you so many things, & not just money; love and affection also.
I am married and we are SO not soulmates! We argue, fuss & fight almost everyday, but we always come together in the end and reconcile our differences. I know she loves me for who I am, not who she wants me to be and I feel the same about her.
Soulmates? Who needs 'em?! They take too long to find anyway!

maybe but people don't always find them...

rorybuns

I am engaged to my soulmate. Though I have other soulmates in my life whom are friends/family (male and female), my fiance is definitely the one I feel I'm meant to marry as we balance each other.

Ralph G

ONE soulmate? No. One of the key issues in marriage preparation is to discuss one's expectations of marriage. In all the professional, tested & verified couple inventories, the belief that one has ONE soulmate is an immediate red flag.

My wife and I are very well suited to each other. I could say we are soul mates. But I can also say that I know there are other men she could have married and been well suited to also.

In finding a life-long mate, it is important to have lots of connections with that person...personality, family of origin characteristics, spending patterns, recreational interests, and on and on.

But, you'll never be perfectly matched either. How boring would that be? To start with, one is male and one is female. Loads of differences there! And there will be others as well. Now, if you get a marriage and those differences start coming out and you are frustrated by them, and you believe there is one perfect soul-mate somewhere in the world for you - then you may want to leave this person, and continue your search for the true soul-mate. This is exactly what many do, and spend their life going through a series of failed relationships seeking that perfect one.

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subpopkid

soulmates are entwined with the concept of fate. at least, that's how i see it. the person you're destined to be with. because i believe in fate or that our lives have already been carved out for us, i do believe in soulmates. on the other hand... the counter argument would be: how can *you* decide if the person you're with really is your "soulmate"? just because you love them? it's kind of complicated haha but to me it's simple if you believe in the fact that we're meant to be with certain people, regardless of whether or not we choose to.

Randy

I do beleive in soul mates. My wife was my soul mate, but she died from cancer. I have little doubt that I will not marry again. I am 50 years old.

callie

nah.

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