Does it consider cheating if we r just talking how we want to do each other?

James

The question of cheating is a matter of perception and definition based upon others who observe such behaviors AND also by the individual who manifests such behavior. The question shouldn't be whether we would judge you to be cheating according to our personal definition, but rather should be understood that you are making a choice to manifest your own self-definition of that which you wish to be. You are responsible for what you do and you know it. How can you deny your personal responsibility to others you have committed to? It is not wrong to choose another, but it certainly is not right to cause disruption to another's experience using a belief that you are not harming another person. You do know better. What is the purpose of keeping your existing partner in the dark? Why are you not being honest? What are you afraid of? Or is it that you want your cake and also eat of it? Your actions are a derivitive of your choosing to express the negative aspects of yourself, justifying them as you perceive, based upon your belief and faith in those perceptions. I am not judging you for your actions, but am simply pointing out the obvious; you are acting from a choice to be a service to self individual rather than being a service to others individual. If you really cared about others, you would do the right thing and release your partner whom you chose to align with. Your partner may react with painful emotional experience regardless of which method or path you choose. Why be deceiptful and lie? Why such arrogance?

Sweeping the true reality of the deeds you do under the proverbial rug in favor for the choice to deny that reality, percieving a false reality that what you are doing is acceptable and justified does not negate your responsiblity. That which you give shall be given unto you. Give negativity and negativity will come your way and be cloaked so that you will not see it manifest until it is too late. This will be a result of your choice to blind yourself and is entirely your fault for choosing to be who you are choosing to be right now.

However, you have the ability and power to NOT be that way. You can be more. You can do the right thing. If you do not love your chosen partner, then set that person free. Tell them the truth. Love does not mean pain free experience. It means, however, you express Truth. What you are expressing is not Truth, but is Fear and darkness for others to experience along with you.

What a shame. You do not realize that you are cutting off your own arm. Who would willingly choose to harm themselves? In harming another, you harm the self. The blindness you created for yourself within your mind blinds you from this truth.

Too many suffer due to the choice to ignore the Truth within themselves and I know you KNOW or you would not have been able to ask this question of yours in the first place.

Now do the right thing.

Good Luck.

Liz

If your doing it in secret from your partner,then it is cheating. If it isn't... then why don't you tell your partner about it?

USMC wife <3 Due in June

Not cheating. But not right.
If I were one of your significant others I would definitely leave you for that.

Dangyo

TIFFANY! WHY WOULD YOU?

is it murder when you tie someone to the train tracks, then leave, and you know the next train is due in 10 minutes?

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