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Whitey McCracker
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You go girl. People need to learn to keep their mouths shut.
Don't be ashamed. Your husband will still love you. It will depend on his background and beliefs as to if he will be upset with you. You didn't behave like a lady but you also were not in a lady like situation. If it was a one time thing where you just blew up, don't worry about it. However, if you feel like you have a lot of supressed anger, talk to your husband about it and get help.
Really, don't worry about it. A good marriage can easily weather you kicking someone's butt. |
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KC
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ask him, not us
gl |
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KJ
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if my wife did that, i would worship her every morning, every afternoon, and every night. |
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bzimms
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i could see him being embarrassed for you not being lady like if this was the 19th century... talk to him about it. I'm sure this will become a joke when you reminisce about it... |
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David P
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Human nature, its happens.. and well to tell the truth, its kinda attractive for such a proper woman to soil her oats now and again. |
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Tina
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First of all you had absolutely NO right to hit that woman. NONE! You could be arrested for assault!! No verbal comment to you or about you gave you the right to act like that. Yes I am sure your husband is wondering what the hell happened! I am sure he now feels he does not even know the real you. |
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HALLAL_Kippah-Girl_JPAA
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I think your husband may be thinking about it but we all have our breaking point. You can always talk to him and bring it up as a light conversation like "Wow can believe me this morning, it seems like a crazy dream, I guess I had no idea how stressed I have been feeling lately" |
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schneider2294@sbcglobal.net
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He probably thought it was kind of hot to see you get all Rambo on her a**. |
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Butterfly
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Eh, let it go. He probably was ruiting you on! |
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CBS Network fan
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I don't think he was ashamed. He might have been taken aback becuse he hasn't seen that side of you before. I would be proud of you. |
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yogurt777
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He was probrably just a little shocked at that from you. Or maybe he was thinking some clothes are going to get ripped? Seriously, a lady calls you a name and you assualt her physically? That is what your man was most likely thinking. I doubt this happened as you said it did, because if it did you should have been arrested for assualt and battery.
You need some anger management courses dear if that is all it takes to set you off. |
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Jennie
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Hes probably proud of you. |
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Peace and Love
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id say talk to him about it. he loves you, obviously you are married and has to love you no matter what. tell him how you feel about it and im sure he will understand. |
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Hellevafella
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How am I supposed to know ? ask him... |
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dyna4503
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Wow, I definately think you overreated big time on that one. I think your husband was probably pretty embarrassed by the whole thing. I would just talk to him when you get home tonight and explain why you reacted the way you did. And if you feel horrible about the whole thing, make sure you apologize to him for it. Usually that's all it takes. Good luck! |
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kittykatsback
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Ha ha probably was a turn on....
He probably was imagining the fire hydrant mysteriously turning on and spraying both of you in white tank tops during the fight. |
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fukingruvin76118
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You're Husband probably did not no how to react, to your scuffle at the moment. If it bothered him he would have probably said something to you right then. Just talk to him about it and how he felt. Communication is key , let him know that it was spontainious and that it is not commonplace for you to fight with other women. Show him that you are lady, but can kick some A** when the time comes. |
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Jelise
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You are a 10. |
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iyamacog
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You're right the whole matter was very stupid. You would have been a bigger person by turning your back on her, and walking away. Now had SHE touched YOU, then you had the perfect right to beat the $hit out of her...and walk away proud!
One is not supposed to START something....But rather FINISH it. |
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sweetrhymez21
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He may not be thinking about it. If he is, he is probably going to wait until a better time to talk to you about it. Next time just let it go. Words may bother us but they can't hurt you physically. What if this woman tries to press charges. There are plenty of people who saw the fight. You should turn the other cheek. If you would've just walked away, she would've been left there looking stupid. |
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yeesnaw
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so do grown up people also fight to? dam i cant wait to be old! |
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underneathherskin
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HAHAHAH girl you was on it, its ok things happen. |
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Curious and Cant stand it
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I wouldn't worry about it....but I hope you smacked her hard! |
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shadowdog
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I think you are lucky you didn't get arrested. |
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Shelly
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He probably won't say anything because you stood up for yourself. NICE JOB!!!!!!!! Don't worry about it. You did good! |
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Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess)
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"Well.....right when me and my husband were getting off the train.....she called me a *****. Before you knew it I had started choking and beating the crap out of her. "
Well that was pretty stupid of you. Have you considered anger management classes?
Geeze, if you start choking someone for something as stupid as calling you a name, I'm surprised you haven't been arrested yet.
If I were him, I'd probably be wondering "What the hell did she overreact like that for?!?" |
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claudiacake
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If I were your husband, I would be worried about when the police would be arriving to arrest you (assault and battery), and how much this woman would be suing you for. |
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andy
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Don't worry.he must be proud of you.
you are a well balanced lady |
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uhhhhh....no!
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The important information you left out would be his reaction to this, how did he act after the event, what did he say when you got home?
Sometimes you just gotta beat a b*tch azz, thats just the way it is, he should certainly understand. ☼ |
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Pat
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He didn't say anything because it was an unexpected incident that caught him by surprise. He probably didn't know what to say but might later.
Anyway, if it's just this one incident I bet it goes down as a charming story about you. If he's unsure about it then you have to decide if you are going to tell him "about that side of you" or if you want to just reassure him that it was an isolated incident. In the long run honesty is best. |
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quantumrift
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Well for one thing, VERBAL provocation is not an excuse to beat somebody up. Yea, if you lost it that easy, you may have other anger issues going on (suppressed). I'm sure he was very surprised at your outburst of anger, and rightfully so, he may be concerned that you may at some point turn on him.
Put yourself in HIS shoes. Say you were walking down the street and somebody said something and he just went off pounding on somebody. Wouldn't that worry YOU?
He probably just stood too close to some nut job on the train and you gotta ignore the nut jobs - that is, unless they come after you.
Are you facing any assault charges on this? Because what you committed was ASSAULT and BATTERY, even if she only called you a name. |
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