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Feeling like a broken record.?
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What is to blame? Bad parenting? Technology? The fluoride in the drinking water? Common sense left planet earth?
-When will it sink in that marriage will NOT change a man or a woman into the perfect mate?
-That no one can change anyone else?
-That love has to be shared from both the man and the women for a relationship to stand the test of time?
-That red flags are RED FLAGS and indicator to push on?
-That whirlwind romances rarely make for a lasting relationship, one needs to take the time to get to know one another before jumping the broom?
-That "IF" one takes a cheater back, they have to forgive and let it go and not be surprised if it happens again?
-When will the young realize that youth and marriage are not good bedfellows simply because they still have some growing up to do and their personalities, attitudes, views and goals are apt to change several times by the time they are 25 - 30?
I see the same people here every other day answering and I see us all repeating ourselves over and over and still it seems no one takes any heed. I have better things to do than to watch the Loveboat sink repeatedly so I will bid M&D adieu.
Best wishes to you that hang in there and I hope you manage to save some survivors!
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The second comment of mine was: no one can change anyone else therefore my sracasm was missed in the "saving of anyone" here in M&D. =)
1234 to bad you're not smart enough to know that you and your attitude is a big part of the problems today.
All else: Cheers!
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Ahbleza
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Yes, very much so. But now and then a person reaches out and it feels good to help. When I laugh too much or just get fed up, I change categories to something more uplifting or go read a book.
I used to think it was too bad that our society does not teach the things you have written, but I somehow feel that it would not change things much even if it did. |
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Franky J
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Oh, OK you sound as if your on overload with MD. Hey it happens. Yes things are repeated here daily but I don't think thinking your going to save anyone here is realistic. lol, but it is funny though. Take care! |
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townes
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Yes, it's all the same. I think what's to blame is family-of-origin stuff, mostly. In the very young, lack of experience contributes.
But mostly a trip to an Al-anon or a forced reading of Codependent No More would fix most of the above. |
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1234
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i am certainly not SAVING anybody here. i hate people in general and i do not give a shite about their lives. i read here while i am having breakfast to entertain myself and see how STUPID some people re and how way smarter i am and it makes me feel good. here. honest answer. did u think u were a savior? like jebus? wow, what an ambition |
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Ken
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Do not marry OR co-habitate until you have finished college & have been in a career for 5 or 6 years, then you will have enough "worldly wisdom" to judge if someone is a good potential mate. |
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