Does this mean my husband is jealous?

SCOTTY

This could be several different scenarios..Your husband is jealous and is worried about some guys ''googli-eyeing'' you..Or he could be insecure and worried about you being out there wearing suggestive clothing,,which might cause him problems..Or he could be the kind of person who is trying to mentally control you to be and wear what HE thinks you should wear and think !! Preferably what ever suits HIM !!And lastly,,you could be the hottest of the hot-ties out there,,and he is paranoid that you'll realize it and figure out he's not the catch you thought he was when you two married.. Lots of choices..YOU are the on who really knows him,,is he trying to control you?? or just wanting you to dress more modestly,,for both of your sakes?? If he's always talking down to you and saying things which tend to belittle you and your opinions,,he's trying to control you.. Has NOTHING to do with dress or anything else !! Assert yourself !! If you like to wear shorts,,WEAR EM !! Next time he has something on which is silly to you or looks bad,,TELL HIM !! See how HE likes it !! Marriage is fun,,but keep your Independence,,and self-respect !! YOUR worth it !! I wish you both well.. SCOTTY

Darrick

Yes your husband does have a twinge of jealously however he is quite correct about the other men. A guy can always tell when some one wants his wife. Itâ€™s something like gaydar. You should heed his word and follow his request after all donâ€™t his wishes have merit? I am sure you want your wishes to count. Is it really that big of a deal to wear pants? Or do you prefer to fight with your husband?

Oly

AWW... It is normal though. I think. I have the most gorgeous legs people tell me and my boyfriend of a year and a half tells me that too. But when I wear shorts, he gets uncomfortable and asks me if I can change them because he knows other men will be looking. So, he tells me that those legs are his and says he doesn't want other men to even think about it.
Some men can use it just to have control over you. So you have to watch out.

Redneck_Momma

Wear the shorts anyways. It's not like you are outside in a thong and nipple pasties. He needs to get over it.

Anne W

He may not be jealous so much as controlling - or wanting to control you. Yes, you should be looking good for you and feel better about your because you do. Your husband doesn't have the right to tell what to wear or not wear, unless he has a very specific person in mind that he doesn't want to see you. IF he is talking about a specific neighbor ("Joe next door always tries to look down your shirt and up your skirt so I would appreciate it if you wouldn't wear that around him.") then I would abide by his comment for that specific person, but otherwise he is being jealous, controlling and you need to ask him about this.

shady

He sounds like a loser. Jealousy ruins relationships.

He has no confidence in himself...

Racin

Yes he is jealous.

Just because the neighbors are married doesn't mean they don't want you. They may be swingers.

a lalt13

Yep, he's jealous. Got one of them myself.
Jealousy is a wasted emotion.

Why are you being such a strumpet?

Aji

Jealous.

bride2be

Girl do not stay in that relationship, that is excessive jealousy and control that will only get worse as time goes on and if God forbid, soon he will try to have you will be locked in your house and he will not even let you have friends or go outside without him there, I know I've been there done that my ex husband was like that with me and on a daily basis I got my a** beat because "I wouldn't listen to him so I made him punish me." and it didn't start until we hd been married for a little bit.
So please listen to me on this, I really don't want to hear or see anyone else go through that.
If you want to talk to anyone call your local Domestic Violence office and they will help you, give advice, or just listen to you, whatever you want.
Good Luck sweety and remember what I said.

Ms. Purpose

He knows the mind of a guy and what they would start thinking if you had that on, so he is either jealous because the neighbor has been gauking at you or thinks he will. Listen to your hubby and wear something else nice. He loves you. I'm not sure why women always demand respect from their husbands but don't want to respect their husband's opinions. Why do you need affirmation from outside of the home???

T.J.

It seems as though he is very jealous, or perhaps he is insecure about himself. The best way to figure it out would be to politely ask him why he feels the way he does. Only he would know, and communication in a relationship is a MUST. Good luck to you!

KingAndrew

Your husband is every insecure and his green eyes are showing. You need to put your foot down, and tell him to grow up. You can dress as you want and if it makes you feel pretty then that is what you need to do. Good luck.

Queen of Beer

He may be jealous, but he sounds very controlling! No one can tell you what to wear.

Subserviant

He's jealous AND over-reacting, yes, but it might be that he's jealous because he's doing something on his own and is "projecting" his guilt onto you. Might wanna check that. Quite a control freak, that one. Does he control other things in your life, or has this just suddenly started?

mizzhollywood28

Yes he's a jealous loser, not to mention controlling.

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