For a woman who has been cheated on....?

jude

outside influences never help a marriage when your trying to work out problems. friends and families can give the advice that can make or break a marriage. the more she hears the less chance she will work on the marriage and choose to stay with him.

â™¥SEVENâ™¥

LMAO...

Revenge is the sweetest feeling.

Treat others how you want to be treated.

What goes around comes around.

Laugh now, cry later.

Any of these ring a bell???

Good Luck, little boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tia

I think she's suffered enough - she was cheated on and now [husband] is questioning the motives and integrity of her friends!?
She needs her girl time. Regardless of what the friends may think of the husband, at the end of the day, decisions will be made by the wife, not necessarily because she's been peer pressured into something.

Logana

Yes it is a very good idea, if you try and block her friendships you will loose her. It is rare that a friend will advise another friend to leave her husband, especially if they are in relationships themselves. So don't worry and cut her some slack.
Instead or worrying about what her friends are saying about you, work on being the most thoughtful loving husband that you can be, and make it up to her for your infidelity.

Good luck with rebuilding your marriage.

chloe

It's definitely a good idea. Women who have been cheated tend to wonder what was wrong with them. It's good for her to get support from people who know that YOU weren't nice. She probably got cheated on because she stayed home too much and you took it for granted. Let her have some fun now!!! She needs to make some new memories that don't include sitting around thinking about why she slept next to a vacant pillow because you needed to play around.

BeautifulLife07

hmmm honestly they're her friends and she should have time to unwind and relax, for the husband though I would feel bad for him because he's probably paranoid about what she's doing because he himself was guilty once.

HA!

No if she is really working on the marriage she would not be out drinking without her husband at all! she might be just making you think she is working on the marriage and deep down you want to believe it! but she not! you can't blame her friends. she has them hating you for a reason sooo they can encourage what she wants! woman are good that way... you can see right though those woman, they find men they can walk all over and mess around and get away with it! because there husband will blame themselfs say well i should have done this or that! I know my husband is that way! I just could not see though that foggy glass he had me in! but now i am clearing the fog and I see so clearly now!

sassy gal

Probably not, they can plant the seed of destruction. But what can you do? with out becoming the *** hole? sounds like you have a real situation on your hands, I would suggest really working hard to win her respect and her friends respect. Its not going to be an easy task but if you truly love your wife you will make it happen. It sounds as if you really love her. Put your self aside and focus on her she has been hurt, the worst kind of hurt, and its not going to be fixed over night when she comes home, don't give her a reason to leave, and most importantly don't give her a reason to start hating you, hope it all works out, and good luck to you honey PS if you would like you may im me at family_reachout@yahoo.com

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