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For the women. Im a married man and every time we visit my wifes sister?

im not sure if she's flirting or im reading to much into it. When we stand and talk she is constantly rubbing her butt. She showers and walks around me in a towel. She constantly jump around with no bra on when she plays with my kids and bends over in front of me. Once she new i was sitting in a chair and could see up the stairs and then she came out of her bedroom in a thong took a pair of pants off of a bench and bent over to put them on, i could see everything. I'm certainly not complaining about this she is very beautiful.


    




mighty_power7
doesn't matter if she's flirting with you or not. you shouldn't be looking back at her! if you want to stay faithful to your wife, cover your eyes when her sister's around. and if you really want to evade the temptation, talk to your wife's sister and tell her that you would appreciate her being a little more decent around you.


yorkiecake
She is very beautiful? You're not complaining? You have a wife & kids. Be loyal. It's obvious she is lonely & wants attention.


Indi81
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I'd say she is a skank - if she does this to her sister's husband think of how many other people that have nailed that!!

Don't you feel bad about enjoying it when it is your wife's sister

I feel sorry for your wife she really lucked out with you and her sister.


MRose
Talk to your wife about it... have her find out whats going on.


j3z7kd1j09aj
she seems like jelous from her sister. whatever happend don't ever get tricked by your desire and do something that will regret. if you ever did anything with your wife sister, then u should know that your marriage will be destoryed and ur wife and her sister relation will be destroyed as well.


Justlookin
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Whooooooa dude, back up....you're entering very dangerous territory. You're married remember?? She might be beautiful, but she's also a tease......and not a very good sister to your wife. Any woman that would come on to her sisters husband like this is nothing but a skank. If she's doing this to you, just think of how many others have "gone before you". Stop looking and teasing yourself.....the girl is a pig.


littlechrismary
She's a tramp. Keep your eyes to yourself.


Binker
Sounds like you are trying to get some sort of "go for it, dude" but in reality you should steer clear.

It could be a test set up between ur wife and her sister to see how faithful you really can be.

Or maybe she gets kicks out of knowing you want her but can't have her.

OR maybe she just feels comfortable walking around her own house how she wants (which she has every right to) and probably doesn't assume you're gonna be a perv and be checking her out when she's playing with your CHILDREN!

Take a deep breath, go take a cold shower and steer clear.


Sweet n Sour
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Don't go visit your sister in law anymore.


ME
She must enjoy having "power" over men and to her, you're just another man. She's not being very considerate to her sister, though. Does she act like this when your wife is around???


RADIATION
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Tell your wife.. or it is just an affair waiting to happen, however hopefully you have the faithfulness and self control not to give into her


nemesyn
Sounds like the woman could either just be oblivious (VERY unlikely, naturally flirtatious or plain old insecure (enough to bounce around your in law for crying out loud). In the end it's most important what YOU do about it and if it bothers your wife. Your marriage, your kids, that's probably more important that thongs.


Lady Hewitt
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I think she is flirting and falunting herself in front of you... You need to ask her to stop and stop looking and lusting... You are married for goodness sakes.


Laura
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Sounds as though your sister-in-law is a flasher......and it sounds like you are enjoying it..............


chylie p
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yeah she wants you....but if you love your wife you will stay away from that....if your wife questions too much about why you don't want to go anymore then your gonna have to tell her and don't think for a second their won't be a cat fight


smilingtalker_au
If you want to stay married you had better stop going over to visit. Tell your wife what you think is happening and ask her to stay with you if you have to visit the sister. You just have to make sure that this bad sister knows there is no way she's getting you.


pinpin
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The way you described her and the way she acted in front of you, she's probably flirting. Everything is under your control. Avoid her as much as possible. Being beautiful doesn't mean you have all the rights to take advantage of her though she's doing it voluntarily. Think of your kids!


someone's mom
You are playing with fire and will soon get burned.


hilo
wow that sounds bad. But then agin maybe she is just comfertable around you. I would say that you should not touch it could turn into a jerry springer show and we all know what that will turn into. dam thats bad.


bad luck
dont go there alone. She is Evil.


toxic21
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Move away from the sister. She is clearly trying to tempt u into sleeping with her!! If u do believe u jumping to conclusions, confront her, &see what her reaction is.


lola
Consider talking to your wife. There is a possibility that you may appear to be asking for it or totally misinterpreting the situation. So put close attention to the way you pose questions or make comments. Here are some suggestions:
- I'm very unsure about touching this subject, but I feel I need to talk to you about some incidentces.
- Can you please help me with this? I may be misinterpretting this but the other day, your sister did this. Should I be concerned?
- I feel uncomfortable around your sister. I may be going crazy but she's done some things I find inappropriate.
- I feel I'm being placed in a compromising position because
- Let me be candid with this. I may be totally way out of line, but...
God forbid anything were to happen (accusations) and you hadn't talked to your wife. You'd be on the losing end. I had it happen twice to me. I didn't wait for the third. Once could be a fluke. You know your wife. Talk to her in her words. Best of luck to you.


dizko
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none
sounds like she wants to freak you. but beware of the consequences!


emO gUrl
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ok well first off..do you love your wife? second its your sis-in-law and if she's doing things that make you uncomfortable then bring it up with your wife unless you are enjoying it? and last it shouldnt matter if youre unsure she's flirting because she is family and your wife's sister.


Lilah L
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OK this is serious there is a number of things maybe your looking for all of this waiting to see what you can get a glimpse of next and she notices that and is feeding into it i am not saying she is right for doing so but maybe you should ignore her more and or talk to her ask her not to walk around you in a towel when your around wear proper artier that she is making you feel uncomfortable and warn her if you have to that if she does not stop your are going to tell your wife. and if it comes to that point that you have to tell your wife you make sure you tell her you thought it was in your own head tried to talk to her sister and she did not stop and you just felt it was disrespectful to her so you want her to talk to her. and leave out the fact that you "certainly not complaining about this because she is very beautiful " that could get you slapped lol good luck. By the way how old are the sisters?


motherkc
...stop looking--don't go for the bait. The lady is a TRAMP!!!


Raquel C
First, if you love your wife you need to sit down and tell her. Then you both as a couple sit and tell the sister-n-law that this must stop.


Beautiful
mike...marriage is not only about love..but also about trust..respect and understanding.u have to respect your wife..talk to her about it.U must not cheat on her...not with her sister...not with anyone else.Ignore your sister in law.It's good for all of u.Don't u see cheating brings only pain and hurt?What would u have done if yr wife had cheated on u with your brother?would u have been able to take it?cherish and value what u have.good luck:)


ryan's girl
Tell your wife. You may not want to go around her if she is doing that.





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