Family or love:what will you choose?
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Family or love:what will you choose?
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I am from Africa,my Boyfriend is from the Caribbean and we both live in germany.for some reasons i am thinking now about going back to my home country for good.I am finished with the college and i still not have a job yet,i feel like i am wasting my time here and maybe it will be easier for me to find a job in my country.I am homesick.The only problem is my Boyfriend.We are together since 3 years now.He is away for the moment, he is in the army but he is coming back soon.We love each other and before he left we were talking about having a baby.What would you do if you were in my shoes?i am so confused
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Redhead Mom
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When your boyfriend gets back have a honest talk with him and tell how you are feeling.
Maybe he would want to go back to africa with you.
If you love each other things will work out. |
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Woogs
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Unless I was married, I would go home. You are not yet in a fully committed relationship. |
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happier days
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Family.....they'll most likely be in your life a lot longer. J/K
Do what your instincts tell you to do.
Good Luck.
I hope you have a happy life either way. |
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Queen of Beer
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You should go home. Family will always be there for you, boyfriends will not. |
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Nicky
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What do you want in your life? Do you want children? To get married? To work on developing your career? It sounds like you need to sit down and figure what's important for you have in your life, to experience and start figuring out your plan. Life obviously doesn't stick to a schedule, but as long as your road remains open to those things you want, you should be fine. |
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