For those married?

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I completely trust my spouse of 7 years

Linda Lou

you have a loving marriage...good for you...I was married for 20 years..my marriage was like that very trusting and very loving...a rare find...cherish it. I am now widowed for the past 9 years....so cherish every moment you have...good luck to you

banks

I felt that way about my ex husband. But, I found out he was cheating on me. I took the time to understand the real issues and forgave him. Even though we are divorced, we are still friends. Every person is different. I believe in true love and think there are many men out there that are trustworthy. Everyone has the cability to lie, cheat, steal or kill. Doesn't mean they will. I agree that it is too bad for people to not be able to let go of past issues and live free.

TRUTH HURTS OOO K

You know his views on cheating!?!? What do you think he is going to do tell you the truth?!??! I'm alive 45 years and I have never met a man that doesn't cheat. You want someone you can trust completely adopt a dog!!! Good luck and keep trusting him!!! When I hear women like you that think their man would never cheat those are the ones that get cheated on the most!!!

butterfliesRfree

Married 25 years this April and yep!!!! Same here -- and females HAVE been all over him -- hey, they have good taste but I HAVE THE MAN :)

OK Faith

Yeah, I had a husband like that. I felt the same way about him. Everything you said about your husband described mine to the T. After many years of marriage he cheated. Guess you never really know.

nextdoorneighbour67

It is an unfortunate fact that the statistics of infidelity are not accurate because people will not admit to having cheated on their spouses. It is a moral issue and noone wants to be viewed in a bad light. I have been married for 8 years and no I don't trust my husband not to cheat, infact I know better. It doesn't make me feel any differently toward him because I have cheated myself and frankly, it wouldn't have ever happened if he hadn't gone there first. Now we are like roommates but we stay together. I am glad you feel confident in your relationship, just don't be blinded by the words that your spouse tells you because sometimes people say the exact opposite of what they are doing or thinking.

Lisa b

I love my husband, I trust him and I respect him.

loveradsrn

i had a great husband who loved me with all his heart till the day he died

orphan annie

I am 26 and my husband is 24. We will be married 2 years in March. I completely trust my husband, I wish that I could say the same for him. We started our relationship cheating on our significant others and that has harmed his trust, I guess, even though, he was cheating too. Actually, he has cheated on alot more women than I have men.

Anna22

every girl should know a guy looks at a girl whether she is his wife or just some girl walking along, but cheating is a different story, i have been married for six years and i can say trusting your spouse is a must in a marriage, and if he is a good guy and he treats you right then you should have nothing to worry about

1st Baby<BR>Due July 15, 2

I'm with you!
Me and my hubby Two years. and we trust eachother!

thunderintheheavens

Oh heck yes. My wife was cheated on by her ex. I've been cheated on by my previous girlfriends. We both know what it's like to be cheated on and we just know that we won't do that to each other.

Silence

Plenty of people thought exactly like you did, then one day found out they had been lied to and that everything they had believed was a lie. Everyone begins a relationship with trust, but only a foolish person will trust 100% in anyone. That means you would never question odd behvior or think anything was wrong, even when common sense told you different. I'm not trying to upset you but in reality you have no idea how he thinks or acts when your not around. If you don't think he is cheating that's good, and hopefully he never does. People tend to put on a very good front when they're doing something they don't want to be caught at.

lastminute girl

I would say right now I completely trust him and we have been married for over 2 yrs. Not very long but he and I are in love and still working on our relationship. But I can't say that there will never be temptation or that we're perfect people. I have had thoughts like what if he cheated... because his dad wasn't a good husband... but I know that he loves me and wouldn't ever do anything like that. Boundaries in friendships are very important to both of us.

GGirl

I know a really super great guy who sounds just like you described your husband . He is a great dad, wonderful provider, church going, wonderful husband, and so on. Him and his wife had been married 19 years. Guess what? He cheated. Everyone is human and everyone can make mistakes. Even people who dont set out to do so. My friend didnt set out to cheat. He set out to help someone who needed it. Then something innocent lead to giving a number, then the number lead to something else that was innocent and before you know it it wasnt innocent anymore.
So Im happy that you have a wonderful guy. He sounds great. He probably never in a million years will cheat on you. However, things can happen. I think what some people are applying on here though is just never say never cause it could bite you in the ***.

Johnny Guano

if you are so secure, why are you on here asking that question? why do you need affirmation from computer strangers? Why do you need to boast of your so called relationship, if it were not tenuous? It is true you can never trust another person completely...you can't even trust yourself completely. Happy people generally are those that overlook, or cannot face reality. There is something called the abridgement of hope, that happens to everyone, me, you etc. when the blinders are removed and we see the ugliness of the world...and wait for the hand of the devil to rise up out of the ground.

Tapestry6

I find trust much more important than being 'in love' what good is love without trust?
Been over 25 years and yes I still trust him.

BlondieW

i trust my husband 100% i know he loves me and would never ever cheat on me. i dont think all guys cheat and its sad how many do cheat but my husband would never.

emland

I've been married almost 22 years and I trust my husband. I think there are more of us out here than you think.

chevyray8

I have been married 7 years and I trust my wife 100%

Jennifer M

My husband and I have been married for 3 years and I trust him with my heart and my life. I know in my heart of hearts that he would never cheat on me. I know that sounds naive, but I really do believe that he is truly noble and will be faithful to me. Marriage is tough, but it's worth it.

Jacob

You have a good husband that you trust, insn't that all you need to know? That YOU have a happy and faithful relationship. I would trust my wife not just to stay loyal to me, but with my life. It looks like you feel the same way about your husband. Many relationships that are meant to be life long turn out to be great with loads of honesty, except for some exceptions. My point is, you trust YOUR husband when it comes to the fact that he WON'T cheat on you. What's the question?

Melissa

Married for many years. I completely trust my husband. Good for both of us! :-)

Home Is Where The Heart Is

Well I'm not sure what the question is , or if you are just making A statement. But you are right if you cant trust the one person whom you give all your love and trust to and they deceive you then who do you Trust.! But from experience I had some issues when we were younger , and I now do think that he would never ever do that again. We have been together for 15 years now , and we were High school sweethearts , so you know how that is , when your young and feel like you didn't get to have fun with others , but I do know where you are coming from , and it is horrible that the ones you love do that.

Paul D

This is a classic example of what I term, fear of the unknown.Why, after all these precious 17 years you would decide on a witch hunt of infidelity.Its hard because of we live in world were the media sells fear.If you are happy then thank your Gods and be content that you got a good man. Enjoy your marriage for you were meant for each other.

thanks to our brave troops,

i have been married for 23 years,,
and i can say that my husband doesn;t trust me but he has every right too,, he says he does but i can see the dought in his eyes at times when i am late or something,,

i have strayed and he caught me with a man that i loved and still do , old loves are hard to let go,,
i trust him with all my heart,
i ask myself how could i throw all this away again and i never could,,we have worked soo hard to get back what we lost,,
it is never worth the cheating,,

Rudi A

Married for 21yrs and our trust in one another is like our
marriage, rock solid, and you can't get any better than
that, and that is why we are so happy with each other.

omaja

i haven't been with my wife for 17 years, but i trust her completly, and i wouldnt ever question her, after being married only 6 months.

you cant put a time limit on trust, ill trust her till the day i die

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