Follow your head or your heart?
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Follow your head or your heart?
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We've all been there... maybe you ask yourself the question right off the bat, or you end up questioning yourself after 6 yrs (thats me, 3 yrs of dating, married for 3 yrs) This girl has messed up. I know I deserve better and if we get through this... she'll proabably screw me over again. But at the same time...you love her. A.) What would you guys do? 2.) Any advice for leaving a girl you love?
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FarinaS
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why people don't believe in marriage anymore. I think reasonably people get divorce if, your partner cheats, beat you and not providing shelter. So any other prblems, you just have to speak up. but dont wait till its too late! |
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Daniel G
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A. Follow your head. Break up with her
B. Write her a letter explaining why you're leaving, hand it to her, and then talk to her about it. |
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iyamacog
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Difficult decision, since it's apparent your heart is ruling your head at the moment. Take a break, so that you're able to separate and make the distinction between your head, heart, and deal with your emotions. Love doesn't necessarily forgive a screw over......... Best Wishes for the best decision for YOU. |
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maybe this time...
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Wow I hope that you won't get offended by a woman answering. In the first place she "screwed" you over. I don't know how, but obviously enough to hurt you. You seemed to have given her a chance because you love her and she did it again. Throwing out the "I deserve better" a relationship is no relationship if trust has been misused. Tell her that exactly. How can she expect to be given another chance. "Once shame on her, twice for a chance, third time shame on you" Staying with someone who brings you down is no way to live. If she ever loved you she should accept that. Good Luck. |
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Cyn<3
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Follow your head. |
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david scott m
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3 for 3 same girl screwed me over finally said no more 10 yr span but enough is enough |
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Goodyear town
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i think i could take one maybe. but two i don't think so |
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jude
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i find that the heart is deceitful, the head is best to follow when u have a decision to make. the heart keeps u tied with a person maybe when u really shouldn't even be with that person. if it involves any kind of betrayal, u will never feel the same about her again, not ever. i would not trust my heart, and sometimes when we need to leave someone we have to do damage to our own hearts. |
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No More
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It is ok to follow your heart until your head has some concrete reasoning to overrule it. My advice is don't give another year of your life to someone if you are unhappy and think that you can eventually be in a better place. We only get one life and we can't buy back lost time or time given to someone else. |
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engchibs
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sorry well it happens. but ask yourself -have u ever cheated her? was she a virgin when you first met? if your answer is yes to both questions then stay with her but if t is no to both then pliz leave her and move on wth your life... but if the first question is yes and second no follow yr head if first question is no second s ye follow your heart |
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