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Getting my man to listen?

How do you get him to communicate and not ignore you when you argue?


    




autumnrainy
make consquences for when he doesn't listen, whether theyre major, or small, he will notice and start learing...it worked for me = )


Mike the man
don't argue try having a conversation and timing is everything so pick a appropriate time


Shelly
dont yell at him, talk civilized cool down before you talk... dont say anything stupid


Erin
Dont argue... why would he listen to someone who is just yelling at him for things he's doing wrong. Whats the issue? i need more info to answer better.

To communicate just do a few things he will appericate, make his fav dinner, watch his fav tv show, sit behind him on the couch and rub his back a little, but dont try to talk then just let him relax. then when your laying in bed, ask him things, about work or anything. Dont put him down, just ask and if he is comfortable he'll share things with you. Be his partner not his enemy,


Fred D
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Try not to allow conversations to become arguments.
The confrontational approach is rarely the best way to get someone to pay attention and take your point of view on board. Try talking to him about what's bothering you when you both have a cool clear head - and don't let it escalate into a clash of wills.


mico cruz
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communicate


Elevate
My boyfriend and I tend to argue a lot due to the fact that he won't talk to me when I want to talk about things in the first place.

I'd rather do it calmly without quarrel, but I think that starting a big argument over it actually gets him to listen. Sort of.


Miracle
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do something for yourself like go shopping or go somewhere and stay gone for awhile. then when he says where were you or when did u get that outfit say baby i tried to tell u about it but you just ignored me. I did that to my man and now when I have something to say he listens. good luck


Shannon
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You start by not arguing.
Get marriage counseling.


Bulls Market
by finding another man


Dee
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put a t.v on your head





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