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Thagenesis
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Every marriage is bound to have problems there is no single relationship that doesn't. It is needed for problems to exist, that's the only way to learn from mistakes and each other. The marriages that seem to work with synergy have all had their share of problems and overcome. That is what people should strive to do in marriage not head straight to court for a divorce. A marriage that lasts is one where both partners try understand what the other needs ESPECIALLY during disagreements |
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fuzz
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Agree. You have two very imperfect people trying to live under the same roof and get along with each other. You also throw kids who are often worse than their parents into the mix. It will put a strain on a marriage. That's not always a bad thing because if you handle it right, the tough times make your bond stronger, but yes every marriage has its problems. |
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sunshyne
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indeed |
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puanani
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Definitely agree. It's how you resolve these problems is how you survive in a marriage. |
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ocean
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Agree, I cant stand those people that say we never argue.....you have NEVER been in a real relationship then. If you never argue, then that means you dont have an opinion on anything or care about anything etc. Everyone has a right to a personal opinion......we all are made different for a reason. Now if you fight, thats a different story. |
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theoriginalquestmaker
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Agree. No two people are exactly alike so there are bound to be problems from time to time. |
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mac150
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'tis true. |
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Lovely Lady
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every marriage, every relationship, every friendship... everyone has a problem from time to time. If no relationship had problems then they are not being real with each other.... so yeah I totally agree with you, you just need to work through them! Good Luck! |
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oracleofohio
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Agree. We've learned a lot about each other by working through problems. No marriage is perfect. |
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jude
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in the real world there is no perfect marriage, there are always going to be differences, but one has to compromise and learn how to fight fair. |
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D lux
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TOTALY AGREE, WE'RE HUMANS RIGHT? SO THERE YOU HAVE IT. |
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ncowifeusaf5
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totally agree.....married 16yrs and we have had our share of ups and downs..... |
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pappysgotitgoinon
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Anyone who disagrees is trying to fool themselves or has never been married. Marriage is a joint venture between two people with different ideas, likes, dislikes, preferences and the list continues. How would you expect these two people to never disagree? The trick to a marriage (there's a trick to everything) is compromise. Once this term is learned and applied, then the rest comes naturally. Just my opinion. But my opinion has worked well for us for over 15 years now. |
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LOS
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I agree. No matter how alike two people are, they aren't the same two people, so of course there will be disagreements. It's how unalike these two people are that will tell how the disagreement will work out. My wife and I are very alike and are constantly on each other's wavelength. However, we still have disagreements, no one is prefect. |
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♥The Mrs.♥
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Of course I agree. |
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Emily Dew
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Absolutely! I only know of one marriage where they never argue and that's because the wife is afraid to disagree with her husband or speak her mind because he blows up easily. So, on the surface, it looks like they never have any problems, but underneath it all -- BIG problem! |
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slushpile reader
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agree 100%!
There's a really interesting episode of This American Life in which they discuss the idea that its not at all how OFTEN a couple fights, rather its HOW they fight that will determine a succesfull relationship. Its worth a listen if your interested. |
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Cindyyy<3
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Or course! Same in relationships. |
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I luv my kids
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Most definitely agree |
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Sophiesmama
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Some more often than not. |
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Melissa T
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I agree. And depending on the methods used to solve the problems....it may be what makes the marriage stronger...or ruins it. |
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Lindy
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I agree, marriage is like life things never go quite according to plan, and if it was all plain sailing wouldnt it be borig
Isnt making up half the fun! |
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nathaniel63026
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I agree. |
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Lori K
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Certainly. |
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jdiddley
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Yes, in the real world. |
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GRIM OF 05
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totally i am engaged and i got problems |
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Alisha
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I agree, no relationship is a bed of roses. We all go through our ups and downs... |
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chaditay
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I agree! Marriages are give and take. He gives and I take!! LOL |
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Rafa
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Marriage is like every thing else in life, you have your good days and you have your bad days. But, as long as you have respect, trust and compassion for your spouse, your marriage will last. I agree that all marriages have their share problems. |
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Mom madness
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if we always got along and always agreed how boring would that be?? Agree |
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Patsy A
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If there are no problems there is no connection. It means you don't care. |
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