Girls, what would you do?

Mrs. M

I would have a serious talk with him and let him know that you will get a divorce if this doesn't stop now...If he truly loves you he will stop..if not then divorce him

mcnees79

Bottom line, that is an inappropriate comment. He is lying though. He does not think of her like a sister, my brother would never say anything like that to me....eeewwww. He is cheating on you. If you want to save your marraige, stop fooling yourself and get yourselves into marraige counseling, and on behalf of women everywhere.....STOP BELIEVING THAT LINE OF CRAP!!!!!!

AtiaoftheJulii

File for divorce. Look at this way. If you still love him, in love with him and can't live without him . Would you send messages like that to a friend?

smile4u

He wants his cake and eat it to. He is lying. Its a serious game he is playing. Get counseling with him. Set rules if you stay with him. Good luck.

mml619

ok, listen to what you jsut asked. he is full of crap. should you leave, no. you should try to work it out. but he needs to be on a very short leash and if he even thinks about texting another woman tell him you will cut off his fingers!!

gemini22

Those text messages were for real. You don't say something like that as a joke. I would go see a counselor and try to work it out first. If counseling doesn't help then I would get a divorce.

mrssmokestack003

If he loves you ...He should have some RESPECT for you. That was just WRONG. And ,in my opinion,you have stayed 2minutes more TOO LONG. Get A Lawyer...And move on with your life,hun. Im sorry this happened to you..Take Care!

blondie

Cmon do you tell your friends you have a spot in your bed for them?Get real he isn't talking about sleeping i can tell you that!!And he has the balls to say he loves you and cant live without you after you finding that stuff out!!He is a real looser,and the best thing for you to do is divorce his butt,no telling who else he has said this too or even has done it cmon you don't need us telling you that you should already know what to do!!Good luck and hopefully you will be smart and tell him to hit the road!!

Sad&Lonely

I am kind of in your same situation and I am packing and getting out as soon as I can... I think you should do the same...

i know you said girls...but my advice...he's cheating and trying to cover it up with you! don't believe him....ask more questions and get to the bottom of it before it gets out of hand! good luck!!

Suzie Q

Do you love him?
Are you willing to share you bed and man with another women?

You could have the text messaging turned off by your carrier (did this for our 15yr old daughter...can't send or receive messages).

Tell him to stop regardless of the feelings. If he doesn't, file for divorce (you can charge it to HIS credit card).

Expect to pay between $1500-$3000 (retainer only...about 10 hrs of work) for an uncontested divorce (could be more according to the individual attorney)...the more you call, email, and visit, the more the divorce will cost.

Sorry for your predicament :(

nanny2

Hes a liar and a cheat get rid of him.

daisie

he obviously now knows you know. ask questions and don't give up. Good luck!

steph

something seems fishy to me.. kind of a weird joke to have with someone he thinks as a sister..

I'm just me

When he said that it was just a joke....that's a cover-up. He's trying to save his ***.

Kitty

I would leave... He lied this time, he will lie again.

sweet smile

I would say you need to work on it with counselor, but the problem is he is a liar, the biggest problem you got before you can go further is get the truth from him.

xtremejen01

i would have some serious doubts about that whole situation being sister-like, my brother would not joke about that! i would talk to him and tell him you feel that he's being dishonest and see where you can go from there. perhaps consider counseling

akristel2003

Press him for the truth.

lurio031991

Spare yourself more heartache leave him. He is lying. He is a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater. He won't stop this behavior. it is a game to them. take yourself out of the game. believe me i know what the game is. it will be a continuous cylce until you stop it. until you take yourself out of the game. leave him and find someone who will love you and only you.

pessimoptimist

Some joke! Your husband either has a weird sense of humor, or he's been caught with his pants down! Talk to the co-worker, that ought to help clear things up. I do mean talk, not a confrontation with all sorts of screaming and accusations and high drama. If she says it's just flirting and all in fun, then work things out. This is a bit much for playful flirting and hurtful to you. By the way, why were you reading your husband's messages? Were you already suspicious?

tabatha1333

Maybe try counseling and wait awhile until the divorce, if he keeps it up and you keep seeing those type of text messages then yeah get a divorce or at least a separation.

Zelda

Throw all his stuff out in the front lawn and set it on fire!

Midnight Blue

Don't be fooled by his lies. I know a guy who even pretened that the text messages he received wern't his. (Wrong Number). His wife bought it though. Don't let yourself be taken advantage of. If they are receiving and sending messages you can bet it's not a sister thing.

lonnie_m_d

Well....Uhhhh, Ummmm, Daaaa,,,,,I....aaaa,,,,well....this is,,,,as I was saying......Here is ....ummmm....the deal is....If we were just friends.....then,,,,well my sister and I....Ohhhh...Now its me....Just think about it......aaaa....well....that is absured....

Men have a secret defence...it is called

Deny

Deny

Deny....

If it didnt happen, then you can not belive it!!!

It is a lie...He is toast....Don't belive a thing this lieing pig is saying....Listen to your heart!!! Use your head...

I hope this helps,

Lonnie

Lyne B

you two need to talk...

and you need to throw him out... and go find another bed with a spot for his co-worker - how rude of him.. and quite disrespectful

?Whiskey Girl?

If hes talking to someone like that and he says he looks at her like a sister then he has more problems then you think...We all know that hes laying ...So leave him your better off with a new love then with a cheater and a lire

Tanya G

if he loved you he wouldnt send those text messages. most likely hes already been with this girl. obviously he has her number because hes texting her so like i said most likely hes been with her. hes just saying he loves you because hes unsure wheter he wants you or her. id definitely leave him. if he cant be faithful now...what makes you think he will be later!

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