GETTING DIVORCE AFTER 2 YEARS?

My wife and I got married 2 years ago and we were very happy... but for the past year i had been treating her very bad and walking out....i own a business and stress on that so i take it out on her.....after my birthday she slapped me with divorce paper and said that she was not happy anymore and she wasnt in love with me cause i pushed her away. I need help...im not a quitter! i dont want to get a divorce but she does. any help?
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My wife and I got married 2 years ago and we were very happy... but for the past year i had been treating her very bad and walking out....i own a business and stress on that so i take it out on her.....after my birthday she slapped me with divorce paper and said that she was not happy anymore and she wasnt in love with me cause i pushed her away. I need help...im not a quitter! i dont want to get a divorce but she does. any help?.............

ok...so she did try to talk to me but everytime i wouldnt listen......because of what was going on.....my fault!....we lived together and she moved out!!....what can i do to get her back?

MummaKins

Too little, too late!

Is there any wonder? You say you're not a quitter yet say you walked out on her in the past. I think this was inevitable!

alialoggi

Next time, you wont take out your stressors on your wife! You don't take them out on your clients, when you are stressed, do you? Why would you treat your wife this way. It doesn't matter if you quit or not, she did. She can't trust you to be civil to her when stressed. Hopefully, you learn from this and treat people well.

waiting for baby

you have realized that you were horrible but did nothing about it
that alone is ground for divlorce
maybe you can talk to her about getting counseling and that might change her mond
Good luck

Kate B

I know this wont be any help but...
Dude, you're screwed.
Get the divorce and move on with your life.

yoadriannejohnson

you should have thought of that before you started to push her away, she isn't in love with you anymore just get your divorce and more on take it has a lesson learn not to treat your spouse that way.

Douglas B

One thing about marriage, it takes two to work it out. You can say all you want to her but if she is detemined I don't see much you can do. The bigger thing is that you need to work on what is bugging you to make you walk out rather than stay and work those differences out.

heyy

try talkin 2 her...n tellin her u have been in a stressful situation...i hope she understandz...gud luck

teenie

What did you do to get her in the first place, send her flowers to her work with a card saying I LOVE YOU. It's the little things that you wouldn't think meant anything that means so much to us women. If you think real hard you can come up with something.

â™¥B@BY~GURLâ™¥

WELL IT COULD BE TO LATE BUT THE ONLY WAY TO KNOW FOR SURE IS TO SPEAK TO HER AND EXPLAIN YOURSELF TRY TO FIX THIS MESS

R.M.G!

Counseling! But ONLY if you are serious.
ALSO, "anger management". Seriously!

(WOMAN)

Sorry to hear that but seems like you 2 grew apart and didn't deal with it. I would say she's being unfair for just showing up with divorce papers instead of talking to you about your problems unless she DID talk to you and you didn't listen. Anyway, just tell her you don't want to divorce her and that you really want to work things out but if she doesn't feel the same way probably is for the best not to pressure her because it's going to fail if you do. I wish good luck to you and hope things work out for you 2.

EDIT: i see that everybody is blaming you but did she even try to talk to you about the way you were or things were? because if she didn't then it's her fault too. In a marriage it takes 2 PEOPLE to work it out not one.

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