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luv2seashore1
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No the other woman doesn't have to be a skank. She may actually be a very loving and caring person and unfortunately fell for someone who is taken. Remember it takes two, so the guy should be blamed too. All is fair in love and war! Even in the year 2008, we still discriminate against the women in these cases. Not saying it is right, just that it takes two and he is to blame too . So......what names shall we call him? |
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Signilda
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How intelligent and caring is someone who would come between a husband and wife..possible children too? That is selfish and very stupid. |
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italienne
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If she were all that, she'd respect the person's marriage vows and leave it alone. |
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Who Knew?
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if the tiara fits... |
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no name
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if you go after a man whos in a realtionship your not only a skank but a homewrecker as well karma what goes around comes around |
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Dancing in Misery
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I'm sure all that's true as well...BUT that person did get involved with a married/taken person...The only time that the evil names are dropped is when the person that is taken doesn't tell the "other" about there girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband...Othe... they are skanky and hoeish...And so is the person cheating! |
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<3
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skankkkk |
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ravens_angel78
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Well, if she doesn't know that he is already in a relationship then she is just a woman who is misled, but if she knows about the relationship and continues on with everything then yes, she is ho, skank, evil, etc., etc.....
It blows my mind when the "home wrecker" knows about it and continues in the relationship expecting the other person to leave their husband/wife. etc...
If s/he is going to cheat WITH you, s/he will cheat ON you!! |
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ndnqt1966
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Ummmm....Let me see.....ok...getting closer to an opinion.....and the answer is YES YES YES!!!.....The "other woman" a caring woman? LOL.....that is an oxymoron....A caring woman wouldn't sleep with another woman's husband... |
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Indy
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bingo |
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enzyme303
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It is an unwritten law that the other woman has to be a skank. There is no getting around it. It is a law of nature. |
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Stephen K
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She doesn't, but it helps to paint her as such |
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Lv Dr. 4U
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Most chicks/dudes get defensive, but I do believe that some men/women do "upgrade" and really do find something that was missing in their relationship; but don't expect the women/man to be dignified and like it! I do believe some people take their spouses for granted, marry for the wrong reasons, or marry the wrong person occasionally and get bitter when the relationship ends; I'll probably get the thumbs down but it's the truth! |
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Beach Girl
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It's not impossible, as a matter of fact MOST of the time that's exactly who she is...and who he is. Like the song says..."Oh it's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along.." |
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Vic
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Wow, Do you know what your saying? A person who messes around with someone who is already spoken for IS a SKANK!!!!!!!! Skankie is as Skankie Do! |
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kenab [has left this site]
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Hi boundless,
By name-calling, people are just trying to make themself look better or appear to be better...
they think they are building themself up...
by putting someone else down. |
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Tom S
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it's part of the game.People hate being cheated on and when someone facilitates that they will get the wrath.We all have morals,when one cheats it is a breach of trust and that is hard to take. |
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thejaundiced_eye
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Sometimes they're another dude. |
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Chrissy
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Now let us ponder on this:
"Name calling is just an oversimplification of complicated situations and emotions. No person is ever as one-dimentional as the name-caller would have us believe."
Yep, I agree 100%.
What this is saying is that the other man/woman is a human being too. They DO NOT necessarily have to be those negative things. They CAN AND OFTEN DO posses good qualities such as being caring, intelligent, and self - secure. |
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Ashley
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This much is true! |
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DORY
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Most "Home Wreakers" don't even know the guy is "married" at first!
How could "he" be? 4 nights here this week!
5 next week! He never tells!
Then one day,,,too late, he has "no where to go"! WHY? He gets kicked out!
He has lied to both! Not only one! The "Other One" too!
Sad ***, that he is!
That's Life!
Most single confident women would rather not fall in love with a married man! Why should she?
Yet, when lied to, it is at times too late! |
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GangGreen
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yes the other woman/man is a homewrecker..they dont care about the ppl they are hurting..it is abit selfish. If she was so secure and intelligent they would not be picking up a married man/unavailable women |
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venus11224
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The other woman in a certain case i know is a manipulative control freak who is promiscuous and gave him STD. However, in his eyes, she's caring and loving. Used to be a swinger, cheated on him while they were married. Still he loves her and thinks just like you do. Oh, and by the way, she took him away from his family, his daughter was only 2 years old at a time. |
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livinhapi
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that's why they say "love is blind", it is selfish and does not care who it will hurt as long as it gets the one person that will it will love and be loved. |
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James Watkin
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A secure woman does not go after a man that cheats, nor does a secure man go for a woman that cheats. You just want to feel better about what is wrong. And those that cheat on their spouses and the people they do it with are both wrong.
You spend your energy living your marriage and if it is broken, fixing it and not spending time with others and then you won't be falling in love with others, you will be doing the hard work it takes to have a lasting marriage. One that does last for life.
And the other woman and you or the other man and you won't last forever, you both already showed your colors. She will soon be looking for someone who is attached and you will soon be looking for someone else to fall in love with because neither of you know what it takes to have a lasting relationship. Some call it Karma, but I call it reaping what you have sown. It's Biblical man, you are doomed from the beginning. |
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ctown
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For most people who are quick to judge, yeah the other women are always the skank. But I'm not like most people. It's possible for the other woman to be all those things you said. People make mistakes. That goes for the other man too. |
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pastels c
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she/he is a skank because they are breaking up a marriage
home wrecker.. they only care about themselves not about what is right and wrong
without that person.. the two people may have been able to work it out |
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Sands
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No.
Sometimes situations take on a life of their own without us truly realizing it. Life can be overwhelming at times and we can fall into a situation that we may not have if everything else in our lives were on track. |
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Mandylynne
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if someone is a homewrecker they deserve to be called as such for sure... you don't alow yourself to fall for someone who is taken... and if you do, keep your mouth (and your legs) shut!!!!!!!!!!! |
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