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For men and women : would you marry your spouse again knowing what you now know about them ?

I was wondering how many people out there would choose to marry their spouses all over again if you could go back in time or would you change it ? Why or why not ?


    




Why not me
Yea I would. I feel if you truly love someone, you are willing to make the sacrifices it takes to make a relationship work. Its not easy, and it takes two. I think the better question would be,- If you could do it all over, what would you have changed about the way your relationship turned out?
Even with the rough times..and every one has them I can't imagine how unfulfilled my life would be without her sharing it with me, Not to mention I wouldn't have my 2 kids, and I wouldn't trade that for anything.


heyrobo
When I look at my wife I wish that I could go back in time to a time when I was younger so that I could marry her and spend an even longer life together. I love her soul and the breath that greets me in the morning, the breath of her life.


Steve E
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I have been married 26 years. I would most certainly marry my wife again. I love her more today than ever. A relationship is the most rewarding thing in the world. If I could go back in time, the only thing I would do different, is ask her to marry me sooner.


"karma"
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I love my husband greatly. I would marry him again but would choose to never meet his family.


Me
well am not married but it be nice to be able to go back - like in the movies 13 going on 30, she got to she what life was like for her.But to answer your question i dont know


NATIVE NEW YORKER
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I WOULD DO THE SAME THING I DID 37 YEARS AGO.
AND REMEMBER, BETTER THE DEVIL YOU KNOW THAN THE DEVIL YOU DON'T KNOW.


destine79
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No. I wouldn't. It isn't a matter of who my husband is. He can be a great person. But he has no regards for anyone but himself. i love the kids he has given me but I spend my days stressed and crying. So no I wouldn't.


SKYDOGSLIM
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yes, we are both very happy together


Summer G
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yes I would i was bless I found my soul mate and I would not change a thing about him I love him the way he is


Your_Star
Surprisingly, yes. Even though I'm not married yet. There's a ton of things that bug me about my bf...but Im not perfect either.


wild_orchid_tx36
Most definitely!


skipper
Unfortunately not....I should have stayed with my X boyfriend. He was my love that I should be spending the rest of my life with...but I was stupid and lost him. If you have your life long partner, the one that you are meant to grow old and happy with, don't ever let go..


AsianPersuasion :)
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Yes, I would, in a heart beat. I love him more with each passing day and could not imagine life without him.


☆BTriX☆
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Yes. Things just get better with time.


toff
Absolutely, without a second thought!! After more than 27 years it's still the greatest thing that has happened to me.


clownfever
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Yes I would marry him again. I think I appreciate him more now than ever. There have been times that I may have answered this differently but those thoughts don't last more than a few minutes in the heat of an argument.


chcuda9
yes , would always marry him no matter wat...
for a simple reason that hes so simple..well sure not a simpleton...hes always on guard chkin i might be controlling him...we fight like cats & dogs...but at the end of the day...i can feel his heart say that he loves me wat ever...even when he says he doesnt...& i really trouble him ..for him i never grew after age10...lol....i do watever i wish he doesnt restrict my thoughts or feeling..the only thing he expect is a happy family....he respects my feelings & so do i...
well can just go on & on bout him...but to tell u in one line...he taught me most part of love & to deal with life..which i before never believed in

i would sure marry him again & again...well he wants me dead..lol am i a brat :-p ummmmmm!! hes lovely


helene m
married twice, divorced twice.... NO NO NO NO NO NONONONONONnonononnonononoooooooooooooo *gasp*


nwnativeprincess
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MOST DEFINITELY, HE HAS SHOWN TOTAL COMMITMENT TO OUR RELATIONSHIP AND OUR FUTURE. HE EDUCATES HIMSELF SO HE IS NOT BLINDSIDED BY THE TURMOILS OF MARRIAGE.
EXAMPLE: I AM GOING THRU PERI-MENOPAUSE, MY SWEETHEART WENT ON LINE AND RESEARCHED IT, WITHOUT MY PRODDING. HE NOW KNOWS WHAT TO EXPECT OR HAS A BETTER IDEA.
HE ALSO READS SELF HELP BOOKS, TO BE BETTER PREPARED.


?
Being that I'm currently separated and will probably get a divorce, I'd have to say no I wouldnt marry him again. If I could go back and change the hands of time, I wouldnt have married him at all. I would never cross a burning bridge twice.


Boo
Yes i would. He is a good man and a good daddy.


Stacey
NOPE! It was a bad time in my life and thought it was the best thing for me to do. Now I realize it wasnt. He's a great person but I realize now I married him for the wrong reasons. Now we have a 4 year old daughter. Soooo........ I'll be here for a while.


chastityelizabeth
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I am not married, but I wanna see all the answers....good question!!!


rich2481
NO WAY, If I went back in time with no knowledge about her then I would say yes,, but if I went back with the knowledge today,, no


lisa
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H2LL F3CKING NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO sorry but if he would drop dead today i would dance all night long.


boricua_2290
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Well yes I would,even though my husband and I have being trough hell and back and I tell you why,we both have done wrongs to each other and hurt each other but everytime it was time for each other to come and rescue each other we would do it for one another no matter what the situation was,once I left my husband got in to a bad relationship and I was being treated wrong and I call my husband and he went from Florida to Philadelphia to get me and brought me home and help me get over a lots of things,and now he needed me to be there for him to help him get custody of the daughter he had with another woman because the little girl is being abused,and I helped him by being there for him and taking care of now three kids including our two beutiful boys... so I guess trough this bad times and storms we always end up together or helping each other anyways, so my answer is yes I would marry him all over again.He is my rock and I am his, nobody's relationship is perfect the sign of love is to always be there for that person no matter how mad or pisted off you are with him or her.


beckie
if i could go back in time i wouldn't marry my husband, i probably wouldn't get with him at all. our marriage is okay, but its been a bumpy ride...a lot of our life was wasted even though its okay now, so i'd have to pass if i got a second chance


PBnJ
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Absolutely. But, when taking the important step in a relationship to solidify it with marriage-both individuals need to be completely sure of their feelings. That's the exact reason why people need to pace themselves in relationships. I am a firm believer in maintaining a strong friendship in the midst of the actual partnership! With a friendship, communication just falls into place-communication to me is a glue that can hold together or break apart a relationship! Feelings should grow stronger during the course of it all! By putting all of your cards on the table beforehand could ultimately keep the skeletons from escaping a closet later on down the road. By being honest and upfront about lifestyles, etc...you can avoid negative issues that surface from secrets/lies.


bradthepilot
yep


jackbauer
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With such lovely kids, yes definitely. I don't think there is anyone in the world who would have made it easier than my wife has. So yes definitely. Great question though!





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