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Ronald M
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he sounds like a sweet man. You should bake him an apple pie |
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Andy D
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Dont be so F@cking stupid Of course its not acceptable. |
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lizo0110
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If he really loved you why the hell would he hit you? If he cares about you at all he would stop acting like an *** and get into some counseling since he obviously has anger management issues. You're friends are right, listen to their advice! |
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tasheema22
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It's wrong no one should put their hands on you. He beats on you because he's afraid to hit a man. My Aunt is married to an abusive man and she is always trying to hide black eyes, busted lips, and bruises all over her body. It's not a good sign that you are sending your children if you have them, because they might grow up thinking that a man beating on a woman is okay and it's not. All the apologies in the world don't make up for him putting his hands on you. You deserve better and god wouldn't want you to be with a man that is abusing you. |
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MCFC
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stop being a door matt, thats if its a serious question, get out of that relationship now!!!
nobody should be abused or bullied, male or female!! |
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caroline1409f1
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No, report him to the Police and get out QUICK. |
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kate
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Its not acceptable in any way, yes you do love him and as hard as this may seem, its hard to see the wrong in people we love but when we finally realise its over, that's the time when we'' realise all their faults and their dissfucntions, you should go before it gets worse. |
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Rachel
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I hope this is not a serious question. If it is then listen to your friends. Its wrong... |
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Melissa D
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yes its WRONG. abuse is abuse and its not right. I would personally kick him if he tried that crap on me, Love shouldnt hurt |
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k is for killer
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That's nice that he says sorry, I hope you dress in kinky clothes and lap dance for him after he's said sorry.
He's a diamond, hang on to him. |
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Cheese A
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was it worth opening a new account to ask an unfunny question like this? |
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David R
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I guess you would call me an idiot also and a lot more others also out here, Sorry to say but your the one acting like the idiot to stay living with him for doing this.
He should be charged the first time he did this and kicked out.
You should not put up with this and should not have to,
Get rid of him and get some help for yourself for this abuse.
There is lots of help out there, this is not normal.
Please before you end out dead for it only gets worse.
Good luck |
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me
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You can teach him a lesson. Whenever your husband comes home, shut all the doors, bolt them from inside... beat your husband mercilessly for two hours with different type of weapons (including your dog). Then at the end appologise to him and say I LOVE YOU DARLING.. and ask how does it feel like. He will definitely understand , but if he does not then go for one more round.... |
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NJAS
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Hello, no-ones allowed to beat you, are you crazy if a guy loves you he would never want to harm you. This guy is crazy, what will happen if he kills you will him saying he loves you make everything OK, I don't think so. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS WRONG! |
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kheserthorpe
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It wouldn't be acceptable to me, but you choose how you live, and what treatment you are willing to live with. |
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Tammy
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How could you say he is such a nice guy if he is beating you? You need to leave him. No ne deserves to be beaten.
You shouldn't call your friends idiots. Seems to me they know what they are talking about.
Get out, get help. Don't live like this. |
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Kitty Kat
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Your idiot friends are not such idiots. Of course it is not acceptable. & he can't be such a nice guy afterall if he beats you. The problem is you do love him & you only want to see the best in him. That's fair enough. But it will probably get you into a lot of trouble. Perhaps killed if he beats you badly enough. People passing judgement on your relationship is not going to help you, you need to make the decision to save yourself & get out while you still can. When you are ready you will meet someone that truly is a nice guy & that can love without beating you. Good-luck & take care hun. |
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eight-hours
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Beats you at what.....are you playing games as your question is ambigious. Do you mean he beats you like with fists/knocks you about./ If so get out now, take the kids if you have any and go make yourself homeless anything but go before he really harms you. |
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mimi
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get a grip this man is taking advantage of you. you think you love him because you never known any better get shot of him and enjoy your life, its too short as it is without someone ruining it |
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claricestarling182
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well your idiot frinends are actually right it is wrong get out of that relationship before you end up dead.... because after that he cant say i love you |
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sam r
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DUMP HIM!!!!
omg, im in a situation with my mum, she beats me, i am now runnig away, i ran away last tues. and im hiding, i cant go bac, im 14yrs old nd she hasnt reported me missing!!!!
she h8 me, and now ive found my dad, its ok, but im still in trouble, my dad has no PR ova me (parential rights) so i cant stay, mum wants me bac!!!! but then i wont no my dad, this is the 4th day with him, longer than last time i ran-away, it lasted 19and a half hours, now its betta, please help me, e-mail me on sam_rance15@yahoo.co.uk xxzoexx |
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dixidan_2000
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You friends are right. leave him now |
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ojja
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No this is not acceptable, and he cannot be a 'nice guy' and a wife beater. Please seek some help |
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days_and_nights
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yes its wrong! Dont let him hit you or anything! How do u really know he loves u! No one should touch a women! U better just go to the police or talk to him! Seriously! If u have children or ur gonna have some, they are gonna see violence and u dont want that for ur kids becuase im one of those children who saw lots of violence! My dad used to hi my mom! She even lost a baby! So becareful and just go to the police even though ur feelings for him are strong! |
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Adrienne
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Is this a joke? I mean come on, how can anyone who beats his wife be a "nice guy"? |
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Zaksta
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I and most people here will think that it is wrong but if you are stupid enough to stay there a keep getting beaten you must think that there is something worth staying for.
You need to weigh up why you stay to offset if it is worth getting hit for. I would doubt it somehow and I am sure that you could fall in love with someone who will treat you properly but it's YOUR choice.
One more thing - I can categorically tell you that nice guys do not hit their wives. |
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mancmonkey
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Jesus, no wonder men think there superior to women! If you are serious, and i very much doubt it, are you so low on self worth and esteem you have to ask its acceptable?! |
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Bill
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He has serious issues, your husband. I stayed with a wife beater for 25 years, I was too afraid to leave. You have to leave him, NOW! He won't ever change, and it will get worse. |
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lou
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it wont get any better my ex husband was the same thats why he is my ex husband. i had enough when he fractured my cheekbone i knew i couldnt keep going on, i have since met a better man who looks after me and has never raised a finger to me. leave before its too late |
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fantasia.
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You obviously know that its wrong and thats why you have come on here to ask. He has a problem so get him to sort himself out. If he doesnt then get out quick before you land up in hospital. You are addicted to him not love him. YouTHINK you love him but once you are away from him for a long time you will realise that you are a victim. Victims often get bonded to their protagnists...you hear of people being kidnapped and they "love" their kidnappers but after being released they realise that they were victims and then start hating that person or persons |
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dungeoness
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you know this is unhealthy,you think you love him,but he has power over you,break free my love. |
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